Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

We dated for a month. He says that he needs time to clear his head. I said fine I'll wait. A month goes by, we still act like we are dating but we aren't. Everything is perfect until I start talking to a friend and she says that he tells her he loves her. We call him out. So, he apologizes to her, she believes it, and they start dating. Thats heartbreak #1. He goes to Wisconsin for Christmas. He never calls his girlfriend. I go through a whole Christmas and I feel like complete crap. A week goes by and I start dating another guy. It's all good, we date for a week, he breaks up with me and also says we started too fast and he needs to clear his head. That's heartbreak #2. So, the first guy is on his way back from Wis. He texts me saying he is sorry and he broke up with his girlfriend. Of course, I take him back. Everything is fine for a couple days. Then, he texts me and says "I'm done talking to you for good." Him and his ex from Wis. are back together. Thats #3. All 3 in 8 days.

2007-12-31 11:47:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend had been planning a wedding for next year. He calls me today and tells me he just got back from city hall, they got married today for tax reasons. I've known him for many years, been through a lot together, but last 8 years or so we are not as close as we had been when we were younger. problem is, I can't stand his wife, she is disgusting, please just take my word for it. His family agrees with this and they do not support their relationship either. I honestly didn't beleive their relationship would last and really hoped an actual wedding wouldn't take place. I planned on sitting down with him and try to talk him out of it prior to the wedding to be honest.

I guess I need to give some background. She is unattractive and overweight. She is also a professional dominatrix, he is now her submissive and treats him as her slave. How he fell into this is beyond me. They both do drugs together. I could continue....

Should I just be silent or loudly protest?

2007-12-31 11:46:54 · 19 answers · asked by mpalmernyc 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So last year my friend was telling me these rules she has for dating and they were really funny...well most of them...but now i can't remember them. i only remember one which was "never like him more than he likes you"

can you add any?

2007-12-31 11:40:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a shy guy, average size/ appearance, finishing a degree in engineering. Ive never had any personal relationships with women out side of a work relationship. Ive never had any ladies show the remotes interest in myself (even during my school years), whether or not I've been interested. My numerous attempts to find even a female friend never gets beyond the rejection line/ occassional insult.
I find it depressing and sad that my mates are all in relationships with girl friends yet I can't even maintain a basic friendship with ladies, let alone find a g/f. Although ladies I've worked with and some mates have asked if im gay, im not. I must be one of the very few guys destined to be single for their entire lives.

2007-12-31 11:37:07 · 34 answers · asked by skibz26 4 in Singles & Dating

If you received a phone call saying that your husband has had a mistress for 3 yrs and you confronted him on it and he denied it would you still snoop thorough his phone bill or check up on him?

2007-12-31 11:35:40 · 33 answers · asked by sarah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

without the obvious of catching him in the act.... what other clues are there?

2007-12-31 11:35:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Happy New Year to you all, I have good feelings for this one keep your chin up

2007-12-31 11:35:04 · 8 answers · asked by Marion, 6 in Marriage & Divorce

have $12,000 dollars in the bank .Money engough to pay my bills for 1yr but not pay for other things I need - like a roof for my house and my property taxes ( which are around $2,000 per yr.)

- I got fired from my job, my ex left me pregnant , I have a son already .So I will be in need of daycare big time.

My mother thinks I should go back to school and not get a job now but later after I get out of school.
I think I should get a job and go back to school in the spring.

I would have about a 1yr + 1/2 in order to get any kind of degree.

Which do you think is the best choice for me financially speaking?Who is right?

2007-12-31 11:34:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my husband bought a gun even though he promised me he wasnt going to, i ve tried everything but he says he wants it for protection but i dont want a gun in my house help!!!!!!!!

2007-12-31 11:32:32 · 20 answers · asked by pinky3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you already know how she looks, what she likes, does for a living, what other things could you talk about?

2007-12-31 11:30:09 · 31 answers · asked by Orange Jetsam 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are divorced and pay child support for a child by your ex and you have a child by your new wife, do the child support go by how many kids you have or what? What if you have another child by a different woman? Is the amount based on just the child by the ex?

2007-12-31 11:26:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 11:23:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in art and a guy said that I was ugly then everyone backed him up and said that I was too. I just want an honest opinion.

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2007-12-31 11:23:17 · 126 answers · asked by lkassica 2 in Singles & Dating

it is too late for a drug test i think i was drugged on halloween day is there any test that can find that out or am i too late?

2007-12-31 11:18:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

To be thinking about marriage?
We have been dating for 2 years, I am 26 this year and he is 29. We live together as well.

Should I be telling him that I want to get married in the next 2-3 years.... or should I just sit around and wait forever for him to ask me?
Same deal with children. I am not getting any younger. Should I tell him I want kids soon or do I just grow old and barren?

2007-12-31 11:18:43 · 23 answers · asked by He moonwalked on my <3 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ask you out and they are from another place and start bragging to there frinds that they are going out with you
For excmple there is this guy that asked me out a cupple of weeks ago and we go to different schools and i said i dont know you but if i knew you maybe. so then he startted telling every one that he was going out with me. Alot of people from that school know me and someone sent me a message saying that my boyfrind got in a fight. And here a lot of my friends saing that that happend to them
so why do they do this?

2007-12-31 11:18:21 · 7 answers · asked by Rocker 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 11:18:10 · 4 answers · asked by tony luv 1 in Friends

they are both boys my older consuin is 12 and my younger consuin is 8 what should i make them for dinner?

2007-12-31 11:17:58 · 8 answers · asked by snookie 2 in Family

Does anyone know of anyone who has had a wedding on the beach/outdoors in the Hampton Roads/Tidewater area?

How do you reserve it? Where was the reception? What about music? Seating?

Thanks!

2007-12-31 11:17:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My dad has been such a jerk to my mom lately. She's getting really sick from her diabetes and stuff and he just doesn't take it seriously. So my mom moved in with me so that I could watch her a little better than my dad would. And then she decided she was leaving him for good. At first I was very supportive, and i still am, but part of me feels bad for my dad. He's 47 years old and is complaining about being lonely and stuff. He's been divorced before and has this divorce coming to him (although it's not even a for sure thing yet), but I just don't want to see him in that house alone for the rest of his life. Should I feel bad for him or what can I do?

2007-12-31 11:16:12 · 8 answers · asked by goshimwaycool 3 in Marriage & Divorce

At my church [it's for the youth]
And we're new to the church, so I don't really know anyone.
It's going to last 4 hours.

But the thing is....I'm pretty shy, especially at first.
I don't want to walk in and everyone be with friends talking and whatnot..and me just..be there alone.

Should I go to one of the adults there and ask them to introduce me to a few people or............??

Thanks

And happy new year!

2007-12-31 11:16:03 · 26 answers · asked by Addie [♦] 1 in Friends

My children are my husbands dependents.My husbands in the Military.My ex-husband and I have joint custody of our children.Can I add my husbands last name to my children's last name? Ex-husbands last name+My husbands last name

My children are my husbands legal dependents.

2007-12-31 11:14:50 · 12 answers · asked by Medicsgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 44 year old man who lives alone and because of living expenses becoming too high ,have decided to look for a Roomate to find and share a House with.Not in a rush to get Roomate ,will wait until I find the right person.Is it too much to ask this person for past references and what their lifestyle is like.what questions would be important to ask.I want a Roomate who I can be friends with.Not someone who will be avoiding me at all costs.A person who knows how to be respectful towards another persons feelings and wont be bringing strange people into the house without discussing with Roomate.As I will be the same.am I being too demanding.Any ideas..

2007-12-31 11:12:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

May I be the first to wish you a HAPPY NEW YEAR.

2007-12-31 11:11:50 · 24 answers · asked by luckybug 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-31 11:11:32 · 31 answers · asked by LaLa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 11:10:31 · 9 answers · asked by Apostle Dre 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this some kind of hip new term for boyfriend?
I've never heard of it before.

Is it, perhaps, a corruption of 'beau'?

2007-12-31 11:07:44 · 13 answers · asked by tryandfindus 5 in Singles & Dating

My friend has been seeing this guy on and off for the past three years. It is clear that they do not need to remain in a relationship or try to make the relationship work. She cheated on him (yes, sexually) and he cheated on her. He treated her like crap and she has said some stuff in return.

She makes excuses for him like: (1) "We've both done each other wrong"; (2) "But he has his life together; he is going to grad school, has a job, is going to get his own place…."; (3) "We were young then" [even though it was only a year ago]; and (4) "We are going to work on putting it all behind us".

The straw that broke the camels back for me was when her grandfather died. She was living with him in New York at the time (in his mother’s house). He refused to pick her up from the station (no he was not busy) and made her ride the train back to his place instead. She was in no shape to ride the train by herself that day....

2007-12-31 11:05:59 · 22 answers · asked by pjames302 2 in Weddings

I have been dating this guy for about a month now. he is 32 im 27. He is divorced and was married for 7 years, i was with my x boyfriend for 4 years, so the relationship him and I are in now is new to the both of us. when does the "I love you" usuallly come out?

2007-12-31 11:05:27 · 10 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

new years eve.....house get together then a local bar. what should I wear? im a 27 year old female, gonna be with my botfriend tonight

2007-12-31 11:02:53 · 7 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating