Theres this girl I know know and we are great friends. I madly like her but she thinks were just friends. I invite her to go with me to the movies with me and she acts like were just two friends seeing a movie. I can't tell if she likes me back at all because I can never tell if she does the signs. It so frustrating sometimes that I just want to scream at her "I love You." However I don't know if she likes me back. I keep trying to find a way for her to realize that I want to be more than just friends and I keep trying ways to impress her. So far nothing has worked. She is a very artsy photographic type so I tried showing her photos of mine (Which might I add are great!!) but she just says they look cool. Ive tried everything useless from card tricks to doing back flips and running up walls. I just want to say I love her in a way that she will start to like me. She has no boyfriends so its not like shes pressured. I just don't know what to do
2007-03-28 13:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by leafshadow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't try to impress her- just be yourself. support her in everything she does. My boyfriend now was in the same position as you- he liked me for the longest time, but i had a boyfriend. Then we broke up, and he asked me out like 3 days later. I said yeah, but i wasn't ready. Knowing that he liked me was nice though, because i knew that i wouldn't have to be alone unless i wanted to. Even before we went out, he treated me like his girlfriend- he'd kiss me goodbye every day after school, and we'd talk really openly with each other. My suggestion to you is that you make sure she knows you like her as more than a friend, but don't pressure her to go out with you. If you tell her you like her, and then be a great friend to her, it might lead to more. However, if you don't tell her, she'll keep just thinking of you as a friend, and then she might be reluctant to make it something more- girls are weird like that, don't bother trying to understand =P good luck mate!
2007-03-28 13:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Fiona 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try telling her how u feel abou her. be honest, and kind. or next time you invite her to the movies, ask her if she would like to go OUT to the movies with you. make it clear to her that you like her as more than just a friend.
2007-03-28 13:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lilli G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can talk to her best friends that are GIRLS! girls tell girls everything. whether its about a guy or somethiing else. her friends will no who she likes. you can talk to them and ask like who she likes and what impresses her. stuff like that but try not to make it obvious that you like her unless you trust her. if you trust her then you can tell her that you like her friend and she will help you. good luck. oh and if you go to the movies again with her. make the 1st move. put your arm around her and if she likes you she will put her head on your shoulder.
2007-03-28 13:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by emilyanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try and find out if she does like you by having your friends 'document' her 'reactions' to u in class if your not in school sry
have your friends tell u things that she did in class like stare at u and stuff
and if u think she does like u ask her out but may i suggest slowly become more and more flirty
2007-03-28 13:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her a cute teddy bear which is holding chocolates and a card which says "i love you"
girls like romantic
2007-03-28 13:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....if subtle hints haven't worked...then just talk to her and tell her how it is. Can't hurt. Tell her you like her and would like to be more than friends.
Good luck!
2007-03-28 13:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by redsoxmom1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let everything happens naturally
2007-03-28 13:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her u like her.......
and...
she mite like u back....
u never no....
also try.....
just b urself.....
2007-03-28 13:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋