my friend and i r fighting. im really mad at her since she's da 1 hu started da fight. she's a backstabber, weirdo(she laughs at everything)and a crybaby wannabe(she cried 4 breaking a ruler and i think she is trying to copy me original style). but i wanna be friends again. she already said sorry to me but since i was too angry that tym, i didn't forgive her yet. she also blamed my other friend for her mistake. but now we hav been fighting fo the past 2 weeks.now i think shes mad at me for not forgiving her. i ignore her and she igores me at well. wat will i do to save our friendship! help me!
2007-09-20 21:21:59 · 14 answers · asked by ♥chili JBP fanatic♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It will in time heal. Just bare with it and don't play the "drama". If she is truly your friend she will get over everything. Ya'll sound like sisters almost...just let her pout and have her time...She will come around.
2007-09-20 21:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, stop the drama. Go to her and tell her you are sorry that you did not accept her apology initially. Tell her that you miss her as a friend and that you are tired of fighting with her. Tell her that if this situation happens again, you will forgive her right away. Then don't ever mention why you were mad at her in the first place.
2007-09-21 04:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by lordmisrule2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u 2 should talk, u noe talk until all ur frustrations come out nd u'll b able 2 forgive her again! she already tried 2 say sorry first but u didn accept it so dis time u should try n go n make peace with her. even though u n her r fighting she's ur best friend!
i almost lost a friend 1ce cuz i gossiped behind her back, but it only took 1 week until we forgave each other. cuz without her i felt soo lonely! like dere wuz no 1 2 talk 2. so i think u should give ur frend a second chance.
2007-09-21 04:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by caller-gurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesnt sound like a healthy relationship. I'd just act indifferently, be civil to each other. it sounds like she still wants to be friends but your reaction has put her nose out of joint. im guessing you'll be friends again soon if thats what you want...just be friendly..from a distance to start with. Or if you want quicker results Just say 'we need to talk' NOW and go from there.
2007-09-21 04:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say she is a backstabber yet you want to save your friendship? This friendship is not worth saving.
2007-09-21 04:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dave 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should 4give her since she's ur fwenz...everybody deserve a second chance.why dont u ask her face 2 face y she kept trying 2 be u.maybe she thinks that ur co0l so she wants 2 be like u.dont be so ego or else u will lose ur fwenz.
2007-09-21 05:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by nAbilaVinGe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... why don't you type with real words in a normal, English sentence... If you want some advice make it easy and understandable for us to read.
2007-09-21 04:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is she worth to save the friendship?
if so, treat her like when you two r still friends, act like nothing has happened and show you r not angry with her anymore.
if im u, i may not wanna b her friend anymore... =_="
2007-09-21 04:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by soshsiao 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you yearn for something that she cant give you. i was friends with a girl that was very much like that and i still wish for her to be my friend, but i realize that i'm way better off without her, and i think youre better off without this girl in your life. Be friends with other people, love them and you'll get over this negative girl!
2007-09-21 04:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by hotsurfer55 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her.
The friendship matters to you or it doesn't.
She apologized - you accept her apology. Problem solved.
2007-09-21 04:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by Theresa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋