if a friend thinks you're a weird loner and makes the insinuation as such and always insinuates you should go out do you think you should drop them as a friend?if they are so concerned for your well being shouldn't they go about helping you in a kinder and more empathetic way?actually outright insults are more the stance of an enemy i should think?or a bully?do you think this person is being kind of aggresive and should i distance from them?im never going to go out if someone is insulting or nasty to me,its immature or someone thinksinsinuate theres somethig wrong with me!i used to be close to this person but it really hurts when they say something like that,its a position of assumed superiority on their part!!
2007-12-31 09:53:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
shy and quiet people are mysterious and need to know that they are not alone in the world
2008-01-01 03:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just say outright what you think to this person? You'll feel much better, and they will know exactly what is on your mind.
I'd say that answer to your question is 50/50. Some lads like shy girls for various reasons, others are intimidated by them.
2007-12-31 13:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tecnacally a loner is someone who doesnt have friends...so ur not a loner if a "friend" calls u a loner.HOPE THIS MAKES SENCE!
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2007-12-31 10:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nabeela Was Here 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should try to see it from your friends point of view. Maybe they just really want to help and don't want to have to watch you shy away from things you should be enjoying anymore? You just have to see what your personal situation is from their vision and ask yourself- What is it that's influencing them to ask this of you so forcefully?
Ask your friend about it, don't suddenly dump them. Chances are that they just really care about you, that they want to help and are getting tired of you rejecting it. Believe me, you do not want to get rid of a friend that actually cares like that for you, over a misunderstanding. Don't act until you know more.
Good luck :)
2007-12-31 10:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a nice girl,decent fellows like quite,shy girls they like to protect them,it makes them feel good,some girls who are loud throw of the wrong signel, and fellows think they are easy meat,and they don't get respect,and finish up with a bad name,i think you should get some new friends,which are true mates.good luck and happy new year .xxx
2007-12-31 10:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by blackpool lass 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him/her to piss off. You shouldn't care what people thik sometimes - especially when it is detrimental to your own well being.
2007-12-31 10:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mitch Connor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hm, people should be left alone to be their own persons. Don't tell someone to be different. if they're loners and you're not, then get away and live the way ou wanna live.... i think loners are weird and boring! don't wanna make the mistake of helping and then they get stuck and cling on me.
2007-12-31 10:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by straight_up 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It depends really.
2007-12-31 09:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know, can't tell
2007-12-31 09:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by da don 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah find some new friends ..
2007-12-31 09:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by ξήĢŁĭŞĦ ŗǾşξ ©® ღஐღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋