Family - February 2007

I want to go to new zealand i asked them and they said no how can i convince them to let the whole family go to new zealand? ...they said that we don't have enough money..

2007-02-20 21:09:54 · 4 answers · asked by danny 1

Last night i went to my boyfriends parents house thinking it would just be, myself, him and his mum 'n' dad just having a meal as it was his Dads birthday. however when we arrived his whole family was there, cousins, aunts, uncles, friends etc. i'd never met any of them before, i wasn't formally introduced to all of them and i just felt like i'd been thrown in at the deep end.

I'm quite a shy person and the thought of being in a room full of people i don't know actually makes me very nervous. my boyfriend knows me well enough to know this but he wasn't at all sympathetic. The worst thing for me was all the sexual inuendo's and comments made by everyone. like his cousin going on about taking him and his dad upstairs to try out the new bed and stuff. i do have a sense of humour but i was more disturbed than amused!

Is it normal to make wise cracks about getting it on with family members or is it just plain wrong? I've never felt so uncomfortable in all my life

2007-02-20 20:34:58 · 8 answers · asked by Miss Tickle 4

This statement drives me absolutly nuts. I hear this from women all the time. Does this irritate anyone else? Some women are so stupid. What are they thinking! Children are a life-time commitment to both the mother and the father/sperm doner if you will.

For you women our there please READ all the stuff here from kids missing/longing for their biological fathers. THINK before you get pregnant. The MARRIAGE is just a PARTY, a ceremony--you won't have a party, but will go through 9 months of pregnancy, push out a baby--it is painful by the way--have to raise the child FOREVER, and the father is never out of your life because you will have the living proof in front of you--his child/children. The fun part, marriage is a legal contract/party that protects any children involved. They will have rights to both parents.

Wise up you silly women/girls out there. Think of your kids for a change. Choosing a good father is the most important thing for your child. Big responsibility!!

2007-02-20 19:57:54 · 2 answers · asked by Alea S 7

i am 14 and my parents treat me like im 2. i have an older sister whos 16 and shesnot allowed to do much either. all my friends go to frankston shops and catch buses. and my parents wont let me. im not even allowe dot wear a push up bra or one with padding in it. i hate it. i mean my sister isnt even allowed. people drinkat our age.and i dnt want to but they wont let us until were 18. im not even allowed to die or get tips in my hair. i hate living at home. its not fair. im not allowed to do anything.

2007-02-20 19:38:26 · 7 answers · asked by simmii17 1

she's older than me, i'm 20, she's 25,,, we're in college abroad, my parents is not with us.

she always borrow money from others eventho my parents send money to her,

and i'm so tired becoz people keep asking me to pay what she borrowed

i'm a dentistry student i'm so damn tired with my study and other life problems, and now, my problem is my own sister

shud i take care of her? i'm younger than her... but our parents is not here, they send enough money for us, but she's so useless,, always lying, and she didnt do her study well

i'm so tired talkin to her, i dont know what to do anymore,, i always tell the truth about her to my parents, they help a lot, but still i feel tired of her

what shud i do?

2007-02-20 19:27:13 · 8 answers · asked by wEnNy 3

2007-02-20 18:31:22 · 3 answers · asked by demozeeshetu 1

What should be an IDEAL daily routine for house wives??

2007-02-20 17:57:43 · 21 answers · asked by saara 1

Okay, so about ten minutes ago my dad comes storming in my room, yelling and accusing me of losing his keys. Prior to this, i had borrowed his keys to fetch something from the car. I thought i had put the keys on the dining table but I checked the car again and found them lying on the seats. But before I found them, my father had literally followed me around the house, asking over and over where his keys were, telling me that he couldn't trust me, and saying how stupid I was for losing them. This always happens in different situations and It doesn't make me feel good about myself. My mom isn't always around when he throws a fit and I don't know how to react. What can i do to alleviate these problems? Should my dad see a therapist or at least take anger management classes? Do they help?

2007-02-20 17:44:38 · 8 answers · asked by Jennifer 1

Her Dad has the right to see her every other weekend, but he doesn't. He will pick her up and leave her with his parents. He will only spend one day a month on average with her. When he does have her he does fun stuff, my fun stuff gets forgotten about. But she tells every one that she loves her Dad more than her Mom. He never goes to her parent teacher conferances or school anything. She wants to live with him and that hurts me alot. I love her with all of my heart and I don't know what to do. I have tried to talk to her with out bashing her father but she won't ever give me a straight answer that is going on in her head. PLEASE HELP!!

2007-02-20 17:37:13 · 8 answers · asked by smallsassy 2

I live in the romeo area, are there any ladies that will babysit me?

2007-02-20 17:05:16 · 4 answers · asked by farmerdrewie 1

m not being able to trust my father.what is your take on your father?

2007-02-20 17:02:43 · 3 answers · asked by ruchi-e 1

My godchildren are 6 and 9. Their father has them every other weekend, he has a swimming pool and runs a industrial lawn company (big equipment). He hires lots of guys that may not be legal, knows very little about them and has high turnover.

He leaves the kids with these guys. I know he doesn't watch the kids the whole time they are in the pool. A month ago the hired hands killed a pig in front of the 6 and 9 year old, by shooting it 5 times (they counted!) slit it head to tail, drained the blood and gutted it. This didn't bother them which makes me wonder what else they have seen!

When the little one was 3 he said that "Daddy Ed said he could make the house go boom with you and Daddy Dan."

My friend is worried about reporting anything for fear that "Daddy Ed" will take the kids away. He is paying half the child support and none of the insurance. I am thinking of reporting him myself. Would you? How do I report?

2007-02-20 16:59:12 · 4 answers · asked by Jamie 2

since I could remember, I was always a target of my mother's anger in life.. I was always told that she wished she never had me, wished that the needle was sharper that she aborted me... and yet today, she is still in denial of her actions, when in fact I know full well that she used me for her own "want"....
I have such hate in my heart toward her, yet, my pity exceeds her been of a being...
I was always a black mark in her book according to her... always told me that I was her "curse" in life...
she tonight made me feel once again a target of her own anger in life, and yet she played it on me...
I feel sick to the pits of my stomach...
now I know why I have such anger in my heart and soul....
I feel so very utterfly useless as a human being... nothing I did was ever good enough for her, nothing, no praise, no thanks in helping her get over her divorce, no thanks in 'picking" her up when in down and in despair...
Lord... why do I bear another cross... ?

2007-02-20 16:55:24 · 11 answers · asked by Porshe B 2

we do get along but sometimes we fight over dumb things that i do not like getting yelled at

2007-02-20 16:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by sweet_sammie_1 1

He's I think in his mid 50's... He is my Biological father and I would like to meet him or any one in his family.. Don't worry I dont want anything but just to meet the family.

2007-02-20 16:25:01 · 1 answers · asked by countrygirl62197 1

My brother was born in 1970 and only lived 1 hour, mom nor us kids ever got to see him, do you think it is possible that the hospital will have a picture of him in their records or in the autopsy files? If so I am going to request a copy. I know where I work and if a child dies the staff takes a picture so if in the future the family decides they want one, we have one on file for them."

2007-02-20 16:19:24 · 4 answers · asked by sunny2000usausa 3

For me 5 year is enough for him to know me..I don't know why? Is't normal if husband never or even huge me just once for a month??. What i have to do????

2007-02-20 16:16:45 · 8 answers · asked by naruto_ultragirl 1

2007-02-20 15:52:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a grandfather who is mean, grumpy, and downright cold. Now the issue is... My stepmom a, wonderful person, has two children both from different relationships, one, the youngest son whom my father has adopted, has no contact with his biological father and for this reason does not have any grandparents from that side. My dad now has a little girl, two years old, from my stepmom. My grandfather wants to see his granduaghter, but he does not want to be a part of my little brothers life or my stepmoms, this is tearing the family apart, how can we all be involved happily without having one child feel unwanted?

2007-02-20 15:28:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If someone sets up a myspace account under a false name and gets information on another person that can be used against them, is it admissible in court? I recently found out that the person my ex is with is smoking weed on the weekends when they're in town and I was just seeing if I could use it. She admits to it on a message she sent back to me. He's supposed to have my son on the weekends but I don't want my son exposed to that kind of thing, especially since he's only 8 years old.

2007-02-20 15:27:50 · 5 answers · asked by single_momma 1

I have been with her for more than a yr. And her mom is making her move back with her a 1000 miles away. Right now my gf is living with me and my dad. She doesnt seem to bothered by it. She even said its a good thing. we have been fight now and then. She said that this will help us know if were meant to be together. I dont want her to leave. Shes almost 18 and im almost 20 just added that in case it meant something. I dont know if i should stay with her or not. I dont know if she wanted to move back and just never see me again. 70% of the time were happy. I dont know how to handle this. PLZZZZZZZZZZZZ HELP E mail me if you want to put more imput

thanks

2007-02-20 15:27:07 · 5 answers · asked by seandudczak 1

k so heres the deal: im 15 (girl) and my mom wont let me hang with and of my guy friends! they ask me all the time if we can hang but she wont let me! i ask her all the time and all she says is no! she said i cant date till im 16 and like hello im not dating anyone just wanting to hang with a bunch of friends! and another thing how can i date then if she doesnt let me hang now and not be like shy around them. should i have them ask her? cuz like she cant say no to them, can she?
so if any of u can help me into changing her mind i will love u forever!!!

2007-02-20 15:04:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would u be upset if someone says?
i was travelling overseas as i have a big family . i tend to shop more food items for my family and relatives. will all the ugly plastic bags ... an aquaintance (that person is my friend's friend) when up to me and talked loudly saying ,"wow fat auntie .. have you finish shopping ? u look like you just came back from the fish market. " after that imagine a few of the rest were laughing with him at me ..

i was so annoyed and felt like crying just because he did not buy anything for his family means if i buy for mine its sort of a low class thing.. and now i dont feel like talking to my friend because of what he did ..

am i being too petty to be upset over a small issue ?

whats wrong with people..

2007-02-20 15:03:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 32. Financially secure & the divorced mother of a 7 year old boy. I am also in a serious relationship with man who is not interested in having any more children. He has 3 of hlis own, and they live with us on a every-other-weekend basis. I want more children. Should I have one on my own via sperm bank or donor? I have mentioned this to my boyfriend who isn't opposed to it, but I'm not sure if that is a good idea. I'm not getting any younger, ya know!

2007-02-20 14:54:28 · 5 answers · asked by brassinpocket 3

he seems to be waiting for something what could it be?

2007-02-20 14:46:40 · 39 answers · asked by dee1056biteme 1

My brother is 22 and I am 18 we live one mile from each other. We have not talked in 4 years. and now he is trying to talk to me and tell me he loves me. When he lived at home he stole my money, stole my smokes, and hit me. After all of that do you think he is changing. Or do it all to me. or worse could he just be trying to do it all to my other brother (21 year and a little on the slow side). I could not let it happen agian or to my brother(21).

2007-02-20 14:41:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad and my mom were never married and he Ive seen my dad five times in the last two years and zero times in the last year I don't know if he really loves me and I can't ever remember him ever keeping a promise!

2007-02-20 14:40:12 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica 1

I come home, she looks in my personal belongings, she looks in my bag and finds MY report card. I didn't want her to look at it because I failed. She does this so often that I find her talking to her friends about me. Can someone tell me how to get her to stop?

2007-02-20 14:29:18 · 30 answers · asked by yahoo 1

My grandson just turned 7 in Jan. His mom is very ill. He is scared.I am trying to come up with ways to distract him. He is an excellent student. Would you be willing to send him a letter or post card with an interesting fact about where you live? He could take them to school for show and tell.You know how kids like getting things in the mail. It would give him something to look forward to everyday.I appreciate your willingness to help.

2007-02-20 14:17:26 · 7 answers · asked by thirsty mind 6

Okay I am going to start from the beginning. A year and a half ago my mother in law kicked out my father in law because he has a drinking and gambling problem and can not hold a job longer that 2 months. The day this happened he called my husband (his son) and asked if he could stay with us a while. My husband said he could because we both figured it would blow over and he would go home. Well that did not happen. He stayed with us foe a while and when we said there is no drinking in our house and we are not giving him money he left. He then went back tothe town his other 2 kids live in and started asking them to stay with them and for money. He still drinks a case of beer a day does not work and is living in my dad's basement. I should tell you my dad and him were friends before all of this happened. Well my dad is fed up and so are the rest of us. He is 58 years old and it is time to grow up and get a job and move on with his life. He is now asking my husband to live with us.

2007-02-20 14:14:57 · 8 answers · asked by mamaof2 2