There is this guy.......I really like him and he knows that. He used to like me too but now he claims he just wants to be friends. We go out sometimes and we've had sex. He used to always give me a hard time, but that was his way of flirting. I invited him over for dinner and a movielast night, but he wrecked his car so he couldn't come. Well today him, two coworkers and I were at the job today, and he was being a total ***. The two coworkers already know he used to have a thing for me, but still he had no reason to act the way he did. For example he was changing clothes and he told me "Here fold this and pass me my bag".......things like that but in a very rude way like I'm his B...tch. One of the girls told me not to do it b/c he's just testing me and he only acknowledges you when he want to. I don't know I'm just a very nice person and Ireally like him.
I just want to hear u guys opinions....
Why do you think he is acting this way?
Is he just trying to make me upset?
2007-12-31 10:12:36 · 4 answers · asked by tc22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I need your opinions please
2007-12-31 10:20:30 · update #1
since you invited him for dinner and a movie, he might think he has the upper hand, and he might be trying to exploit that. on the other hand, he might simply be testing you, to see how much you will put up with. He might just be in a bad mood (car accident?)
Just be careful with how you perceive his attitude, because you really like him. Because you do, you might subconsciously expect him to act a certain way with you, and sometimes you don't realize it, but he might just be acting the way he always does, but you see it differently, because of your feelings for him
2007-12-31 10:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by monkeyman1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is just being a jackass with his friends. You shouldn't do it next time, just be like "you were a jackass to me last time, why should I?" If he says "Oh, I was only kidding." Than do it, but if he does it again, then say say screw you, lol. Or whatever. But yeah. Make sure his friends aren't around when you ask him that, and when he is a jackass. Friends make you do weird stuff. Especially guys.
2007-12-31 18:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by 552200154 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters. You really like the guy, but he's obviously not going to be treating you right. He hooks up with you, has sex with you, then he turns into a raging d*ck. You say that's the way he flirts, but that's also the way the rest of your relationship is going to go. I think if he suggested to just be friends, you take him up on his offer. Don't let him treat you disrespectfully, ever. It'd certainly time to find a new boytoy.
2007-12-31 18:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like you anymore, then just ignore him and if he doesn't start being nice, kick his ***. If he does, then don't kick his ***, friends = fun, which could equal ;D
2007-12-31 18:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋