Family - November 2006

This is my daughters boyfriend and he is very angrey person and we agreed last year to move in together to share the bills and rent. I became very ill with cancer and I had to quit my job and go on disability. Since he is paying the bills and I am helping also, He said If i move out he will be mad. and feels like he is being used, but it was ok for me to pay all the bills and him not work, just lay around all day. I have recently been to the dr. and I have major depression due to him, he makes me feel like I am worthless and I can no longer where my pj all day, even if i am sick, cause that reminds him of his mother that kicked him out cause she couldn't put up with his crap. I opened up my home to him and now this is how he treats me. He does nothing but work and come home and set. I mow the yard and everything, My daughter is going to college and working she helps out, buts she says nothing to him and I am scared to tell him I am moving out.He is 20 and I am 42. Nerves are shot.

2006-11-11 11:44:08 · 14 answers · asked by ulookin22000 1

My brother told on me today that i had sex with my bf because he heard me make noise but me and my bf werent.I am not allowed to have sex anyways because i am on bedrest because of early labor how do i get him to stop telling on me.

2006-11-11 11:43:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its somthing that my mum said to me:
Any one can be a father not every one can be a dad

2006-11-11 11:37:30 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you consider diapering for a long road trip? If so, how would you explain it to the kids (They aren't teens yet). It helps save on time, and all the extra stops that would have to be made?

I remember we did this back in the 80's when our family went on long road trips.

I'm asking because we're going to be driving through really rural parts of New Mexico, Texas, and Arizona and some parts don't have a rest stop for over an hour and a half.

Is diapering a good idea? They wet sometimes, though it's maybe once every few monthes, if that. Also if they have to make poo, it could help?

2006-11-11 11:31:24 · 4 answers · asked by Kristy 1

She is 17 ans swears a LOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-11 11:28:23 · 9 answers · asked by Amy 3

she glombs on to old people to get there crap, she moved a 97 year old lady to another state , and got 3 house full of stuff mostly dirty junk , she asked everyone for help cleaning out the junk also asked the family of th 97 year old if they want anything , they took what they wanted, she took what she wanted and donated to every charty and asked my daughter if she would like to sell some of the stuff, at a yard sale or she is going to donate it.. after my daughter sold it, my mother inlaw says she wants half what my daughter made, i think she should have told my daughter that before hand , my daughter said she would have not pcked up the stuff ,, my mother inlaw was paying helpers 10 dollars a hour to get rid of the crap...., what should my daughter do.. i'm mad m y mother inlaw just likes to look like a big shot donating the stuff

2006-11-11 11:25:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are not interested in peeping just keeping my wifes brother from verbally abusing her mom.....he calls and shes 88 and hes horrible with her......he comes in and the door closes(we are told, we are out of state)and money is missing,his bills are being paid and its his word against hers. She has memory problems as most this age do and all we can dom is pick up the pieces after he visits. I was told there is a way to monitor over the internet but we are not wanting to see anything we shouldnt if you know what I mean.

2006-11-11 11:05:24 · 4 answers · asked by Jammer 1

I HATE MY DADS NEW GIRLFRIEND SHE IS SUCH A BIT*H OK SO ME AND MY DAD AN MY 2 SISTERS WENT TO DISNEYLAND A WEEK AGO AN THEN MY DADS NEW GIRLFRIEND WANTED TO COME ALONG I DIDNT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH HER THEN BUT LIKE WHEN WE WENT TO GO WATCH THAT PARADE I WANTED TO GO BUY THESE MICKEY GLOW EARS AN AND HIS GIRLFRIEND WANTED TO COME WITH ME SO ON THE WAY WALKING OVER SHE STOPD TO TALK TO THIS DUDE AND LEFT ME SO I FOLLOWD HER CUZ I DIDNT WANT TO LOSE HER AND OMG SHE TOLD ME "WHY ARE U HERE GO GET THAT SH*T U WANTED" THAT HOE MADE ME MAD SO I CUSED THAT BI*CH OUT AND SHE STARTED TO CRY AN THEN THAT DUDE SHE WAS TALKING TO STARTED TO YELL AT ME LIKE HE WAS MY DAD AN SH*T!
AND THEN LATER ON THAT NIGHT WE WENT BACK TO THE HOTEL AND THAT HOE CAME UP TO ME AND SAID"GURL WHO DO U THINK U ARE"AND IT STARTED THIS BIG A.SS FIGHT AN THEN I PUNCHED HER IN HER FACE AND PUSHED HER DOWN THE STAIRS AN SHE HAD TO GO THE HOSPITAL AND THAT HOES IS STILL WITH MY DAD HOW DO I GET THEM TO BREAK UP?

2006-11-11 10:49:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

he's 10. and in 5th grade. he's a dork that still plays with racecars. lame, i know

2006-11-11 10:30:06 · 23 answers · asked by H A N N A H(: 3

my daughter real name is chantal a angus i want her to find her mom badly!!!

2006-11-11 10:29:32 · 1 answers · asked by jaymee s 1

Trying to get a bunch of stuff set up to help my cousin's family. His son was born in September and had heart surgery at 1 week old. Go to his web site to see what we have set up so far, and email me with any of your suggestions. Thanks!

http://hometown.aol.com/xbratx0203x/Jackson.html

2006-11-11 10:29:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi my daughter want to meet her birth mom and i dont know what to tell her but i know her mom is out there but i dont want her to meet her want do i do???

2006-11-11 10:22:30 · 8 answers · asked by jaymee s 1

Hello, Im looking for a Family to live with for a year im going to be moving from the family im with right now they were abusive and i want to be removed from them, i suffer from a depressive disored and the family im with emotionaly abused me and i am now looking for a different family to move in with, that can be more supportive, I have about two months to find or figure out where or if i find a family if i want to move in with them i would want to move in with a family from New York or Florida or the north side of California i really cant stay here any more i have friends but now they seem to be ignoring me so right now im on medication to keep me from going into a major deppression,

2006-11-11 10:15:46 · 6 answers · asked by Aaron K 1

Not for me but my little sister.

2006-11-11 10:11:15 · 17 answers · asked by kathy 2

My sister just graduated High School this year. She was 17 and she is dating this guy who is 38 and has a 12 year old daughter, plus this guy is a wrestling coach at the high school. Do I have a right to be mad? Should I kick his Butt?

2006-11-11 10:06:13 · 20 answers · asked by unglory2006 2

annyoing little kids???

2006-11-11 09:59:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's young, intelligent, beautiful, funny and vivacious and we've know each other since she was 14 and I was 12. It's only a matter of time now. She's had a double mastectomy, but now everythings gone to her lungs and she's no longer on chemo. My brother is no longer going to work and he's by her side 24 hours. My mom calls them as they are 800 miles away from us but I don't call because I don't want to be a burden. I know how much it wears her out to talk to people on the phone and I don't know what to say or how to be. Does anyone have any advice?

2006-11-11 09:48:58 · 18 answers · asked by Christy 5

2006-11-11 09:43:24 · 33 answers · asked by Einstein 7

Me and my mate got caught stealing at a retail store in Birmingham city centre. Although we do not have a criminal record, we are both banned from entering practically all stores in Birmingham! After contacting the police, my mums best friend came to pick us both up, as my mum was in London for this weekend. I know deifinately that my mums best friend will tell her, but has given me the chance to tell her first.
What do I say to my mum?
What punishment will I get?

2006-11-11 09:43:18 · 10 answers · asked by - 3

shes not listening to me and if i have friends with me, nothing terrible will happen its not like im asking to go alone.

2006-11-11 09:10:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last week I saw a post on here where a woman was talking about hiring a private eye to investigate her daughters boyfriend. Somebody mentioned the link http://background-records.net/ as a good place to find info online. Well I checked out the site and was bored so I started entering names of people I know. That is when I discovered that my friends fiance was convicted of assualt in 2001. I am sure she doesn't know about this. I have to tell her because I fear for her safety but I don't know how to approach the subject without her hating me. We have been friends since the 3rd grade and this news is going to devestate her.

Any insight on how to handle this situation would be appreciated. Thank you.

2006-11-11 09:04:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-11 09:03:10 · 13 answers · asked by kelsey_black89 2

For 4 yrs. now I've been seeing my bf, and let me first start by saying I Don't Lie, Don't cheat, and Don't steal! A I teach my daughter this every day! It doesn't pay to do those things in the long run. Well He thinks that I go into his house when he's gone(and I don't even have a key cause he won't give me one) and take his things, like dish soap, laundry stuff, shampoo, batteries, ect...all the time he accuses me of these things, I live right next door to him so he's over all the time, and you would think after 4 yrs. he would find something I've stolen from him somewhere in my house, Right! Well he's never found anything because I've never done it. He's had a really bad past about people he loves , doing this to him, and I can understand!But 4 yrs. is a long time to try and help someone, Don't you agree? He say's he loves me,I know he does, He absolutly won't get help! And I do love him . So what am I suppose to do but leave him? 4 yrs now and its killing me. Help? sunnyday

2006-11-11 09:02:50 · 18 answers · asked by sunnydays 4

1st of all, I am not pregnant. My boyfriend and I want to be pregnant. So we want to get pregnant, then engaged, then marry before we deliver. Has anyone ever done this? That way his parents will also accept us easier because if we don't have a kid, they don't want us together because of religion. If we tell them we are pregnant, they will leave him a lone and not bother him about being with me because of religion. We decided to do it backwards. We also feel like getting married will take forever, so we want to start on a baby now. The Dr gave me Clomid to get pregnant. What do you think

2006-11-11 08:58:57 · 12 answers · asked by Tracy L 1

I have never had a close relationship with my paternal grandmother. She treats my siblings and me differently than her other grandchildren (I'm not sure why). She says whatever she wants about other family members without seeming to care what they think or how it may affect them. She's a very critical, negative, pessimistic person. I wish I could just tell her off (or at least sit her down and let her know how I feel without getting too emotional). Does anyone else out there have a similar problem? Any advice on how to handle this problem?

2006-11-11 08:48:59 · 7 answers · asked by ze!5358 1

what should i do iu feel so trapped and it's so hard to do things behind her back she's always at home

2006-11-11 08:47:16 · 10 answers · asked by mamama 2

Family issue..please help #3?
i have a issue with my sister...she is 27 we are about 14 or 15 years apart she is doing something really bad..she said she stopped 4 me but she still does it...its not sexual or anything but she does marajuana...and i am very scared 4 her because i love her...what can i do?


yea remeber that...anywayz she has been doing this for over 9 years!!!! THATS A BAD THING! my sister and i are very close i am like her child... and i love her and she knows how i feel about it and she said she stops only time she does it is when she is stressed but i am scared 4


ok.....she also use to do cocaine...now like i said help me with that 1 cuz she might go bak cuz she hanging out with my cuzin who introduced that crap to her...and if ya gon gimmie some sorry *** crap answers i actually need 1 that will help plus she should kno better cuz shes an adult!!!

2006-11-11 08:31:56 · 3 answers · asked by Victoria 1

i´m 26 & live with my parents, i´m looking 4 a job. in the meantime i help a lot here & i don´t go out nor spend money because i don´t want to spend my savings until i get a job. the thing is that my father puts so much pressure on me. he talks to all his friends about me & says that i have a problem because no one hires me and that it is surely because i´m doing something wrong. we never got along and he always treated me like if i were stupid. whenever somehting happens he always thinks it´s my fault, even before i tell him what happend, (one time a guy said something rude to me and when i told my mom what happened my dad said that it probably happened because i was wearing something provocative / which i wasn´t / ). i turned up to be really shy because of the way my dad talks to me. he acts more like a scary boss than a dad. & now i wanna look for a job & i´m really trying but whatever i do, it´s just not good enough for him. i want to move out `cause i can´t b here anymore

2006-11-11 08:27:24 · 13 answers · asked by very unhappy cheerleader 1

my bro i have no idea what he wants for christmas hes much old can you help me pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!

2006-11-11 08:23:53 · 24 answers · asked by The Answer 3

i have a issue with my sister...she is 27 we are about 14 or 15 years apart she is doing something really bad..she said she stopped 4 me but she still does it...its not sexual or anything but she does marajuana...and i am very scared 4 her because i love her...what can i do?


yea remeber that...anywayz she has been doing this for over 9 years!!!! THATS A BAD THING! my sister and i are very close i am like her child... and i love her and she knows how i feel about it and she said she stops only time she does it is when she is stressed but i am scared 4 her....

2006-11-11 08:23:50 · 14 answers · asked by Victoria 1