i have a issue with my sister...she is 27 we are about 14 or 15 years apart she is doing something really bad..she said she stopped 4 me but she still does it...its not sexual or anything but she does marajuana...and i am very scared 4 her because i love her...what can i do?
yea remeber that...anywayz she has been doing this for over 9 years!!!! THATS A BAD THING! my sister and i are very close i am like her child... and i love her and she knows how i feel about it and she said she stops only time she does it is when she is stressed but i am scared 4 her....
2006-11-11 08:23:50 · 14 answers · asked by Victoria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i see where your coming from, and yes marajuana may not be that that bad for you, but again i feel you i know that shes ur sister and u dont care if its super bad or just bad, in the end in ur eyes its still bad and you care for her.the best thing to do is talk to her tell hre i really care about u and i dont want you to be doing something we both know its not the right thing to do, ask her if you were doing it how would she feel? tell her the only reason u are telling her that is cuz u really truly care about her and if you didnt you wouldnt be taking the time of telling her how much this means to you.
you also need to know it takes time and dedication from the heart to stop that . so unless she wants to stop then you could only try your best of talkin to her, other than that if she herself doesnt wanna stop then it will take a longer time.
hope this helped and good luck
God bless you
2006-11-11 08:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Þearl♪ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The powers of education...... You can control when you brush your teeth. You can control dressing your self.
You can control what you load on your fork before you put it in your mouth.
The next lot .. you can influence (this is where your smoker is) you can suggest, educate, talk about .... perhaps give alternative way to learn to relax ..... but all you can do is influence.
The rest ..... Famine in a foreign country, the rotation of the moon, what people in China will wear this spring ...way outta your sphere of influence or control !
Talk, suggest and let the person make their own decision .... you can't live life for 'em.
Learn the realm of your influence ... try not to worry about the rest and your stress will pass....... Find your own way to relax that won't include rollin' it, lightin' it or ingesting it ... you'll be fine !
Don't Worry .....Be Happy !
2006-11-11 08:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I stated before Victoria your best defense is to support your sister and let her know that you are concerned for her. It is very difficult for a young person like yourself to understand some of the pressures that your older sister must be facing but with you in her corner she at least knows she has someone to turn to in times of need and for very good advice.
2006-11-11 08:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
got my brother
got the same thing
he is older than i am by 2 years
but its more like i am older than him
i am 19 and he is 21
but i act as if i am 25 and he is 13
so its kinda weird
i tried to convince him many times
to stop
but he never did
and i really realised
that he wont unless he wanted to stop
so its not i kept on talkin about it
and started doing much activities wit him
go out to movies
hang out
whenever i go wit friends
i ask him to come along
i bring DVDs to watch it together
and i am doing that as friends
and its working
i occupy his time and most of the time
he's wit me
so it became rare when he smoke one
so i think i accomplished something
as i am telling u
keep on talkin about it wont solve it
so try to occupy ur sister's time wit u
try to stick to her
so she wouldnt have time to do it
wit out even she notice it
she will stop doing it
good luck :)
PS: what u said about ur sister is really nice and decent from ya
2006-11-11 08:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by alexandre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and talk to your sister about. Make her think of all the things bad that can happen to her. Just tell her you love her, and you dont want to see her go. I would try talking to your parents about this issue. Well, I hope this helps.
2006-11-11 08:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marajuana isnt that bad but could lead to stronger drugs tell her you love her and take her to the doctor for her stress
2006-11-11 08:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by bonkers13642 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got done answering the first prob. and i think you need to take her to the doctor's because she can die if she keeps doing the stuff that shes doing.(sorry if that worries you even more I'm sorry but that's the truth)
2006-11-11 08:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by vegasvuxeb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHILL OUT Marijuana isn't like dope..ok it's not good for you but it won't hurt her or kill her she can't od on MJ. don't stress she's a big girl and she knows what she's doing.
2006-11-11 08:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is 27 years old and her smoking pot isn't so bad. The only thing that is bad about smoking pot is that she will get fat because it gives you the munchies.
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