Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

i just wanted to know

2007-03-28 13:39:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 17. my girlfriend is 15, 16 in 4 months. I live about 45 minutes away from her. I have no car, so i have to pay gas money to get there and back. I can usually only see her on weekends, because of work and the long trip. her dad hates me, and he has never even met me. he keeps trying to force another guy on her, because he likes that guys mom. since her dad has said i cant date her, i can only even see her at church on saturday and sunday. I love her, and she feels the same. this is just very hard to deal with, physically and mentally. and socially. should i continue to give up all of my free time to see her just a little bit, even though im not sure if there will ever be a light at the end of the tunnel. if her dad absolutely wont let her see me until she is 18, i will hopefully be in college by then, because i will be 19 or 20. older, more mature people have told me i just have to hang in there. the typical high school through 23 year old guy says forget it. sorry i was so long.

2007-03-28 13:39:05 · 6 answers · asked by Luke B 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i get very nourvious in a theater with my boy friend. i want to kiss him soo bad but i always chiken out. i tryed 1 time but i just get to neorvious and well u kno...... i tried to take a deep breath and just told my self to just do it but .... never kissed.( made out) so any girls out there can u give me some advice btw im 15. thx!!

2007-03-28 13:38:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 13:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have found out that my husbands ex is on drugs. She has gotten into trouble for stealing $3400 and a gun from her dad. This is the grandparent that would be there. The thing is he dropped the charges for the money, but he couldn't the gun. So she may be looking at 3 to 5 yrs.C.P.S was called and we have custody till we all me next week to figure out what C.P.S is gonna do. So should grandpa be trusted not to let her leave with the kids. He is the one that called us to let us know that she was on drugs. When C.P.S talked to the kids they decided mom would not be safe with the kids. Help plz with any kind of answers .I am scared for the kids if they have to go.

2007-03-28 13:37:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-28 13:37:43 · 15 answers · asked by Da 2 in Singles & Dating

have you ever falling back in love with one of ur exs?? what should i do about that?? can i help it??n yes he keeps asking me back out and we fool around time to time....i jus need to know wut option i should take?? help plz

2007-03-28 13:37:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been together with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He has been asking me for sex, but I told him I wasn't ready. So he told me that he would wait until I am ready but at the same time he hopes it'd come asap. Lately, he is pushing me to get ready and said he has been too nice to me not to push and I abuse his niceness. He said every couple out there is having sex in a daily basis and he just wants to be in a normal relationship. He told me he's running out of patience. And he'll leave me or cheat on me if he runs out of patience one day. At this moment, I am not ready for sex. And he asked me when I will be ready. I don't even know when. What should I do?

2007-03-28 13:37:32 · 18 answers · asked by MonicaS 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 13:36:36 · 6 answers · asked by gregdean 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 13:36:13 · 6 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Family

this afternoon.
I was coming home from school, and my dad breaks it to me.
I feel like i'll never be happy again..
what do I do?
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2007-03-28 13:36:12 · 20 answers · asked by xorenée 7 in Family

Sum95- found out that he slept with his "ex" in 94. She has a 3 month old baby who she said is my bfriend's. I believe that it was one night and that the baby isn't his.
95-Sum02 bfriends mother is taking care of baby and/or really involved in baby's life. Baby starts to call my boyfriend daddy. He refuses to take a paternity test because he doesn't want to break his mom's heart. We fight constantly over him handling the situation. He refuses stating that he is not ready or some other reason.
02- I call DSS and pretend to be the mother of the child and find out that she put another man's name on the b-cert. in the hosiptal. Finally he takes the test. 99.9% not his child!!
Currently we are now married and have a child. I don't want my daughter to have any part of this. The child(12) calls my child sister. I do not want that at all. This situation will never touch my daughter if I have anything to do with it. Her grandma has little to do with my baby and is bitter. feel bad?!

2007-03-28 13:35:33 · 2 answers · asked by sunneybear1 2 in Family

there is this guy at my church that i really like...Alex..hes 14 [same as me] but he's really shy...everybody says he likes me...&& sometimes i catch him just constantly staring at me from across the room....does he like me? am i ugly? is there somethng wrong with me? should i ask him out? or wait? I REALLY REALLY ♥ LIKE HIM!!!

2007-03-28 13:35:32 · 10 answers · asked by Victoria <3! 3 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine is best frined with this other girl and hangs around her alot. I thought that she might be nice and wanted to be the girl's friend, but I'm to shy to come up and say I want to be their friend so I ended seeming like I'm a loner not wanting any friends. And I'm scared they would laugh at my face about it. what should I do?

2007-03-28 13:35:03 · 4 answers · asked by Tsunade1324 1 in Friends

Let's make a long story short. I met this guy and at first I wasn't feeling him... but then later he got to me somehow with his words. I fell in love with him. He told me he loved me and then I found out he had a girlfriend so I backed off, but he broke up with her, but we never went out. He made me so happy, until just 2 days ago. We had this huge drama and he wants his ex back so later he txted me saying that "what i told you about loving you was a lie". That hurted alot. Then later he called me and was telling me he's sorry, he never meant to hurt me, if he could go back in time he would take those words back. And he wants me to help him get back with his ex. I told him I can't it'll only kill me more inside. So just today, we talked again and became friends... so now that he's talking to me.. why do I still feel like something missing? Why do I still feel empty...? How Do I move on??

2007-03-28 13:34:32 · 4 answers · asked by Fae 2 in Singles & Dating

so yeah i love my girlfriend to death but she is stuck in trying to be a tree hugger n trying to make me be one to hence "TREE HUGGER" so what should i do

2007-03-28 13:34:21 · 6 answers · asked by tree hugger's lover 1 in Singles & Dating

We've decided on no attendents at our wedding. My fiance's son (11) will stand with him until my sons (19, 23) walk me down the aile. The 3 will then sit with my sons girlfriends in the front row. That works...but during the ceremony who will I give the bouquet too? I thought about handing it off to one of my sons before they sit and then they would hand it back at the end. Other ideas? thanks!

2007-03-28 13:34:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I just moved to washington and i want to get back into skating bacause i am already into doubles but my dad wont let me. What should i do?

2007-03-28 13:34:12 · 2 answers · asked by Ice Princess 1 in Family

want a boyfriend. There are some guys I know but they aren't my type. How do I go about finding guys?

2007-03-28 13:34:04 · 6 answers · asked by Lola 5 in Singles & Dating

Aren't they supposed to call you instead of you calling him all the time?

What more is he supposed to do for you?

2007-03-28 13:33:51 · 6 answers · asked by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

Everywhere i am he is constantly staring at me. It really freaks me out even though he's really hot. The weird thing is whenever i am around him he never really talks to me. I'll try to engage him in a convo but he'll just not respond and be shy. And i said hi once in the halls and he laughed a little and put his head down with a smile on his face. What the hell is up with that? I don't do anything to bring attention to myself for him to stare at me. Why does he do this??

2007-03-28 13:33:51 · 7 answers · asked by Colon 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know maybe I have communicated too much lately...email and such.

2007-03-28 13:33:49 · 1 answers · asked by Lovely B 3 in Singles & Dating

My whole life hase been filled with upsets and thrown away opportunities. I'm only a teenager and I'm wishing I was dead. I felt like everything that i've ever done has been nothing and that anyone could do it. Honestly, my parents scare me to the point that I have to lie to get things that I want. Nothing like drugs or anything, but things like spending time with friends or buying certain things that I want. I feel like the bad guy most days and I don't want to see another day because I think to myself that the dead are better off than the living. They don't have to go through these problems, they can sleep eternally with no one to bother them. I'm not the type of person who's going to do something detrimental to hurt anyone, I just want to live my life without looking over my shoulder. Why can't I do that!? I want to feel like I have something to wake up for and that I have some kind of future to look forward to, but I don't. I feel like nothing.

2007-03-28 13:33:37 · 9 answers · asked by T.S. Quint 2 in Family

I have been in the same relationship for 4 yrs and it seems like im the only "survivor" of the 2. Ups and downs, lies (mainly his behalf, i'm real to him) and empty promises. When I sit down and want to talk about where things are going and how he feels about me I get "uuuhhhh i dont know" etc.... I'm desperately running out of options and patience and I don't know if it's me or is there still a "relationship" to look foward to?

2007-03-28 13:33:27 · 8 answers · asked by Ebony da *Dimepiece* 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have been married for 10 great years. The first two years our sex life was fantastic but since then almost no sex at all. She has been on anti depressants for the last six years. We have sex only when I start it and she does it just because she feels like she has too.

I am not unattactive, I could have several women in my office but I still believe in marrage. But I need sex in my life, I need to be touched. There is nothing that bothers me more than me laying naked in bed and her playing a computer game next to me and not even caring to touch me.

Any suggestions?

2007-03-28 13:30:17 · 36 answers · asked by R W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 5'3'' male and i'm a sophmore in high school. Doctor told me i'm done grownin. So i'm basically watchin all my friends get taller (guys and girls) and i'm trying to figure out if girls will mind if i'm 5'3'' and not 5'10'' or 6'1'' like my friends. Is there hope for me?

2007-03-28 13:29:22 · 16 answers · asked by OneAndOnly 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so last year my best friend went out with this guy. At the time I didnt know who he was really. But this year he is in my homeroom. He is tall like me and sooo cute also he is popular. My friend is now going out with someone new but i'm still not really comfortable telling her that I think i like him. Also i think he might like me because he always smiles at me and talks to me... we're only in seventh grade and he was only going out with her for a few months last year. do you think its okay that i like him? should i tell her? i neeeed advice. she is my best friend and i always tell her everything and it feels so wrong to be keeping this to myself! thank you!!!
<3 mee

2007-03-28 13:28:55 · 5 answers · asked by lovelyyy 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl I know know and we are great friends. I madly like her but she thinks were just friends. I invite her to go with me to the movies with me and she acts like were just two friends seeing a movie. I can't tell if she likes me back at all because I can never tell if she does the signs. It so frustrating sometimes that I just want to scream at her "I love You." However I don't know if she likes me back. I keep trying to find a way for her to realize that I want to be more than just friends and I keep trying ways to impress her. So far nothing has worked. She is a very artsy photographic type so I tried showing her photos of mine (Which might I add are great!!) but she just says they look cool. Ive tried everything useless from card tricks to doing back flips and running up walls. I just want to say I love her in a way that she will start to like me. She has no boyfriends so its not like shes pressured. I just don't know what to do

2007-03-28 13:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by leafshadow 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been single for almost a year and not one date. I'm just not meeting single attractive women in my male dominated everyday life or in my male dominated hobbies. My only choices are my friend's ex's and my ex's friends...arg.

But online dating seems so vulger and desperate.

2007-03-28 13:28:44 · 10 answers · asked by tenbadthings 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 13:28:41 · 15 answers · asked by cintiapm 1 in Friends