Family - February 2007

I used to morn the death of flies. Now, at times, there is relief when a mean and nasty person dies. There are those, I guess called bully's, that hurt everyone and I felt to keep peace that I must do anything to keep peace with them. Over the past couple of years, when bully's die that have caused extreme hurt to most, I feel relief. Even with relatives who have hurt so many, I cannot grieve. Do you ever feel relief when a nasty mean person dies?

2007-02-06 16:03:18 · 4 answers · asked by grannywinkie 6

how can i find info on family in jakarta flood ? my family is there and there js no phone lines. please help me. i wnt try to find more detais about what areas were hit harder. my family is in so. jakarta.
thanks

2007-02-06 15:27:55 · 3 answers · asked by stewilliamsx2 1

2007-02-06 15:26:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can not take a stand and make my own decisions. I tend to listen to others viewpoints too much.

My parents, uncle and cousin say one things and I believe it. Then, my daughter, ex-husband and mother-in-law say another thing and I believe it.

How can I learn to be my own support and believe in my decisions so that I don't get swayed and follow one path only?

2007-02-06 15:15:45 · 6 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

My mom just found out that my dad's been lying to her and smoking. I don't know what will happen. My mom's really upset. I don't want to talk to my Dad. I'm just afraid that my parents will get a divorce and my life will be ruined. Please give me some advice, and be nice about it!

2007-02-06 14:30:24 · 25 answers · asked by Ember! 2

this friday is the first mardi gras parade. and my boyfriend is coming over and were going to the parade. It ends late and he cant drive past 11 bc of the driving curfew for 16 year olds. His mom said he could probly spend the night at my house friday night. shes gunna call my mom and dad thursday. Do you think theres a possiblity for him to spend the night? [sleeping on the couch downstairs]

2007-02-06 14:14:30 · 12 answers · asked by yahhahaha 1

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2007-02-06 14:08:35 · 13 answers · asked by daniel s 1

My sister is going to take custody of my father's 3 young children. My father is an addict and cannot take care of them anymore. Their mother is not in the picture. What resources are available in Maryland for a situation like this...food, financial, clothing, school, et.??? Any adive or guidance appreciated! (North Beach area)

2007-02-06 13:54:50 · 1 answers · asked by Behappy 1

She doesn't let me work in peace! She is just after me to help her in her homework whe she is older!

2007-02-06 13:47:00 · 5 answers · asked by cleverguy 1

Have you and your sibling of the opposite gender ever seen each other naked? What had happened?

2007-02-06 13:45:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandpa (from China) comes to Malaysia during war in china about 70 years ago. He then married with local woman (my grandma) in Malaysia and had 1 daughter and 3 son (including my father). He passed away about too many years ago. Before he comes to Malaysia, he already had a family in China. He has daughter and son in China and their still alive now (I've got information from my father who also got it from my grandpa's friend 20 years ago). My family want to meet them if they know them. And I believe my grandpa's family in China also want to know where is his cemetery.

2007-02-06 13:42:18 · 1 answers · asked by ~fonyz_86; DunTryToGoogleMyName~ 3

ok, lets say a girl accidentaly see's a boy naked and the boy came out from a COLD SHOWER or cold POOL...and she looks down..and sees the penis really really small this is called "shrinkage" would she know that, that size is not regular?..would she know that he grows bigger than that while performing sex?...

has to be the most embarrasing **** ever when a girl sees a boy naked with "shrinkage"

2007-02-06 13:40:15 · 33 answers · asked by ThanatoS 1

OK, about a month or so ago, I told my mother-in-law how I felt about her favoring my husbands children over mine. His mother brought it up to my husband and he told her that he felt the same way. She later apologized. My problem is that now my husbands sister oviously is angry at me. We had my daughters birthday party this last weekend. My mother-in-law was ok, kind of distant. But, my sister-in-law would not talk to me. She just turned her head when I spoke to her in my own house. I find this VERY rude. Well, our daughter (both of ours) birthday is the first of March. I told my husband I did not want to have a birthday party because I did not want his sister to come to my house again and be so rude. HE said that our baby is turning 2 and he wants to have a party. So, now what? What should I do? Should my husband talk to his sister? Talk to his mother? I even thought about having a party and just not inviting his sister. She would know about it, because his mother would tell her.

2007-02-06 13:21:13 · 17 answers · asked by Jackie 2

My sister and I love to explore around the neighbor hood but my parents won't even let her cross the district! There are separate roads leading to the other neighborhood and my parents won't let her cross and she's 10 years old! I feel bored when I explore by myself and I really want her to come with me to keep me company and she wants to go too. I tried thinking of ways to explain to my parents of how much my sister wants to explore but I can't think of any. That's why I need your help, and lay the future in your hands... (No pressure)

2007-02-06 13:18:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-06 13:18:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-06 13:18:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad gets violant when he's angry sometimes, he's shoved me in to the wall or elbows me! and when he's drunk its worse; he chopped off a huge chunk of my hair in my sleep, he's dumped water on me in my sleep! he's spit on me! he's very verbaly abusive telling me I'm the worst thing thats ever happen and its all my mothers fault! IDK what to do anymor the only diffrence now is that now I know its not my fault he is how he is! but sometimes the thought that every thing is my fault still enters my mind how do I stop it!?!? and how do I prevent his violants toward me?

2007-02-06 13:14:19 · 12 answers · asked by ஐKatஐ 3

Im a high school student who used to get straight A's, now all my grades are steadily going down. When i was younger probably from age 3 all the way to 14 my dad would mentally, emotionally, and physically abuse me. It mean the physical abuse wouldnt be every day, when i was young maybe 2-3 times a month , but I mean the abusive was so bad that i would have bumps on my head where he used to pull my hair,, and i have a permentant indent type thing on my forehead where he grabbed my head and banged it on the wall like 10 times. IT was so bad that I used to pee in my bed and cry all night afterwards. Now I'm in high school, actually living in an apt on my own, my mom realized how much i hated my father, and everything seems to be pouring out of me. worse.To Sum It Up I have Started Smoking Weed,Cigs,drinking,taking diet pills, all during school, i come to school high, off of anything. i thought living on my own would make everything better but it hasnt. i needhelp butidontknowwhereto go

2007-02-06 13:02:49 · 1 answers · asked by helllppmmee 1

OK I HAVE A PROBLEM MY STEP SIS LAURA IS SOOOOOOO ANOYIN AND MEAN SHE IS A PUNKER AND I LOVE HER TO DEATH BUT SHE GIVES ME DIRTY LOOKS ALL THE TIME I AM TIRED OF IT WAT SHOULD I DO ???????????????







I NEED HEEEEEELPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111



PLEASE ANWSER

2007-02-06 12:58:02 · 10 answers · asked by Happy.Halloween!! 1

I have been with my husband for 6 years. My mother in law and I got along fine, until I cheated! We had alot going on and he wasn't there for me. I know I was wrong. I was forgivin by him and God. I started going to church,got baptized and now have a family in the church. I am a completely different person, who has grown from this whole thing.My mother-in-law however hasn't forgivin me,but she hasn't seen how hard I have tried and how much I have grown. She hasn't been around for 2 years and my kids are missing out on having a grandma. I feel like it is mainly my fault and I don't know what else to do. What else can I do to make her see I love my family and I have never done it again and won't.

2007-02-06 12:56:13 · 6 answers · asked by brandy1979 2

if u didnt trust ur husband because of infidelity in the past but u where begining to trust him back cus everything was going good and then u go thru his phone and there is a phone call that he erased and u tell him to go to the phone company and get the bill that way he can prove that hes not cheating and that erased call is just something else. but he doesnt want to go do that and u tell him ok its either we go to the phone company or im leaving u, and he just says that u need to take his word for it, so u have a baby on the way and he instead of saying ok lets go to the phone co. he says he will drive u to ur parents house and its the end of it just because u couldnt take his word for it. so u guys are separated already would u just get the divorse or wait to see what hapens.

2007-02-06 12:53:28 · 9 answers · asked by lazybutt916 2

2007-02-06 12:52:43 · 5 answers · asked by Juli H 1

2007-02-06 12:52:38 · 5 answers · asked by papa chulo 1

My father past away over 8 years ago and my mom has been living with me every since.
I have been married and divorced and during this time she was living with me and my husband. Now I am 37 years old and she is still living with me but I feel now as if she is treating me like a child especially since I am no longer married. I would like to know the best way(tactful way) to let her know that I need my space now. I have 2 kids(boy and girl) who needs their own room but being a single parent now that is very difficult when I am not only providing for her but for myself and my kids. I have 5 other siblings but they don't want her living with them either. If anyone can help me or give me some direction I would appreciate it. She is retired and does not work and she has high blood pressure nad diabetes so I want to be careful on how I handle things with her. she lived with my 4 th older brother and his wife for less then 3 months and his wife put her out so she is difficult to love with.

2007-02-06 12:52:13 · 3 answers · asked by mrsuggs1999 1

hi this is olivia im 9 and i have 3 brothers and my mom and dad fight all the time! and my mom sleeps on the coach and my dadsleeps in his bed even! and they alwys argu about every little thing like were we go out to eat! nd my birth day is coming and in 14 days and we are goin to disney land! but i dont want them to fight the whole time be case we are driving from misori and i talked to my brothers who are 13 and 15 and 18 and they are just like who cares and dont even care but i do cuz they might get a devorce from each other right be fore my birth day! how do they not fight anymore?

2007-02-06 12:50:08 · 1 answers · asked by oliviathegymnst010 1

I always lock the door and thought I did but she knocked then when I said hold on opened the door and I was shoving my p**nis in my pants but I don't know how much she saw? I think she might have seen my hard p**nis ...then I felt embarrassed the whole night? What do I do???

2007-02-06 12:47:38 · 8 answers · asked by pantywearer14 1

i'm in my 30s and i work with about 70 people.in our break room we had a food sign-up sheet for a party we were having.i wrote my name but left the food space blank as i had not decided what i was going to bring yet.someone wrote "lube" next to my name what do you think they ment by that?i was not the only one with a blank next to my name so thats not it.

2007-02-06 12:43:33 · 5 answers · asked by lorianneperry12 1

My sister son got together with this girl. and end up have a girl with her. well they both end up in prison. when she gave birth i got her. had to give her back at 15 months old the got married and about 4 months later she told me to pick her up.her mother end up in prison again and i got guardianship. she was locked up for 2 yr now she wants her back. i dont want to give my little girl back im the only mother she knows. i really need help

2007-02-06 12:17:40 · 8 answers · asked by awipano35@sbcglobal.net 1

over the weekend i was talking to my aunt and she's like "you were determined an anorexic at age 10" and i'm sitting there like what!?!?! she saqid yea you remember that medicine you would take to make you eat more that's cause i told your mom you needed help. do you think that this is disrespectful not to tell me this until 4 years later. cuz i knew what the medicine was for but i didn't know why i just new i had to take it

2007-02-06 12:08:13 · 3 answers · asked by Josie 2

This may sound a little extreme but can you legally have a 16 yr old removed from your house? i don't know what else to do i have tried everything i know to help him but he refuses to do anything he has quit school he has a very violent temper. i put him on probation i tried to get him to go to anger management and counciling. he drinks alcohol and smokes pot all the time. i am honestly afraid he will hurt me or one of his siblings. i need some serious advice and soon

2007-02-06 12:08:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous