without the obvious of catching him in the act.... what other clues are there?
2007-12-31 11:35:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he isn't interested in u anymore, may pick fights, degrade, name call, find fault, its almost as if your intuition is telling u something is terribly wrong only u don't know what it is. he may buy new clothes, bath more, tell u he has to work over, leave to go visit friends, say he needs to go out of town to visit someone or work, but u never see any extra money. u begin to see a definite pattern that he is pulling away from u, maybe he becomes silent, doesn't want to go anywhere with u anymore. doesn't seem to find u attractive anymore. isn't concerned about your happiness or needs anymore. you may catch him in several lies, he just seems to care less about u and its different than it use to be. he may appear anxious and nervous, as there may be another woman pulling him away.
2007-12-31 11:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buying new clothes being out late at night dont talk much anymore
2007-12-31 21:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by dwight902 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying out late, unfamiliar numbers or texts on cell phone. Being distant.
2007-12-31 20:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I the only person in the world who expects husbands and wives to be such a team that one look would tell all?
What kind of seperation do people live in?
Look him in the eye calmly. If you can't see the Truth, you don't really have a marriage.
2007-12-31 20:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by who WAS #1? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it seems you are no longer his significant other but a mere companion inside the house. he lost his interest in you, tries new things he isn't interested before, spends more time on something/someone than with you, he forgets important dates in your relationship, defensive and doesn't want hear-to-heart talks.
2007-12-31 20:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by stel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he is much excited than usual and he hasn't won the lottery remember men that cheat are like a kid in the candy store the leave more than enough clues and excitement you just have to look for it at the right time and place
2007-12-31 19:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by MEETOO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have male organs? Is he married? You don't need any other clues he is cheating!!! If you love him and he takes care of you keep forgiving him. Why you ask? Because the next man will cheat on you too and maybe worse!!! You obviously haven't learned the facts of life:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me if you want to
hear the truth. You can ask me anything. I don't lie unlike
the other answers you will get.
You still don't believe me? Check his cell phone records for
a few months including his work cell phone. Check all his email addresses including his work email not just the email address he uses with you. If you want to keep living in your fantasy world keep lying to yourself and don't check!!!
2007-12-31 19:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
secretive with mobile
works late
comes home early hours of morning
dress,s better than he did
may have little gifts that you know he would not brought himself
very defencive if questioned of where abouts
try,s to make out it is you being paranoid
receipts for gifts you have not received
goes clubbing when usually maybe would not
are just a few signs of a cheating lying waste of space
2007-12-31 19:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by magic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with all of the answers offered on this one, also listen to what your gut is telling you and act accordingly,
2007-12-31 19:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by imsimplyirresistible666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A change in him. Either he's taking extra time to look nice when he's going somewhere (even to work), or he's not as interested in sex with you as he use to be. He may seem distracted, easily irritated, etc. In all honesty, it truly depends upon the person hon. Some men are just better at lying than others, so you might not even notice anything different. It's not a game of "guess what I'm up to now". This is life and if you feel as though you are being cheated on, then simply confront him and explain why you question it. That's about the easiest way to do it. You know him better than any of us and you'll also know if he's lying or you are letting your imagination run away with this.
Either way, I wish you the best.
2007-12-31 19:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋