Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

please list all the various behaviour

2007-03-26 22:17:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been married for 2 years and my husband owns his own house but for those 2 years we rented another house because of his job.Well hes got a new job closer to his house so we moved into his house but thing is his mother lives there has been for quite some time because shes elderly and cant afford her own place.Shes a nice lady and we get along great but problem is I love to decorate and because shes lived there for years shes got it a ceratin way which isnt a problem.what it is,she's got so much junk collected over the years the house looks a thrift store its so awful.She acts like she owns the house,even the yard she hasnt a certain way.I dont even know how to aproach her about it,Ive told my husband and he doesnt want to offend her.We cant afford a 2nd home and I shouldnt feel like a guest in a house my husband pays a mortgage and all the bills every month.My husband is planning an extension on the house and renovating it and shes already talking how she would like it.

2007-03-26 22:16:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 22:16:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend cheated on me around xmas time, after a hole lotta begging and grovling i gave in to giving him a 2nd chance, since then he had changed fuly, he did anything and everything for me, he was totally devoted to me. But later this week i found out that last year in october he had cheated on me while we were on a break. So i dumped him, he has become very suicial and he is depressed.I have never seen him in sucha state.Have i done the right thing? He had fully changed, it was only the fact he didnt tell me about what happend while we were on a break.

2007-03-26 22:15:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in my mid 20's and my life was not all smelling of roses! I had a pretty tough childhood and in my teens i was not so perfect! Now I can see what i have done wrong and try to make it right! I had done so many mistakes but i cant seems to forgive my self! I keep punishing my self!

Im stuck in the past, which is stopping me from having a good future.

how do i overcome this, please help me!

2007-03-26 22:15:29 · 19 answers · asked by Janey 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 22:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by paps 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is 21 and I am 23 and we both still live at home! I leave him alone and try to stay far far away. Like aims and shoots his pellet gun at me. Spits on me and throws stuff at me. He hasnt laid his hands on me lately, but in the past he has. I cant even go outside to leave or come home (he always outside) because I am SCARED! Whats his problem?

2007-03-26 22:12:46 · 8 answers · asked by whyme 1 in Family

2007-03-26 22:12:41 · 2 answers · asked by Alexa 1 in Friends

Met a guy 2 years ago through a friend. He was 28 & I was 23. From the start we grew really close, he messed me around slightly during the process as he knew he liked me, but wasn't sure if he wanted any commitments right now & didn't want to end up hurting me, as he could probably cheat on me or something. So he ended up saying that he can't do it right now as he wasn't in that frame of mind. I said to him then that I have an opportunity to start seeing someone else now, so I want to be 100% sure that you are serious & told him that there was no going back after this, he still said that it would be best to be friends right now. He kept calling me after for a few months & I told him that it was best that we go our seperate ways as he told me what he wants & doesnt want. 2 years later he 31 me 25 things on my behalf hav changed I hav got an even more successful job & hav just brought a new house we hav got in contact again, went for a drink & is wanting something serious with me.

2007-03-26 22:11:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

See about a little over a week ago I found some odd text messages in my boyfriends cell from a girl
i asked him to his face,looked him dead in the eye....who this girl was he said "idk why?"
i walked away upon this response.
come to find out later that he knew exactly who she was and why i wanted to know.
He said that she was a "ex girlfriend" of one of his cousins a "friend" now and that he had told me about her before.(which i dont remember)& he was the one who gave her his phone number. i dont think somebody in any relationship should be giving their # out.
he said that he didnt want to tell me because I'd "over-react"
and be upset with him.
ever since then he hasnt brought his phone around me and he has no other way to charge it but in our home (cause his car charger is broke)
could this mean something is up or that hes trying to hide something?
also would it be wrong for me to ask him for this girls phone number to say that im gonna call her and ask whats really going on?

2007-03-26 22:08:55 · 14 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Singles & Dating

I was all set to go on a hot date with this awesome chick the other day.
We chatted and stuff over the phone, and I asked what she would like to do.
She said "surprise me" and so I stole her car and burnt it out in a cow paddock.
Boy oh boy, she'd get a real surprise allright if she knew what happened, but I'm scared that if I tell her, she wont want to be with me any more.
And the other thing is that I dont really like chicks that dont have a car of their own. It shows lack of responsibility.

2007-03-26 22:08:29 · 5 answers · asked by fnqbigboy 3 in Singles & Dating

now say you were going out with a girl and your girl friend thinks you like her friend and its true & she asks you tons of times if you like her would you admit it???

2007-03-26 22:07:51 · 4 answers · asked by thelibrandiva_666 1 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I hang out with a female friend of mine and her boyfriend, she always pays more attention to me then she does to him. Sometimes I feel guilty because she'll try to spoon feed me some of her ice cream, or jump on my back while we're walking. She'll ask me questions about how I would handle different situations in a relationship, and then when I answer she says to her boyfriend, "See, that's how it should be." More then a few times she's told her boyfriend that she is "seriously considering breaking up with him". She says it in a joking manner, but I just don't get it. Is she using me to make him jealous? Is it possible she actually is interested in me? I just can't figure out her motives. Anyone understand what's happening?

2007-03-26 22:06:44 · 11 answers · asked by isthatblip 1 in Singles & Dating

well
im a singer and a member of a newly formed band
the problem is the name of the band
i mean
i thought a name for myself (a gimmic)
n that was baad Day but my frnd says this name should be used for the band n not me
but i like the name cuz i thought about it first nd it was meant for me
he's insisting on keepin the band name
what do u think guys think who should get the name?
me or the band?

2007-03-26 22:06:40 · 6 answers · asked by Random Dude 3 in Friends

2007-03-26 22:05:22 · 13 answers · asked by rekha c 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom is so cool. I love her so much but if i ask her if I can go to the movies at like 5pm she'll say no and she says she can trust me its just the other people that she can't trust.
I am 13 and I wish she would stop treating me like a little girl....soo can you give me a little advice please..

2007-03-26 22:04:29 · 22 answers · asked by :DDtortillas:DD 2 in Family

What would you do if you`re faced with such a situation?
You got back your test results and found out that you got an extra 10 marks..It determines between a fail and a pass for you..Unfortunately,you best friend saw it and immediately threatened to tell the teacher and said she can`t keep a secret...In a fit of anger,you refused to tell the teacher,left and ignored her...

2 things she might do:
1)tattletail and inform the teacher
2)tell everyone that you are a dishonest person ,spoill ur reputation and end the friendship..

Would you just tell the teacher,save her from tattletailing and spoiling ur reputation?or would you just let it be,pretend nothing has happened and see what she`ll do to you?

2007-03-26 22:03:22 · 10 answers · asked by graceless_sky5 1 in Friends

2007-03-26 22:02:56 · 6 answers · asked by princess_selena_491 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I walked on the street, and I saw a girl who is very charming and has a beautiful face.
I have been thinking how to make her my friend for a long time.
I don't know even her number and address.
But she has the fixed path to return home from her office.
So I can see her in a fixed place, at the fixed time.
I want your kind help. Give me a help.

2007-03-26 22:02:31 · 6 answers · asked by jck_je 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this woman that works in a Doctors office as an patient account representative. I worked in Iraq and need to get some surgery. She seems very nice and friendly. How do I know if she is just doing her job or just being friendly. I do not even know if she is single. Any advise?

2007-03-26 22:02:08 · 6 answers · asked by Mark J 1 in Singles & Dating

Tell me the true meaning of Love.

2007-03-26 22:01:07 · 6 answers · asked by nagesh_mahendrakar 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 22:00:45 · 9 answers · asked by coffee boy 16 1 in Friends

like you know guys.................

2007-03-26 21:59:03 · 11 answers · asked by lani 1 in Singles & Dating

....with my daughter. She's 3 and a half and I absolutely adore her and love being with her. I work in the mornings and, if I don't see her before I go to work, I have to phone my hubby and ask to speak to her, just to say good morning. She's fantastic company and we have really good fun together.
Trouble is, she's due to start school in September (already goes to pre-school in the mornings) and people keep saying "they're lovely at that age. Wait till they go to school, it'll all change". Is this really true? How can I retain my bond with her when she begins this long journey through life?

2007-03-26 21:58:25 · 14 answers · asked by Rachael H 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I admire those who can accept their partners children from a previous marriage and feel love for them.
My husband has a 19 year old child from a previous marriage that I have never met. Our four children do not even know he exists.
After over 16 years the child now wants to meet my husband.
I just wish this child would disappear and leave us completely alone. I feel sick at the thought that he may come and visit.
We are a VERY happy family of six and I know that I cannot handle a visit from this child (now a man).
I know people will say horrible things about me, but I am not a horrible person. I am just being honest because I am soooo worried this child will ruin my happy family and my relationship.
The mother of this child and her family made it impossible for my husband to see this child after the marriage break-up and moved with no forwarding address. There has been no contact til now.
Please give constructive advise, not abuse!

2007-03-26 21:58:12 · 14 answers · asked by Peta G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 21:57:23 · 7 answers · asked by cris jc 4 in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend alot and yes we have disagreements and we argue and i hate argueing with him b cuz i love him so much how can i get him too love me and cuddle more and all that other great things love can do but when we argue its always my fault he says a aggervate him too much and what can i do to stop making him mad at me all the time?

2007-03-26 21:57:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me wife cheated on me and I am sad.What do I do now? I came home the other night and saw her and this guy having sex in my hall way. i just want to die. i dunno god help me oh god

2007-03-26 21:56:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm tired of getting kicked out of Burger King. What should I do?

2007-03-26 21:54:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 21:53:56 · 7 answers · asked by ash a 2 in Friends