We dated for a month. He says that he needs time to clear his head. I said fine I'll wait. A month goes by, we still act like we are dating but we aren't. Everything is perfect until I start talking to a friend and she says that he tells her he loves her. We call him out. So, he apologizes to her, she believes it, and they start dating. Thats heartbreak #1. He goes to Wisconsin for Christmas. He never calls his girlfriend. I go through a whole Christmas and I feel like complete crap. A week goes by and I start dating another guy. It's all good, we date for a week, he breaks up with me and also says we started too fast and he needs to clear his head. That's heartbreak #2. So, the first guy is on his way back from Wis. He texts me saying he is sorry and he broke up with his girlfriend. Of course, I take him back. Everything is fine for a couple days. Then, he texts me and says "I'm done talking to you for good." Him and his ex from Wis. are back together. Thats #3. All 3 in 8 days.
2007-12-31 11:47:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget all those guys and make a brand new start for 2008. You will meet the perfect guy for you, just be patient. Everyone has bad luck and sometimes it comes all at once. You just have to keep on keepin' on and don't give up, have faith and your day will come. I finally found my soulmate but it took me years and years and I had to suffer a lot in the meantime.
2007-12-31 11:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The stars say you are on a temporary solo journey,please do not get involved with anyone for 3 months,then your path is clear for the guy of your dreams ,the guy the other girls have,if you wait you will have one too,Blessings to you and yours,enjoy your freedom because this new guy will love you so much he will keep you busy and busy having so much fun,
2008-01-01 06:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by QUEEN RUTH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is wat u need to do:
1. stay home all day and sit on the couch in ur comfiest PJs while watching ramance movies , oprah reruns, etc., eat ice cream, cake frosting, and sweets, be sure not to shave ur legs, put on make-up, or anything! (crying is optional)
2. (next day) take ur best girlfriends and go to the mall and buy nice, expensinve clothes.
3. get a new guy
4. make sure that you make him feel like he wants you back but cant have u! (make sure he sees u with ur new bf)
5. live on!
lol
2007-12-31 20:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are haveing sex with them they may get what they want and keep useing you stop and put things in order for you and what you want out of life you have all the time in the world for guys if your not haveing sex with them thats even better take time to find your self and what and where you want togo in life as for the pain only time will fix that hope you feel better soon
2007-12-31 19:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay off guys for a little bit. You need some time to clear YOUR head.
2007-12-31 19:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Kara - TAPS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drugs and alcohol are a good way to ease the pain.
If you don't fancy that a nice hot cup of cocoa should do the trick.
2007-12-31 19:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by CleanBandit13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you had to go through that. If you want to ease your pain i would suggest not gettin in another relationship for a while.. really get to know a guy and then date after you know you can at least trust him to not break your heart within the first week. Secondly... Don't take either of the two guy back under any circumstances.. They obviously don't care about you or your feelings!
2007-12-31 19:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Trevor M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find guys that don't walk all over you... i'd cut it off with guy #1... he's just using you anyway... and go slower with your bfs...
2007-12-31 19:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to be harsh but these people you make aquantances with seem like arses try not jumping headlong into a relationship and chill back a bit
2007-12-31 19:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ecko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a replacement, particularly one that's better than the one that left - that's always a great way to heal a broken heart.
2007-12-31 19:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Prophet 1102 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋