how many dates until us guys don't have to foot the bill?

Question

so i still pay after we've moved in together?

Answer 1

Hello WiseGuy,

I think if she has a job and is capable of paying, then she should share the bill.

I don't agree that it is a guy's responsibility to always pay the bills. I have always split bills with my gfs. it has never been a problem.

Actually i discuss this early in the relationships. And Yes, there are girls who think i am cheap for not willing to pay their bills, but i am gald to know that upfront because i don't date such women anyway.

Most decent women would not mind sharing the bill. Most guys are just too afraid of the word CHEAP to even discuss this issue. or they have too much "male ego".

To me gf means someone who likes to spend time with me. if she thinks i have to reward her for her time and company. I don't think that is a relationship.

If I have to pay for my date, I would rather goto hostess bar and spend time with different hot chicks every weekend (for the same price). There are some pretty cheap mexican Hostess Bars out there.

However if my gf does not have job and has lower purchasing power than me, then yes i would be glad to pay for her. but it will probably be a lower budget date. I mean like Cheaper restaurant.

If the woman judge my kindness based on how much money i spend, then i would not date such a woman. I would rather be single than have a gf who has such a narrow minded and materialistic judgement.

Brother, those are just my views..

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Sorry to inform you rookie, but once you start, you never stop, and like a snowball rolling down a hill, the bill always gets bigger.

Yep, once you move in, it just gets worse from there on in.

Edit:
Majority of women are cash sucking vampires. (Nicest word I could use)
(See Sherrie below for details)

Answer 4

Funny question. We always have to foot the bill at least 90 percent of the time. Its the guy job.

Answer 5

I'm with you. Unfortunately the thing about equality only works when it's convenient.

Answer 6

thats part of the package and its your responsibility as a man

Answer 7

Until you get those pantie drawls!

Answer 8

exactly 999,456,345,758,568,034,469,779,292,430,903,001 if you wanted the exact number.

Answer 9

No offense but that sounds kinda cheap!

Answer 10

sorry mate i love paying the bill