there is this guy at my church that i really like...Alex..hes 14 [same as me] but he's really shy...everybody says he likes me...&& sometimes i catch him just constantly staring at me from across the room....does he like me? am i ugly? is there somethng wrong with me? should i ask him out? or wait? I REALLY REALLY ♥ LIKE HIM!!!
2007-03-28 13:35:32 · 10 answers · asked by Victoria <3! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok it seems you have some self confidence issues but there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Do what ever you need to make yourself feel as beautiful as possible. Remember his staring means he thinks you are beautiful. Keep telling youself that you are gorgeous and a special catch among girls. Make a habit of telling yourself these things each day and you will start to believe them. Ok next ... dont worry if he likes you. Just be relaxed and start talking to him and flirting with him. After a while of flirting and he doesnt get the hint/have the nerve to ask you out, ask to do something with him (hang out? everybody says it). Then make sure he knows you like him.
Good Luck
2007-03-28 13:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey...if people are saying that he really likes you and you catch him staring at you from across the room, chances are they are right! Go talk to him...and see where things progress. However from my personal experience you shouldn't date guys you meet at church...but if there is a connection, go for it. See where it takes you. You may not end up dating him, but you could gain a good friend!
2007-03-28 20:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him say "Hi," and give a little wave. Then, when you have time, like when your leave church, come up next to him and start a conversation about school or church. Ask him how his day is going. Comment on his shirt or his hair. Then ever other time you see him say "Hi,".
Take it day by day and keep talking to him. Things should go good from there.
DON'T BE SHY OR YOU WILL NEVER KNOW!
2007-03-28 20:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by Rosalie Cullen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask him out or anything but just ask if he likes u and tell him how u feel everyone likes to know and if he is staring at u and ur not ugly than yea he likes u so just go for it and if he doesn't say anything dont worry he will so just tell him and wait for his response
2007-03-28 20:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by indi9891 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him...I'm going Thur the all most the same dilemma right now but i think i waited too long and the guy has moved on.
you don't want that to happen to you.....right?
so just ask him. I'm pretty sure he likes you.
2007-03-28 20:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a try but be careful looks are deceiving but dont jugde the book by its cover dear give him ah try maybe it will work out.
2007-03-28 20:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by kadishaalexander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup. thats what shy guys do to girls they like. we'd love it for the girl to ask us out
2007-03-28 20:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely he does like you, but you shouldn't ask him out talk to him and get to know him better. then if it all goes well then hopefully he'll ask YOU out.
2007-03-28 20:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by jmohr08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really do like him then go for i go ask him out.
2007-03-28 20:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by sweet lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya he likes....
ur not ugly...
and....
u should ask him out....
2007-03-28 20:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋