shes not listening to me and if i have friends with me, nothing terrible will happen its not like im asking to go alone.
2006-11-11 09:10:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Make sure your Mom knows your friends and your friends parents. Let them all chat about going to the mall and she will start to feel more comfortable. Make sure your Mom has NO reason not to trust you, do your homework and housework without being asked. Don't be suck-up ish towards her but be nice and respectful and stop anything she has asked you a hundred times to stop doing. Show you're maturing and she will treat you as such. Good luck and enjoy!
2006-11-11 09:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by alwayslarat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Victoria Secret or Nordstrom (or some other department with a nice lingerie department)--and ask one of the salespeople to measure you. This is there job, so they won't think its weird, and they know what they are doing! They also can do it right over your shirt. You don't have to buy a bra there, but you at least will know your size. One advantage of trying on bras there is they can tell you what fits and what doesn't But after you know your size, I would suggest going to The Gap Body or American Eagle Aerie and looking at demi bras with an under wire and no padding and try a few of those and get what's comfortable. Sometimes moms are not ready to see their daughters grow up, but I'm sure your mom will be able to take you bra shopping eventually, but you might as well take care of it independently while she is adjusting!
2016-05-22 05:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what I was faced with last year. This is what I did:
I introduced my mom to my friends' moms and they all talked and got to know each other for a little while. Then, they become friendly to each other and didn't find each other as strangers. After that, my Mom believed that nothing would happen if I went w/ one of my friends' moms. This is good cuz their Mom promised to give us enough space and not to be bothering us at all.
Now that i'm 14 my parents allow me to go chill w/ my friends w/o any adults-as long as I have my cellphone I can go.
So yeah, try what I did when I was 13. Good luck!!
2006-11-11 09:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give a speech about y u think its ok. if u dont have a phone, ask to borrow hers or something, or a friend that has one...just make sure u have a phone, put her number on there, and speed dial...show her this, and tell her if something happens u will call...act more grown up...i am 15...my mom wasnt so hard about that...when i was 13 she rly didnt care, MY MOM IS A GREAT MOM THO!!! she cares about me, but what i mean is she trusted me b/c of my previousness...i never did nething bad!!! but now on the other hand...she doesnt know tho...or have her come w/ u guys but b4 u go make sure u let her know that when u go u want to go seperately, and u and ur friends will walk away and to what u want, but keep in mind that she could be newhere, and dont do nething stupid...moms are very very very tricky, she could have a friend you dont know about in a store she knows u will go to, to spy on u, so make sure u act like an adult, cuz if she finds out you are doing something stupid, she will never let you do anything!!! trust me on this!!! i am 15...i still have to do this, but not the mall...more like concerts, and weed really gets passed around there, but my mom knows that i act like an adult and she trusts me...maybe if you do what i said above, then maybe she will find out that you are responsable enough to go by yourself...
2006-11-11 10:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by basketball_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her trust me i know how you feel, my mom is way over protective. what everybody can do i can't and other people agree that my mom is like that. i'm almost 15 and i'm luvky to be able to walk from my bustop which is a normal distance. i'm not allowed to stay home alone. and when i do go to the mall and the movies i have to be back before it gets dark. sometimes before 5 or around that time and every my age stays till way later. i'm not allowed to walk to restaurants thats rite next to the mall (but i did be4 cuz my frieends did and wud've a nywas). i'm hardly allowed to do anything i feel so trapped. i'm luvky to be allowed to go to the malla and movies in the day. i'm never ever allowed to do things every1 else is allowed to do. all i can tell you is move out asap. parents like ours don';t realize when we're on our own(which i don't think i'll ever be well maybe when she's dead) is that once we're on our own we're gonna go ****** CRAZY
2006-11-11 10:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by mamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you will have your cellular phone always on, tell her you have a big friend that will take care of you and most important ask her what gift or thing she wants so you can buy it at the mall.
If this doesnt work...wait till you are 18.....
2006-11-11 10:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by frankomty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be responsible and trustworthy. Prove this at home and they will listen to you. Maybe take a cell phone so they know you can get ahold of them if you get into trouble.
2006-11-11 09:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by emmyfair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and prove to her that you are mature enough to do things without her asking and that you need time to be a person with your friends and ask her for a mobile phon so she can keep in contact with u when u are with your friends
2006-11-11 09:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thirteens too young. im fourteen, and i think im too young. it is fun to walk around without your parents, just make sure they are somewhere at the mall, just not with you. some parents are just stricter than you.
2006-11-11 09:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by Renee Gibson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt think you are old enough than maybe your not. Things dont only happen to people on thier own
2006-11-11 09:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋