Friends - September 2007

2007-09-19 21:53:40 · 18 answers · asked by debbie c 2

i love a girl n also i proposed her a month back.We are very close to each other. When i proposed her she said she already has a boyfriend and i being just a god friend. Even though, when she meets me now, many of a times she meets me for monetary sake. Please do tell me even if she has got a boyfriend is it good to take money from me each and every time. Many of times we both go to shopping as well while she has never been with her boyfriend.And in monetary case i cant say no to her.What should i do?

2007-09-19 21:17:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a group of people at school that I became fairly close to during a field experience at school recently. Because we shared this expirence, I feel close to them. However, I often get the eerie feeling that they dont like me and worse that they talk s***about me when I am not there. I am not just being paranoid; I am not easily offended or overly sensitive. The people in question all pass themselves off as being so "open minded and non judgemental" yet really actually are very close minded and I can tell judge me constantly. I do love them as people very much and enjoy hanging out with them otherwise. I have tried to talk to them about it and they blow it off. How do I know what is really going on?. Its so annoying...

2007-09-19 21:15:44 · 4 answers · asked by Meese 1

I went into work yesterday and my manager (a woman) and this other co-worker (a girl) [manager's about 30 and the girl's about 20 I think, I'm 19 if that matters at all].

And I walked into work (fast food place), they were sittin in the manager's office and the manager handed me the drive-thru headset thing. then I turn to walk off and a couple seconds later, she said "Hi Justin." and I said "Huh?" Even though I heard her the first time. and she said "Whats up?" And that was it. I could tell them two were talking something about me by the way she was talking to me, but i dont know what.

2007-09-19 21:11:18 · 1 answers · asked by Oscar H. 1

say u die.. left a will saying u dont want nothing to do with family members.. do police still contact them and eventualy hand the body over to family members?

and is there always a funeral if you die? what if u left in the will that u dont want a funeral? and dont want anyone to know that u passed away?

2007-09-19 20:47:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who is otherwise a good friend and very valued, who does not know I would be there for them when they need me, yet they do not trust me enough to ever live around them, although it seems they would consider me a good friend, this bothers me, it makes me feel as I am not judged worthy, and even though I have my own family and people to live with, i'm not sure how to take it,

2007-09-19 20:34:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really need to know ur opinion about my friend who's somehow cold hearted or maybe cold emotioned....
my problem is that I'm someone who always need from close friendz to show me that they still love me and think that I deserve to be their friend.
but with this friend,she just never show her emotions,never react as expected.
she's kind and sweet and I talked to her about this but she old me that she can't express her feelings.
so tell me how improve this or what to do?

2007-09-19 20:32:38 · 7 answers · asked by Pinka 3

(People who take and never give and leave you feeling drained and angry).

2007-09-19 19:12:43 · 4 answers · asked by Papooselet 3

ok im 18 and engaed very happy with the guy im with.. problem is... im pregnant.. no biggie everyone is happy.. but my brother is in highschool and everyday he goes this girl sees him and starts going omg see that boy jake? his sister is a slut she is pregnant and not married... and it really bothers him. i can ignore her but she is telling everyone this and is bothering him in class.. i mean he is in highschool.. is there anything i can do? should i call the school? or what. i mean i know i cant call the cops or anything cas i dont think they would do anything. any help???

2007-09-19 18:33:05 · 12 answers · asked by **Wishing For A 2010 Baby** 4

My closest female friend has the laziest boyfriend ever. This dude doesn't work and never has worked. Her life is totally falling apart because of him. When she gets her self fixed up or gets close to family he dogs her out to knock her self esteem down. Her self esteem is so low she truly believes he is something to have. I'm one of the few people who hasn't turned my back on her. Sometimes when she talks about the guy I want to tell her she's stupid but I hold my tongue. He has drove her car down and today the motor broke. Now she has no car with a 7 year old daughter. The guy doesn't care. He told her to ask me and her family for money for a new car. Now she is begging everone for money but no one will help her because of him. She told her 70 year old aunt who she stiff for a grand last year she would sell her body if she doesn't buy her a car. It's like I'm watching my friend loss all of her morals and the little bit of self esteem she has. How can I help her get past this guy?

2007-09-19 18:32:38 · 9 answers · asked by Big Sam D 4

I have this friend that is ALWAYS causing drama.. If it is not with her family its with one of her friends, or her husband.
It seems like she looks for things to complain and whine about.
For example ;
On her wedding day, her husbands aunt came up to her and told that " She looked pretty today" ... She responded by saying,,, " So I dont look pretty any other time? "
That is just a very little sample of how she deals with normal everyday life.

Well, last night I was kidding her about her and her husband (which fight all the time ) needing to gather bail money for this Saturday night, (they are planning on going out). B/c they are always calling the cops on eachother at home. Now they are going out in public..
She came back on me with how I am such a Bi$%^, and just trying to start something.
I was just joking with her.
But after all the ugly things she said , of course I said ugly things back.
This happens about every 6 months with her.
I am tired of it.

2007-09-19 17:24:09 · 4 answers · asked by stacie m 4

my friend is always saying stuff about how we are best friends. then later i figure out she goes behind my back and says all this stuff about me that is bull S***. i thought we were supposed to be friends, so why doesnt she talk to me about all this? it is mostly about guys, and she has been saying stuff about me being a s*** just cuz i am going out with a guy she likes. and she has even gone farther than me with a guy. why is she doing all this?

2007-09-19 17:20:02 · 7 answers · asked by blondie123 2

today at my school i got pick on well everone knows im a gothic so they all call me devil worth ship or something like that but why do they pick on gothic poeple anyone know why?

2007-09-19 17:07:33 · 6 answers · asked by devilboy1993 d 1

Over the past few weeks my going through trails have been hell on earth.As a pastor my faith is hit and raged on by church folks.Note these are the people in whom I tend to and reach out for when they need someone to share their deepest fears.As a human I hurt so bad and smile on the outside but cry ever so hard on the inside for them yet I press on.I have done so much for people not looking for anything in return yet the results seems lame.I am well noted for helping churches grow and having programs for the needy.Yet does anyone care that I hurt?Perhaps being real isnt what people want,but i dont know any other way to be.Does anyone care that although
I maybe a preacher,yet I am human and I have feelings too?
I really need a friend to talk with right now.

2007-09-19 15:58:39 · 30 answers · asked by preacherluv66 2

Ok there's these 2 girls that me and one of my friends don't like because they're always starting something. Well one of them is kinda in it because I don't like her and she found out (she's a b*tch also.) Well since they found out about it, they always stick together at lunch, they're always walking together in the lunch line and stuff, and they used to not do that. What's the point? I heard they say stuff about us behind ours backs, but they can't say it to our face.

2007-09-19 15:57:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime I am watching a football game, a video game or a movie my fiancee decides she would like to hold a conversation but never when I am just watching basic tv. So I wanna know why women decide at that time it's time to talk. We have a rommate that is female that does the same thing, so I would like to know why. Is it women's nature?

2007-09-19 15:48:33 · 14 answers · asked by darkprince0930 1

I am a live-in nanny for a family in London. I am from Nebraska originally but i moved over here and have been with a wonderful family for 2 years. I love the kids and their parents have a great marriage. Most days i love my job. Their is one major problem. I recently discovered i am pregnant. I am 100 percent sure the father is the father of the family i work for, my boss. If i fessed up, it would destroy his marriage and his family. I have not told anyone other than a few close friends, my doctor, and my mother, who still lives in Omaha. What can i do?

2007-09-19 15:28:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok... so this whole thing is about my best friend (Tyler) and his good (or ex- good) friend (Levi.)

Here is how it went down...

one day (Tyler was feeling sick- not really talkative) Tyler walked up to Levi and was like "dude, whats the homework?"
Levi said "shut up ******"
(that was just one of many incidences)

and it really irritates him (and hurts his feelings) when Levi (his supposedly "awesome") friend says that.. duh.




i need some really good and uplifting advice. he is really confused about who he is, what he likes, and who he wants to become....
GOD BLESS!!

2007-09-19 15:02:13 · 5 answers · asked by <>beth.♥.you<> 2

Ok i know this topic has been up here plenty of times before but I'm in love with my female best friend. I've already tooken the step and told her how i felt and this was last year and all she had to say was i Never had anyway so those sweet things for me and she gave me a hug and that was the end. After that i tried to tell myself that i wasn't really in love with her and i was mistaken my friendship for love but i really am deeply in love with her. I love her so much that sometimes i forget she's not my girlfriend and that she belongs to someone else and it hurts so bad . I've tried to stop being friends with her but i love our friendship to i don't wanna lose that but i dont see any other way out. one minute im happy and the next minute i'm sad because of her . I don't know what to do and i need someone's advice. Thanks

2007-09-19 14:36:55 · 9 answers · asked by Devin B 1

I heard she was pregnat and she always is a jerk to me and calls me a wannabe mexican when I am half mexican. If she is gets fat in the middle can I take a picture to humiliate her, she is 13-14 btw, no joke.

2007-09-19 14:13:01 · 6 answers · asked by John 2

i losed her 2 days ago! she was like a sister 2 me

2007-09-19 13:45:39 · 7 answers · asked by jojo 1

okl my friend has a BF, and she told me to IM him asking who he likes, and only ask that. I never met the guy or anything. I asked him and he said her so she was happy. Then, we started talking. Where talking right now. I don't have ANY ideas or anything, but he's nice 2 talk 2. It he ever said anything about us I would never IM him again. My friend does not know that i'm still talking 2 him, and I don't know what she would think if she did find out. So what do you think I should do? PLZ HELP!

2007-09-19 13:07:53 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Adorkable Cynthia 4

ok this guy at my school told me to put my hand agains his hand and his hand was bigger but then he was laughing and wouldnt tell me why

why was he laughing????

2007-09-19 12:18:27 · 4 answers · asked by Kaci 2

I still love her and i miss her so much. i text her everyday and ask her how has she been and she saids she is great. but she is the type that wont open up to anyone but herself. she saids she feels great when her entire world is crashing down. she smiles when she feels like crying. and says she is ok when she is in pain. my heart aches for her because she is so jaded. she doesnt count on ANYONE to be there for her because half the time she feels like no one is there. she trusted me but then i had to go away and now i cant touch her or even smile because she aint apart of my life anymore. i call her everynight and i can just hear it in her voice that she misses me but her heart has been broken so many times that she will never say it. when i was living with her and her family back when her dad and brother lived here in town i used to sneak to her room and wrap her up in my arms to let her know that i was there. the nights that i couldnt do that i would just send her a text saying that

2007-09-19 12:18:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi tonight i had a full on argument with one of supposedly friends. Basically im 19 and i have been part of a close group of friends for about 10 years.There are 5 of us, 1 of these friends i have never got along with and nor has anyone else yet he has always been part of our group as no one has the balls to stick up to him!! The reason why he is highly anoying is that he back stabs us all behind our backs, he makes stuff up and takes us all for granted and treats us like ****!!! Anyway i had enough as say whenever we go out into town the only reason we invite him is because of the hassel he will give us in the morning overwise!!!! WTF! So today i took a stand and told him exactly what i thought of him which, i should of about 2 years ago but gave him the benifit of the doubt! He now says he is furrious, i dont care but he is trying to turn it all back on saying how i am pathetic and is trying to get people on his side! how sad is this!!!!
I THAT ANGRY RIGHT NOW! But im glad its out

2007-09-19 12:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by Dude23 1

Okay so mydaughter bday is coming up soon , right..so it just going to be a kids party at the park. Im basically just inviting some family and friends with children. I invited my friend and I remember that last year she brought more people then what I thought and this year I decide to text her asking how many people was she going to take and she text me back saying my whole family mom's, pop's s, two big sisters and her boyfriend plus 3 little girls. Actually 2 of the kids are her big sis kids and the other is her niece. So I dont really mind for one of the sisters but the rest of the people damn..She text me back saying is that a problem and ofcource I said no didnt want to be rude but I just dont like the idea that she's taking everybody and mommas to the kids party. And I did tell her that I wanted to make this a small party. Is not like a grown up party. Im pretty mad about it. You think Im tripping or is not okay what shes doing??

2007-09-19 12:02:35 · 25 answers · asked by Nonya 2

we`ve been friends for a while, and hes always stuck by me through everything all the boy problems and he has always just been there and i now he has always liked me and we went on vacation with eachother this year and we held hands, but nothin happened after and this past weekend we were @ our friends house and i fell asleep and he carried me downstairs i woke and he was rubbing my back, and we just laid there and cuddled, and its like i realized that i loved this kid all along, but now since im texting him and giving him more attention i think hes scared, hes never had his first kiss before and ive had more experience and i dont want him 2 think i expect that from him at all. i dont no what to say to him to make him understand how i feel about him

2007-09-19 11:41:46 · 20 answers · asked by Samantha D 2

2007-09-19 11:17:18 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I say SORRY to some one I did unforgivable thing to him?

2007-09-19 11:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Right now i'm really about to lose it... it told yall the other day about what dude said that he aint looking for a friendgurl and stuff... so now he saying that he isnt looking for a relationship right now and he hardly eva txt me are call this ***** is really getting on my bad side.. he ask y do i txt him so much and i hardly eva txt him cuz he dont reply back .. what the **** do that pose to mean??/ do any1 have advice are something... b4 i hurt him??? should i just move on are what?


he dont wanna b friends either.... i havent done nutting to the dude

2007-09-19 11:13:19 · 14 answers · asked by Mz Ind 2