Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

i know a couple who has 3 kids,aged 6,5,2.theyre favorite is the middle kid,and they maltreat the eldest so often,having him do all the choirs,look after the youngest,when their father got home from work,the eldest was only the one without something from him,in a simple fault,actually, they were not really faults,the parents just always try to imlpy its fault even though its not,they would spank him wantonly,hes the servant at his age,i tried to advice the couple for dozensof times,but they dont even care,it almost came to a point i would call the police for maltreating him,but i think thats very serious if i will.and the consequences concomitant to my action would just make things worse.to tell you the truth,this boy is just a child of only the mother,and shes with her live-in partner now.they join forces in maltreating him.i wanted to play sentinel for the poor boy,but distance wouldnt let me to be able to look after him,i wanted to inform the real father but i think he wuldnt care

2007-03-26 20:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by leux m 1 in Family

2007-03-26 20:33:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a serous relationship for 18 years ( since high school) and now find myself back on the dating scene. I never had the practice at flirting as most people do during their teens early 20's. Any tips?

2007-03-26 20:33:26 · 15 answers · asked by blackcatmingus 3 in Singles & Dating

Are you OK now?
Why are you being like this?
How is every little thing?
Is that what you really think?
despite all other things?

2007-03-26 20:32:55 · 4 answers · asked by fnqbigboy 3 in Friends

2007-03-26 20:32:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see all these people secretly writting and chatting, going on and about with this deception and dishonesty. What happened to the sacred bind of marriage? Does no one know what it means to be faithful? and the whole "till death do us part" bit? It really angers me how common infidelity really is. At least they could have the decency and the heart to talk to their spouse before they do anything stupid or if that loving feeling is gone, do the divorce thing. It makes no sense to mean why people cheat. You want something exciting, go skydiving! What happened?

2007-03-26 20:31:57 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs. P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

That was like six months ago. I keep trying to tell myself I don't like him. Sometimes when I see him I get butterflies, I get nervous. He calls me, sometimes it gets on my nerves, because I don't have anything to talk about (But I think that's just because guys can be annoying, can't they?) But we are very good friends, have good conversation, he makes me laugh, and he is very nice, dark eyes and dark hair, veerrry goodlooking at times. But when the bad kissed happened, I asked him if I could kiss him again. A little better, but not much. Later said I wasn't comfortable with us doing anything physical. When he told me he thought because he couldn't kiss, I told him that had nothing to do with it. I don't want to jump into another unhealthy relationship. He is 36. I am 25. I am not sure if its the age difference (do ya'll think it's too great?? I really wonder what other ppl think of age gaps) Why am I so wishy-washy about this? Why am I clueless? Am I cheating myself?

2007-03-26 20:31:52 · 7 answers · asked by Carhop3000 3 in Singles & Dating

My choice would be to stay at 30.

2007-03-26 20:30:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Throughout my late teens, my dad had countless afairs and now i find it hard ot trust men. I broke up quite recently my partner of 3 years, partly due to me being jealous of him and not trusting him.
I never stopped him going out or anything, but I used to wonder what he was upto. To make matters worse, within a week of him leaving me he was seeing a girl form his work that he'd only met 2 weeks before he decided to end it.
How can I learn to trust men. Lads - you can help me out to if you want!

2007-03-26 20:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by Clarkey 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

FOR TEENAGERS TO HAVE SEX IS IT NECESSARY FOR THE GIRL N BOY TO WEAR CONDOM SO AS TO PREVENT PREGNANCY N AIDS!!

2007-03-26 20:29:22 · 11 answers · asked by Goosebump 2 in Singles & Dating

When are other half just can't do it?

2007-03-26 20:28:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 20:28:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about a month ago i got tied up in an incident where i was with a family friend (im 15, hes 17, and we dont know each other well) in the middle of foodtown when a 3 crazy men ran into the store firing guns and held us as hostages to get ransom. It was really frightning and i thought i was going to die, but naikey, the guy that i was with, told me that it was going 2 be fine and he was really calm through the whole thing. It was really wierd because we had never talked before then but i dunno just being in that situation with only each other for support (nobody eles we knew was held hostage) really pulled us together. i thought everything was going 2 be ok, until one man suddenly shot the old lady next to me in the head and she died instantly. I started freaking out and shaking and crying and naikey was with me the hole way. We ended up being hostages for over 24 hours, and in the remaining hours Naikey took a bullet for me and got shot in the shoulder. We are now really close...

2007-03-26 20:27:44 · 9 answers · asked by ~*.::. sAy--wAatT.:.*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

relationship.

2007-03-26 20:26:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it true that,women need reason to have sex and men needs only place.any comments.

2007-03-26 20:24:31 · 12 answers · asked by toploser 5 in Singles & Dating

How to win a heart of girl i love? A simple question yet very hard to do. My brother was so good in making the woman he love to say yes. Me the exact opposite, i only remeber my first girlfriend i love the most and we are able to stay for three (3) years.. The following girlfriend i have only a couple of months. It was my fault the most since i was only trying if i can learn to love a girl but i was wrong. Still i am searching right now but the question is if i found the right girl what shuold i do to win her heart? My experience was not good before i have a crush before with my schoolmate but ended up rejected. Since then i have this girl phobia, afraid to make a first move to a girl i like the most.

2007-03-26 20:24:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well does it really matter how big a guys dick is? ive heard a sayin that says "its not about the size of the boat, its all about the motion in the ocean" well im not small or anything.. i just want to know is this really important to you women???

2007-03-26 20:24:14 · 5 answers · asked by Dan G 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently started talking to an old friend of mine after not talking for 2 years. We have been intimate once before, but on the DL. Now that he has been single for a few months, and me for 2 years, we are about to start a friends with benefits thing. I am not ready for a relationship, I was in one for 8 years with the first person I was ever with. Now I'm ready to explore. And he is also not ready for a relationship, since he is just coming out of one. Is this a good idea? or will it get out of control?

2007-03-26 20:23:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this crush since like forever and I told this one friend of mine. But I don't know if that was smart coz now everytime she sees him near me she acts all goofy and it's pretty obvious I like him. So one day he asked me THE QUESTION... Who do you like
and I said
NO ONE
so we talked a while and he just walked away and ya..
No happy ending ( I wish life were so simple!)
He doesn't act like he likes me at all but then again he doesn't act like he doesn't like me. I'm too freaked out to tell him. He is pretty much more popular than me (I don't like him because of that like some people would) and I don't know how to get him to like me and tell him without getting embarrased. I get so nervous when I even talk to him. PLEASE HELP!

2007-03-26 20:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by Beata g 2 in Singles & Dating

my g/f dont put out and everytime she does she rubs it in my face that she gave me some..like if i was begging her for it? ive gave up trying awhile ago, but why does she still insist on making me feel like im a dog and im getting a reat every once in a blue moon, its driving me nuts, ive been with her for almost 4 years now...i aint married so WTF?

2007-03-26 20:21:54 · 5 answers · asked by Alligator 2 in Singles & Dating

Or is it just two friends making out? Wrong or right? Good idea or bad? Let me know your thoughts

2007-03-26 20:21:49 · 2 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Singles & Dating

After almost 20 years of marriage, this "solitary confinement" that I've been subjected to by a very vindictive ex-wife sometimes drives me crazy! It's been so long since I've been involved in REAL ROMANCE AND INTIMACY, due to the fact that I am NOT into "one night stands"......I think I've forgotten what it's like to LOVE AND BE LOVED with a beautiful woman! Soooo........just for fun, use your creative imagination, your seductive feminine charm......imagine we're married......and YOU get to "play doctor" in helping "cure my lonely broken heart"! Rehab me......I'm all yours! I'm in "ICU"......."Intimate Caressing Urgency"......you're the expert. Refresh my memory on what it means to be IN LOVING WEDDED BLISS! Just me-n-you!

2007-03-26 20:20:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 20:18:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im new to myspace, how do i get to know more people? every profile i clickd had more than *at least* 50 friends, i have only 4. What do i do? How do i approach people?

2007-03-26 20:16:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'am a happy married woman to the perfect guy. I have 2 great kids, the perfect life. There is a guy at work that is interested in me (he is also married),we have been great friends. He had told me that he wished that i was the girl that he had met and married. We are very interested in each other, but have never crossed the line. And will never either. So why do I keep thinking about him? My husband is the best man in the world. Why keep thinking?

2007-03-26 20:15:16 · 17 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hiii i 'm searching a good sculptor even male or female as a friend

2007-03-26 20:15:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well while my bf and I were making out heavily I started to get close to orgasm. Oddly, as if he knew, my bf like, moved me and started rubbing like the perfect spot and I came within seconds. I felt really wierd after and we actually stopped making out, and he listened to me talk and mumble. I'm such a girl.. lol But my real question is, is that when some people say they are saving themselves for marriage, does that mean no orgasms before marriage too? Can I still honestly say I am saving myself?

2007-03-26 20:14:19 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. So I asked this boy to give me his address so I could go over to his house, and he responded if i thought you were serious I would give it to you in a heart beat...

What does he mean by this?
and what does serious mean in this case?

2007-03-26 20:13:37 · 3 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3 in Singles & Dating

I really need help. My best friend is going out with a boy. I have no feelings fro him. He's so mean to me and she doesn't notice it. He and I agreed never to talk again. And when I have to talk to him. Like teacher makes me he acts like a 4 year old and says ohi thouhgt you weren't gonna talk to me. And then I try to explain and he says la la la la. He's completly ruined our friendship. And we jsut get in a fight if i TELL HER I HATE HIM. So I really have to choice but to ignore. And my best friend acts like I dont exist

2007-03-26 20:12:48 · 3 answers · asked by hot chick 1 in Friends

there's this guy i've been dating for almost a month now. i've noticed he's not very romantic and that's ok with me sometimes. and we don't really talk a lot either about personal things, but i really want to. but how can i do that without scaring him off?

2007-03-26 20:10:09 · 5 answers · asked by asdfghjkheart 1 in Singles & Dating