she's older than me, i'm 20, she's 25,,, we're in college abroad, my parents is not with us.
she always borrow money from others eventho my parents send money to her,
and i'm so tired becoz people keep asking me to pay what she borrowed
i'm a dentistry student i'm so damn tired with my study and other life problems, and now, my problem is my own sister
shud i take care of her? i'm younger than her... but our parents is not here, they send enough money for us, but she's so useless,, always lying, and she didnt do her study well
i'm so tired talkin to her, i dont know what to do anymore,, i always tell the truth about her to my parents, they help a lot, but still i feel tired of her
what shud i do?
2007-02-20 19:27:13 · 8 answers · asked by wEnNy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
let her take care of her problems herself, dat way she will learn to b more responsilble.
2007-02-20 19:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help her by allowing her to help herself. The way to do this is by not bailing her out anymore. Stop paying her debt. But don't be ugly about it though. She is old enough to be responsible. I feel that what she is doing is very unfair toward you. If you continue to bail her out, the situation is only going to get worse.
2007-02-20 19:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what id do with your sister. After about 4 jugs of mad dog 20/20 i would slide 2 greasy fingers into her plump anus while i made the mating call of an african sea lion. then after that charm woed her to me. i would shove pink lawn flamingos inbetween her massive nipples and make her **** blood into my mouth while whistling dixie. IF THAT AINT LOVE BABY I DONT KNOW WHAT IS.
2007-02-20 19:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by DeadHookerSoup 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dentistry student, huh? Offer to practice your drilling techniques on her once or twice. She's using you and will do so for as long as you allow her to.
2007-02-20 19:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pl. find out for what purpose she is spending the money. If she spent for charity, let her continue. But if it is not for good things, and some bad habits she had started, you may please take her to a doctor. God bless you both.
2007-02-20 19:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by psgnathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to go to her friends and tell tem about that maybe they help you in this matter. but tha's doesnt mean not talking to her when she is calm then tell her what you think of her and tell her not to be ungry about what you will say to her then i hope get what you whant.
2007-02-20 21:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by soraf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to feel guilty for her mistakes,and somehow i think you do.its not your problem its hers and you are not helping her by being a doormat.Stand up for yourself and let her fall at these age thats all you can do.
2007-02-21 17:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by peppersham 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems time has come to tell your parents to get her married.
2007-02-20 19:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by Romeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋