I've found 2 pairs of underwear that are definetly not mine-too small and I wear a size 3. Also to mention he's hidden online accounts that I've found facebook bla bla and he's been conversing with girls and lies to me about it, but then he says it was his friend that logged on. Yeah right. I want to bite him where it hurts before i finally make the decision on whether or not I stay.
2007-12-31 10:18:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take ur time, lay in wait and see what u can turn up. Do the math, us guys aren't that smart ........ he's going to slip up soon and when he does that's when u spring ur trap. Hit him with the Bayonce joint; To the left, to the left!
2007-12-31 10:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by pokvet 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why compromise your morals, and go to his level, why not just get rid of a man u can't trust who is betraying u. why bother making him jealous, or trying to get him to love u the way he use to, when men cheat they don't love u anymore, not your fault, nothing to do with u at all. have some self respect and divorce him, once they begin cheating they no longer love u anyway. why set yourself up for more heartache, just cut your losses and move on, u will never be able to feel the same about him anyway.
2007-12-31 21:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babe, he's hurt you.. It's evident he cheated.
You respect yourself, so get out of this relationship where you will be happy :)
2007-12-31 19:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Green Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you from first hand experience, if you feel it in your gut its mostly apt to be right. If there is no trust left, there's no marriage left.
2007-12-31 18:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. You have to be able to look at yourself in the mirror. You know what the answer is now you have to make up your mind and stick to it. Only you can decide when you have had enough. Just remember you don't have to lower yourself to his level. Just go and make a good life for yourself. He will pay for his mistakes. What comes around goes around.
2007-12-31 18:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by love my life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to hurt him that badly, perhaps you have made the decision and just resent the fact that it has come to this.
The question is do you want to sink down in the mire that is his current level or would you like to walk away with what's left of your dignity intact?
If you do what your planning then when you go he will think you were as bad as he was, and then be able to say "Well, we're even". If you don't he will know that you were simply too good for him. Which would you prefer?
2007-12-31 18:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well time to talk to him and get the true story, then pack a bag and file for a divorce....
2007-12-31 18:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Book a cruise on you own and Go......When you come back sue for divorce
2007-12-31 18:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
act all Happy in front of him, get all dressed up and go out and say your going out to the store be back in ten and don't come home till late and when you come in he wll notice what you left in so before you come back in change your clothes. he'll be wondering whats up. start being all sneaky around him and then when he wants to come around and act like he wants to care, tell him you want a DIVORCE and tell he got SERVED and have the papers allready and give it to him. thats what my frind did and that worked pretty good
2007-12-31 18:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by elizabeth 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That's just WRONG! I wouldn't even bother playing the jealousy game. Tell him to stop. The on-line thing happened to me and my husband 10 years ago. We've been married for 20-teenage wedding... I separated from him for a couple months when I found out he was talking to some girl on-line-she actually called the house. We did some counseling and things have been wonderful ever since. Good luck. How long have you been married?
2007-12-31 18:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by ciaomeow 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋