i am 14 and my parents treat me like im 2. i have an older sister whos 16 and shesnot allowed to do much either. all my friends go to frankston shops and catch buses. and my parents wont let me. im not even allowe dot wear a push up bra or one with padding in it. i hate it. i mean my sister isnt even allowed. people drinkat our age.and i dnt want to but they wont let us until were 18. im not even allowed to die or get tips in my hair. i hate living at home. its not fair. im not allowed to do anything.
2007-02-20 19:38:26 · 7 answers · asked by simmii17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Colme on baby dont panick. all girls at your age think the same way as you are right now even i used to think my parents are too bad they have laid all the stupid limitations on me but now that i have become a mother myself i think as they used to. it is due to those restrictions that i had been brought up so well even till date every one praises abt my well brought up. parents are never bad and they think only that wat is beneficial for their kid and so do your parents dont blame them and try to b obedient and let your parents understand with time that you girls are well matured by now that you can handle all kind of situations.
2007-02-20 19:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by nice_lady559 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your parents just want whats best for you. Why would you wanna wear a push up bra and dye your hair when you cant even spell DYE! Your parents might think that youre not responsible because just by reading your question it sure seems that way! Aim for better things in life than the superficial things you mentioned and maybe it will assure your parents that you wont come home pregnant at age 16.
2007-02-20 19:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents want to protect you. And these days, I understand. You will too. You want privileges, without responsibility? Sorry. If you and your sister want more things to do, like your friends, please sit down with both your parents, and ask them why they are so "strict" with you. Then,m please ask them what you and your sister would need to do to show you are responsible enough to do some of these things your friends do. Maybe help out more around the house? Be more responsible with doing your homework early, helping fix dinner, etc. If they tell you that no matter what you do, you are just too young, or they are concerned for your safety-respect that and go along with it. By the way, if kids your age and you and your sister were to hang out together, and drink, get drunk, even if I were your parent - on that one-NOT ALLOWED until you are 21 yrs. old. The legal age. Take care.
2007-02-20 19:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u are a child and still depending on your parents to provide for u, so they do have the right on most things. Just be glad they arent abusive. some countries dont allow girls to go out at all and must cover themselves head to toe so please dont think this way. your parents are jus very protective, they must love u alot. but maybe if u had a talk with them, make sure to make your point clearly, and they will see u as a mature responsible young lady! and maybe even let u do something u want. or at least make a compromise! its not the end :o)
2007-02-20 22:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by kakapoo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and on the other hand you're 14 not 23! Your parents love you and are only trying to do what is best for you. There may be reasons that you are unaware of that give them reasons to not let you do certain things. Maybe you can sit and talk with them and ask them if there are reasons behind the rules they have set for you. And if you think about it I'm sure there are lots of things you can do.
2007-02-21 00:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that.but we are in the same situation and im older than you.you have to understand that they are being protective moreover you are a girl.all the more they have to protect you.you are only 14 so dont expect too much freedom.wait till you are 18 and you can do things you want.still have a few more years to go,so maybe you can try to talk to your parents in the meantime and do things to gain their trust.
2007-02-24 18:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ivy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well damn sorry to hear that. I know that at times it seems that parents are be a big pain in the butt. Maybe you could find someway to sneak things when you are not around your parents.
2007-02-22 21:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋