My friend and her bf just broke up, and since I used to be friend with him, I start talking to him since he's in my class. From the very begining, I made it clear that he better not start liking me again (He used to like me 4 yrs ago but I rejected him). And in just about 3 weeks later, he start saying that he began to like me even when I warned him not to.
I mean, I could care less about what he thinks, but my friend still haven't gotten over him...
So....how can I make him stop liking me without starting to avoid him and completely ignore him again (since he's in my class, I don't want to resort to that...) I want to stay friends with him but I just don't want him to see me as anything other than a friend...
2007-09-21 00:06:16 · 12 answers · asked by Cookie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
One method I already tried is start talking about how I think another guy is hot and asked him for advice, but apparently, it doesn't work (he couldn't care less about whether I like him or not) but he insist that liking me is his own will and there's nothing I can do -___-
2007-09-21 00:09:52 · update #1
What does he like about you? Ask yourself that question and change it while you're around him! What didn't he like about his ex girlfriends?
If he likes the way that you dance, then don't dance that way near him. If he likes the way that you talk to him, then talk to him differently.
You really can't change the fact that he likes you or not but if he thinks that you are someone that he has on a pedestal then break his opinion of you by making it look like you aren't "perfect".
2007-09-21 00:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Magdelena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he not care about u admire some one..... then let him like u is no harm..... in every countries there is no rules that some one can not like some one if the person doesn't like him or her.....
maybe is other way of happiness for being love by some one... ^^
or in front of him date with some one look for a new boy friend instead of treating him friend.... use your extra time to do your own business...
2007-09-21 08:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by some_one_with_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In fact, theres nothin that you can do to stop him loving u, IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU. because what ever you try to do to make him hate you you wont succed, he cannot find anythin wrong about you, only if he loves the real you and if not there are lot of things you can do and you know that
2007-09-21 07:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your dating a great guy now,(you don't need to give details 'cause it's private)& won't be able to spend much if any time with him outside of school,& your friend needs support right now 'cause she's having a hard time.
2007-09-21 07:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
AVE NO CONTACT OR DO STUFF TO ANNOY HIM SWEAR AND BURP TRUMP WEAR WOT HE DISLIKE.ALTHOUGH DONT ALWAYS WORK ONCE BOY LIKED ME I DID VERETHING TO PUT HOM OFF HE GOT OFF ONIT.IN THE END I FOUND OTHER FREINDS AND NEW BOYFREIND YOU CANT BE ANY CLEARER THAN THAT TELL IM U ONLY WANT FREIND NOT BYFREING.DO GIRLY THINGS WERE HE CANT BE INVOLVED HE WILL GROW BORED,OR GET INJUNCTION IF HE STALKS YA
2007-09-21 07:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by sallyaboulter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have a boyfriend (but make sure he doesn't know who it is so he can't ask them). Even if he likes you he can't do much if he thinks you're dating someone else.
2007-09-21 08:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he is going to like you, do it from a distance because you do not want any part of that situation!!!
2007-09-21 07:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to ask his buddies what being relegated to the "friend zone" means.
2007-09-21 07:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some of his habbits and tell him how much you dislike the people with these habbits.... he'll not dare to ask you out....
u'll be safe and let him keep on liking you...it doesnt make any difference...
2007-09-21 07:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by titu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be friends, no harm in being liked.
2007-09-21 07:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋