Family & Relationships - 31 December 2007

Why or why not?

2007-12-31 10:25:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My aunt is about to file for divorce from my uncle for the 3rd time in about 3 or 4 years. They have been married since 1992 and have a 12 yr old daughter. She has filed for divorce twice before and both times he did the baby i swear i will change bull crap and never does. So now shes divorcing him again. My question is, is there a maximum number of times a person can file before the courts say you cant file no more or they make you get divorced. I heard this some where and was wondering if it was true. Also if it makes a difference...they live in kansas.

2007-12-31 10:25:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I often get depressed thinking about the low number of friends I have. What makes me the most nervous is that I worry about how many people I will have in my wedding party vs. how many my fiance will have. He has a ton of friends and I have like 2! This may sound crazy, but I sometimes feel like I shouldn't get married because of the fact that the wedding parties will not be even. Have I lost my mind? I even think about just not having a traditional wedding because of it! I used to have a lot of friends, but one by one everyone has turned on me. I would feel embarassed if all of his friends were upset that they weren't in the wedding simply because I don't have enough bridesmaids to match them up with. How can I get through this? What can I do? I know I can't just meet new people and ask them to be in my wedding!

2007-12-31 10:24:37 · 33 answers · asked by BUTTERCUP 2 in Weddings

So there's this guy that I dated for like 2 years and then he went to the marines and we kind of went our separate ways. Well in the past year I met somebody new and got pregnant! But my ex still bugs the crap out of me about getting back together! Well me and my recent boyfriend just broke up and my ex boyfriend came home for christmas and we started hanging out again. Well hangin out for the first time in a year kind of brought some memories back and the feelings came along with them! But it seemed like after he got what he wanted (another chance with me) he didn't want it anymore and he started blowing me off to go hang out with my recent boyfriend's ex girlfriend! And I know when he goes back to California again he's gonna start calling me again and crying to me about how he messed up again!! I don't know what to do!! I want him out of my life but I just can't do it!!

2007-12-31 10:19:47 · 14 answers · asked by Lauren M 2 in Singles & Dating

I've found 2 pairs of underwear that are definetly not mine-too small and I wear a size 3. Also to mention he's hidden online accounts that I've found facebook bla bla and he's been conversing with girls and lies to me about it, but then he says it was his friend that logged on. Yeah right. I want to bite him where it hurts before i finally make the decision on whether or not I stay.

2007-12-31 10:18:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 26.I have two kids of my own and a husband to deal with.My sister had children,two of her own which were taken away simply because she didn't fight enough for them.I honestly believe that if she had of tried more it would have been different.She has always used excuses as to why she can't do things.Yet she always seems to have no problem finding different men and screwing most on the first night.OK My problem is my mom.Today I called her to let her know that I was moving and she asked me how I could leave my sister here in this city and why I couldn't take her along with me so she could live with meMy sister is not retarded and has never been.My mom makes me feel like I have to be constantly checking on my sister.Anytime I say anything to her she blows it off and laughs but it makes me so mad.Sometimes I just wanna break off contact from both my sis and my mom for a few months.I don't know why.Yes,I have tried explaining how I feel to my mother but it does abslutely no good what so

2007-12-31 10:14:11 · 17 answers · asked by tiffany a 3 in Family

he is40 and i'm 20.he wants me to get a tatto with his name on my lower back. Do you think i should do it. i love him so much

2007-12-31 10:12:51 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy.......I really like him and he knows that. He used to like me too but now he claims he just wants to be friends. We go out sometimes and we've had sex. He used to always give me a hard time, but that was his way of flirting. I invited him over for dinner and a movielast night, but he wrecked his car so he couldn't come. Well today him, two coworkers and I were at the job today, and he was being a total ***. The two coworkers already know he used to have a thing for me, but still he had no reason to act the way he did. For example he was changing clothes and he told me "Here fold this and pass me my bag".......things like that but in a very rude way like I'm his B...tch. One of the girls told me not to do it b/c he's just testing me and he only acknowledges you when he want to. I don't know I'm just a very nice person and Ireally like him.

I just want to hear u guys opinions....
Why do you think he is acting this way?
Is he just trying to make me upset?

2007-12-31 10:12:36 · 4 answers · asked by tc22 3 in Singles & Dating

What is the different between a living will and last will?

2007-12-31 10:11:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im crying right now if yew look at my last ? then yew'll know why...

2007-12-31 10:11:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mum got remarried when i was 14 (3 and a bit years ago)
it wasnt an impulsive thing they'd been engaged for 9 years before and had a daughter together.
he is the sort of man who can't accept his own faults (swingign a bat around a room he would say "the damn lighbulb smashed" rather than "i smashed the lightbulb"}
he's self-centred, lazy and if you put a toe out of line automatically he explodes, swearing, shouting and twisting every word youve ever said over the last 5 years into a new meaning (why you are in fact the one who is completely in the wrong and are in fact the worst human being currently in existance)
so many times he has raised his hand to hit me but before he does he thinks against it (never actually done it - i don't think he ever will)
i saw him kicking our old cat - she was ill and kept pooing all over the house so he got annoyed with her
the pathetic thing is the night before their wedding i cried - it was the moment that i knew we were stuck with him

2007-12-31 10:08:42 · 11 answers · asked by Pepsi 2 in Family

I assumed my husband & I would do something? We only have $50 until payday (& for those of you suggesting another job, I have an interview day after tomorrow) & my husband is at the bar. Well, I haven't talked to him, but after work whenever he doesn't answer his cell then I know he's at the bar. His excuse for not answering is that it's in his jacket & he didn't have his jacket on. Anyway, should I feel a little hurt by the fact that he's at the bar on New Years Eve & I'm at home w/ the kids doing laundry? By the time he gets home there probably won't be enough money to do anything, but I hate calling him at the bar (since he won't answer his cell) to ask him to come home. What would you do?

2007-12-31 10:05:02 · 13 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to know where i can find some sexual love letters that i can view online for a paper im doing.

2007-12-31 10:01:57 · 5 answers · asked by candice_burnett21 1 in Singles & Dating

Most of my best freinds are more than 10 yrs older than me.
And everyone tells me I'm verry mature for my age.
Why do you think only older guys are attracted to me...and what can I do to attract guys that are more my age...im 18

2007-12-31 10:00:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently travelled to Cuba and met a really nice man(at least I think he is nice) did he use me to get money (I didnt give him any) My impression was good but is love blinding me?? Should I try and contact him??

2007-12-31 09:57:39 · 4 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 09:55:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not in a realasionship and something like late periods happening to me.i have been having my period for about two years and it is regular and i haven't started for almost a week and i am not sexually active so what

2007-12-31 09:55:13 · 7 answers · asked by Senica 2 in Singles & Dating

which one do you pefer in a girl??
blondes or burnettes..
i just want to see

2007-12-31 09:54:49 · 11 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance & I are working on our engagement announcements. And I was wondering the proper etiquette on who to send them to.
We probably will not be able to invite everyone we know to the wedding (space is limited). Is it improper to send them the engagement announcements?
We were hoping to note when the wedding is planned for in the announcement (like a really early save-the-date, especially for our out of the country family members) - - should we not include this if we send to those that will not be invited to the wedding?

2007-12-31 09:53:27 · 6 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7 in Weddings

if a friend thinks you're a weird loner and makes the insinuation as such and always insinuates you should go out do you think you should drop them as a friend?if they are so concerned for your well being shouldn't they go about helping you in a kinder and more empathetic way?actually outright insults are more the stance of an enemy i should think?or a bully?do you think this person is being kind of aggresive and should i distance from them?im never going to go out if someone is insulting or nasty to me,its immature or someone thinksinsinuate theres somethig wrong with me!i used to be close to this person but it really hurts when they say something like that,its a position of assumed superiority on their part!!

2007-12-31 09:53:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-31 09:48:11 · 25 answers · asked by Keira <3 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently, I found out that my husband was emailing old girlfriends. I told him what I knew and asked him for a divorce. Suddenly, he tells me I have never been a good friend to him, I was never there for him etc. Even though he tried to save the marriage and he admitted he was wrong, he never stopped indirectly blaming me for his actions. Why couldn't he just say he was sorry and that he was wrong without blaming me also?

2007-12-31 09:44:19 · 51 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please read and then answer..! I mean,..im not even including "friendship",..cuz i havent heard that friends will give their lives for one another. Im NOT saying husband and wife,..or brother n sister,..or NOT EVEN the father. I dont know..but this is how i think. Just think about it.
-I AM NOT SAYING that others wont care. You might now think,.."oh no,..i have an uncle,..cousin,..aunt,..friend (or whoever) that love me alot" But i dont think they would give their life. They might show they care even more,..but in reality,..Your mom will care even more. And when i say your kids,..it still comes out that you r their mother. U know what i mean. ?
-AM I THINKING RIGHT YOU GUYS?? )

2007-12-31 09:39:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

was it for real?

2007-12-31 09:37:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres aboy that iam thinking of all the time and i really like talking to him and when i look in his eyes i feel that i see no one else but him but i never feel that i miss him and i dont care about his treat to me and i dont bother myself with thinking wheather he think of me or not i dont really know if i love him or i just like him i really havent loved before,so can anyone help me plz and if this is not love so what love could be?
thanks 4 ur answers in advance

2007-12-31 09:36:29 · 3 answers · asked by jesse 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-31 09:34:29 · 16 answers · asked by CHARie12 1 in Singles & Dating

this is for guys!! =)

2007-12-31 09:32:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i left my job, my home, my friends and family about a year and a half ago to move to the midwest and go to school my longtime boyfriend came with me and we got a lil apartment together, now over the last year we had some problems and i dont know if we are gonna make it together, and i just lost my job because the schedule conflicts with school. i can hardly afford rent, let alone tuition and books. on top of it all, even tho we are having issues, i have recently started feeling baby crazy..?! so anyway, the hard part was coming home for vacation and finding out one of my best friends is pregnant and got married, another best friend got married and bought a house, and my third best friend got married and moved to boston. everyone seems to be doing so great and, i know this is so wrong, cuz i am so happy for all my friends, but i guess my question is how do i deal with my jealousy over the fact that all my friends are exactaly where i want to be in life, but i am nowhere near there??

2007-12-31 09:31:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my was soon to be bf has probably been cheating on me...so i called him multiple times and he won't anwser...it always goes to his voicemail.....he won't call back. He will be smooching some other gurl tonite that's not me...and im stuck all alone heart broken....gosh this new years eve is gonna suck for me...

2007-12-31 09:30:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the girl i like has been single 4 pretty much 2 years...how is dat possible....

2007-12-31 09:29:51 · 31 answers · asked by wth 1 in Singles & Dating