So there's this guy that I dated for like 2 years and then he went to the marines and we kind of went our separate ways. Well in the past year I met somebody new and got pregnant! But my ex still bugs the crap out of me about getting back together! Well me and my recent boyfriend just broke up and my ex boyfriend came home for christmas and we started hanging out again. Well hangin out for the first time in a year kind of brought some memories back and the feelings came along with them! But it seemed like after he got what he wanted (another chance with me) he didn't want it anymore and he started blowing me off to go hang out with my recent boyfriend's ex girlfriend! And I know when he goes back to California again he's gonna start calling me again and crying to me about how he messed up again!! I don't know what to do!! I want him out of my life but I just can't do it!!
2007-12-31 10:19:47 · 14 answers · asked by Lauren M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want him out of your life then don't answer his calls.
2007-12-31 10:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by tc22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is absurd. Either you're masochistic or not. If you're not, don't be a booty call. And I wouldn't want to be your recent boyfriend. For what I understood, he gave you a kid, then you dump his *** and go to bed with your no-good piece of old-ex... This is like a mexican soap oprah...
We have a saying here, It goes something like... Each one lays in the bed that he made... So if you're miserable, do a reality check. Stop the drama, and if you can't get back together with your child's father, then find a decent man with a true interest in YOU.
Hope this helps
Salazar
2007-12-31 18:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break-up with him he isn't worth the drama or the hurt 4 u y should u stay with him if u r going 2 keep dealing with it.that is letting him know he can cheat on u
2007-12-31 18:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by carte543 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl a man would do what you let him do he had his chance if you keep letting the own news back how are u going to get the good news he had his chance and he blow it now that he is back at home he want to call and talk to u but when he was their he didn't no what he wanted and if i was u i would make up his mind for him and let him no that we can be friends
2007-12-31 18:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Malisha B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just let him know that your not going to be his back up plan. he can either commit to you or he can move on with out you.
2007-12-31 18:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number and if your really desperate if he knows where you live move
2007-12-31 18:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by cuteypie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bunch of head games being played and heart strings being tugged on. Move on my dear and take your child with you. He just doesn't act like he's man enough.
Blessings and Happy New Year
2007-12-31 18:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Gir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer your phone,if you must.. give him a ultimatum and tell him to commit of piss-off.
2007-12-31 18:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you have to focus on raising your baby and you don't have time for his games.
good luck, and happy new years <3
2007-12-31 18:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by Stephiie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if your ex calls you to hang out..dont do it! he sounds like a real jerk to me ..and when you give him what he wants he obviously gets bored and wants nothing to do with you because you make the chase to easy which makes him less interested. Just move on and find a guy that will treat you right.
2007-12-31 18:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him just how you feel who cares you said you dont like him anyway why worry about it just do it
2007-12-31 18:23:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋