If you are in a relationship with somebody and their are strong feeling involved.... do you think that it is okay to fantasize about another man, as in thinking about kissing him or even sexual adventures with him???
2007-03-26 21:08:55 · 15 answers · asked by Proud to Be Mommy!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its ok to think about it.There's a long way between thinking and doing after all!
You can go window shopping without ever buying anything.Besides being in even the most loving and fulfilling relationship doesn't stop you from finding other people attractive.Its normal so dont feel guilty.
2007-03-26 21:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by bungle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, when I was with an ex, I used to do it all the time.
But now I have the man of my dreams, and the only person I dream of is him. I dont even notice if someone else is good looking anymore. Its like I am walking in a crowded room and the only person I see is him.
It could be just me speaking, but with my ex when I did it, he was definately not the one for me. I see now that I was dreaming of another man, because I wasnt getting what I needed from this relationship, and subcontionously I wasnt happy with him.
2007-03-26 21:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay as long as you NEVER act on your fantasy. If they start getting a little to intense than you need to step back and think about the relationship you have and think if he is the right man for you, because if your starting to have these thoughts about another man just to get turned on than maybe the man your with isn't right for you. Good Luck
2007-03-26 21:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by heather c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dependes. It goes deep inside u i think that u should sit down with a cup of coffee and urself and think about it.. it has nothing to do with the person u r with.... is this man that is in ur mind close to u or is an actor? we all have the right to have fantasis and we all have the right to like some kinky stuff we all r humans but if it right or no only u know it depends on who this guy is
2007-03-26 21:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by chance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, i loved my man so much i never even thought bout other guys, didnt even need to. Some people think its fine to, other people dont. If you think about another man, if you were given the chance with him, would you cheat? Im guessing most poeple would coz there is the desire there. So i dont think its right but some people cant help how they think.
2007-03-26 21:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for a long time, and he is my one and only, but sometimes I do fantasize about other men. Just as he fantasizes about other women. It's normal, and natural. And it's fun.
2007-03-26 21:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think as long as it's not an everyday thing. I would hope you could fantasize about your mate just as much.
I think it's pretty normal.
My husband and I talk IN DETAIL about our fantasies.
2007-03-26 21:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's always normal whether we want to admit it or not. Almost all of us fantasize about other people and it's completely natural. Don't worry about it too much.
2007-03-26 21:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the man your with must not be your man at all then if you feel the need to think of another in that way... when you really love another in all ways, others no longer exist outside of that person...
2007-03-26 21:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 00:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋