Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

help please, what can i do to find my grandson?? his mother and her boyfriend, are involved with drugs. she has moved, to the area of perth in scotland. they just up and went one day. i have not seen my grandchild for 8wks now. and i am so broken hearted, as i have been involved in his upbringing from day one. my son has been in contact with his solicitor, and also the school my grandson went to. son is on birth certificate as the father. solicitor says he needs an address for them,how can we find this out.??

2007-03-26 21:17:40 · 17 answers · asked by salad bowl 1 in Family

2007-03-26 21:17:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i made my bf got mad cuz i did somethin that he really dislike over and over . till he can't stand anymore . he said he need more space and i said ok u can go. then i never contact me anymore. i del everythink. i change my phone number + email address + and everything. but when 2 weeks past i feel miss him soo much . but i too arrogant to go back to him. if only he come back and meet me for a while. i'm really happy to back for him. but he didn't . what should i do? actually i need him back but i can't contact him first ..

2007-03-26 21:15:37 · 14 answers · asked by noi 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl I like knows I like her. We both are pretty smart and we chat a lot at school. But I'm too shy to ask her out. Could someone please help me with strategies to ask her out?

2007-03-26 21:15:11 · 7 answers · asked by pokhym 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfreind's freind who is a girl has recently had a breakoff and my guy is close 2 her and is helping her 2 come out of tht greif but tht girl is taking advantage of him she is flirting wid him.and me n my guy hav fights over tht thing. tht girl knows she is a trouble still she is continuing 2 b tht way. i cant concentrate on my studies becauce of her how can i make my guy realize tht the his freind is bad and get her out of our life. i am not jealous .my guy has many f freinds n i hav no problem wid any1 of them but this girl is impossible.plz help me 2 get tht girl out of my life.

2007-03-26 21:12:13 · 2 answers · asked by a b 1 in Friends

2007-03-26 21:10:37 · 3 answers · asked by aman 2 in Singles & Dating

why is it that if a woman talks with a guy, and she is married that her husband is supose to be ok with it , but if another woman comes and talks to the woman's husband she gets all mad? what is up with that?

2007-03-26 21:08:55 · 9 answers · asked by yo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you are in a relationship with somebody and their are strong feeling involved.... do you think that it is okay to fantasize about another man, as in thinking about kissing him or even sexual adventures with him???

2007-03-26 21:08:55 · 15 answers · asked by Proud to Be Mommy!! 3 in Singles & Dating

is there any harm if some one watch porns a lot ? and if yes then tell me friends and tell me alos what to doif its harms

2007-03-26 21:08:55 · 5 answers · asked by dont_say_freak 1 in Singles & Dating

and the comuter logged them as being tooken at 3:50 am in the morning then he did everything possible from attempting to delete them everytime you left the room when you only left the room to go put something in the car because he asked you to after he had already just asked you to go get the same out of the car but you ran so he didnt have time and then when you got tired of him wasting time when he had something that was so important to go do but he was still on computer doing seemingly nothing but making sure you didnt get the mouse that you took the mouse from him then he ripps the hard drive out of the computer so you cant see them, he tries to tell you that it was his sisters friend and it was during the afternoon and then his sister when seeing the pictures says " whos that'' and not to mention that when you return to his house after stealing the hard drive from hoim so he cant delete the pictures somehow they are on the comuter but instead of being 5 pictures there were only2

2007-03-26 21:08:42 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love this guy so much & I care for him, but I just don't understand he's always pushing me away frorm him but he said he loves me. Is there a love like that?

2007-03-26 21:05:02 · 8 answers · asked by lani 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 21:03:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok here is the story, I really like my friend and by really I mean REALLY, and today I asked him who he likes just to see if the rumors that he likes me were true and (note- we really trust eacch other and tell eachother everything) and he said he cant tell me because it would be to hard at the moment (as we were passing notes in class) and I said you can tell me anything...plz? and so he said he was talking to his ex-foster-sister online and he asked her how he should tell me and she said I would understand and he should just tell me, I by this point in reading the note was getting my hopes up and the he said he was gay... I still love him (as a friend) but I still really like him as more than a friend... I dont know what to do... he knows that I used to like him but doesnt know I still do, but heres another thing he went out with one of my friends a few weeks ago for two weeks and she broke up with him, I was really jealous and now my group of friends isnt talking to her. help me plz

2007-03-26 21:03:11 · 7 answers · asked by ~~**TakinStageByStorm**~~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 21:02:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anju m 1 in Friends

2007-03-26 20:59:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Neck biting, ear nibbling, that kind of stuff. What are some of the things that turn you on and just make you go wild!!! lol

2007-03-26 20:58:59 · 9 answers · asked by 2 PAC 1 in Singles & Dating

I've hardly started getting ready for graduation which is in less than 2 months. Announcement ideas, food, decorations......anything!

2007-03-26 20:57:53 · 2 answers · asked by imgma2 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, theres these 2 guys who ive been dating...the one guy i am absolutely infauated with...he gives me the flutters in my stomach, i love hanging out with him, and i feel a major connection with him...the problem is, he only wants to date...he doesnt want anything serious right now, which is ok for awhile, but i dont wanna have casual relationships my whole life.

The other guy wants something more serious...he has a good job, is older and more settled...and i like him...but not the way i like the other guy...i still enjoy hangin out with him and everything, but i dont get the flutters and stuff i do with guy #1...

Should i just continue to casually date both of them and see what happens? is that fair to either of them...and to me? or should i go with guy #1 and just see if things go well if he wants something more serious? or should i go with the more comfortable choice and choose guy #2? Any advice would be greatly appreciates...im a 22 yr old single mom too if that helps

2007-03-26 20:56:26 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica 3 in Singles & Dating

She has been with him for many years but they are not married. He has kids from a previous marriage and there are many issues with the kids and ex-wife. He is not a good father to his kids, and he has cheated on her numerous times. He is irresponsible.
I have tried just listening, and trying to show her that she doesnt deserve this guy. I know that just telling her "he is a loser" wont make her leave him, and will create distance between us.
Has anyone else been worried about a friend like this?

2007-03-26 20:55:30 · 8 answers · asked by fizzy stuff 7 in Singles & Dating

ok, lets just say you were a 14 year old girl who is lead singer in a rock band (that kicks @$$) with your friends. life is pretty good. hanging out with them, dont really expect a career in that area but are deffinitly welcome to any chances at fame. its mainly all about the music and fun. but then you are presented with the oportunity to become a solo artist. you think this is a great oportunity, but you feel guilty about leaving behind your friends. you will become a rockstar with out them with you. but this is a great career chance. especially since singing is your PASSION! your parents are ok with both ideas too. what would you do? stay with your friends, or pursue the solo career. what would you tell your friends?

2007-03-26 20:54:42 · 8 answers · asked by that one girl from that one band 3 in Friends

gives me the chills/goosebumps when he touches me???

2007-03-26 20:54:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To sum it up, 31 y/o woman who seems well put together at first glance with career, finances, etc... interested in dating me. Yet all her friends are early/mid twenties, drunk and permiscuous, have already seen numerous pictures of her with them at the bars. The reason this is a concern to me is I am 34 y/o single dad (full time, not every other weekend) of a 3 y/o who comes before anyone, and I do not want any kind of chaos or drunk idiots around him. Just looking for opionions here. I must be hooked on yahoo answers cause normally I'd just go chill on my balcony and contemplate this for an hour by myself =P Oh, one more thing, I don't drink anymore...a .54 BAC and a trip to the hospital 6 years ago will cure you of that real quick.

2007-03-26 20:54:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So for about five years I had a good friend who was younger then me. I am an only child and over time I came to really care about this person as my own family and he was a brother to me. We seemed to fight all the time as the years went on and as he grew up and so did I all that seemed to happen was frustration and irritation. Now of course it is never a good situation to be in; I guess I just cared about him alot and tried to be protective...which led to pushing us apart, stupid things said and ignoring the phone calls. Its been a year and for some reason I cant shake not only my guilt and stupidity; but also the fact I never got to say I am sorry. Of course I also miss him as well and wished our friendship worked out. I am having trouble focusing sometimes and I can get a bit depressed over it still from time to time. Any thoughts people?

2007-03-26 20:53:34 · 3 answers · asked by JMAGPF 1 in Friends

I'm not going to refer to the gender of the person just for the sake of anonymity.

Ok, I am in a group of friends who all used to hang out together all the time. We had really good times and everything, there were no problems. Well one of the friends of the group got a new job, and he/she works a lot. So at first we all understood him/her not being around much anymore.

Well days went by, weeks went by, and now almost two months have gone by and we only talk to him/her once a week if that through text-messages. Its a part-time job, so its obvious that the person doesn't work every single day, nor work more than a 8 hour shift.

So he/she must be doing other things with his/her time. But he/she just says "i work" or "I'm busy" or some other way to brush us off. And we know he/she is spending time with "new friends".

**SO** my question is, do I have the right to be mad at this person (which i am)? And I already confronted them about it, was that the right thing to do? Thanks

2007-03-26 20:52:36 · 5 answers · asked by malibuboatgu 2 in Friends

2007-03-26 20:52:21 · 4 answers · asked by charlotte 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been spending the weekend getting over my ex with no compromise in sight, only for him to write:
Okay, I can see where you're coming from... and I will try to calm down in the future. I may be forceful in my tone but I you should not feel like I'm mad at you. Rather, I am emphasizing what I am saying, but not necessarily being terribly negative or hurtful. Some people do not seem to understand this and I guess the fault lies within me. I should think more about my reactions.
I'm trying to catch up with a few things, and our relationship also needs me to catch up a little, as well, though I do not know when I can have a serious conversation without feeling pressured about time or sleep. In the meantime I guess this is when I do have time to just sit, relax, and mull over your email.

That is all for now.

We've been arguing for a year. I had just about given up on him. Should I stay open to him? I think he has problems...but is he willing to work. on them? Does he care about me?

2007-03-26 20:51:10 · 7 answers · asked by Christina V 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl doesnt wear condom n boy does what will happen .will she get preganant or get aids. what if boy doesnt wear n girl does....

2007-03-26 20:50:19 · 18 answers · asked by Goosebump 2 in Singles & Dating

Got any good ideas?

2007-03-26 20:42:46 · 5 answers · asked by SquiBBLe 2 in Friends

From a 3 year relationship, he dumped me 3 months ago, well basicly ran away giving me this explanation "I feel unhappy, I don't know why, but I know I don't feel the same way about you." and so I had no contact ever since. Then a week ago he has started to contact me about this continually repeating how unhappy he was but doesn't know why. First by phone, then by message, I have started to ignore it and now by email. What's his problem, how am I supposed to move on with his crap, I told him to go away that I accepted the break up, and everytime he contacts me its like he wants to mentally torture my self esteem.

2007-03-26 20:42:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hiya everyone, im looking for lee and rachel auty who lives in harrogate north yorkshire, would anyone who lives there do abit of investigating for me please as to where they live, you would need to go to cresent gardens and look on the electoral roll register for me, it has to be done in person as they do not give out addresses on the phone, i have their old address which is all you need to go on so iv been told by the staff there, i live down south so its very hard for me to make it up north and my car[banger] definatly wouldnt make it, plesase get intouch if you can help, cheers

2007-03-26 20:37:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends