Whenever I hang out with a female friend of mine and her boyfriend, she always pays more attention to me then she does to him. Sometimes I feel guilty because she'll try to spoon feed me some of her ice cream, or jump on my back while we're walking. She'll ask me questions about how I would handle different situations in a relationship, and then when I answer she says to her boyfriend, "See, that's how it should be." More then a few times she's told her boyfriend that she is "seriously considering breaking up with him". She says it in a joking manner, but I just don't get it. Is she using me to make him jealous? Is it possible she actually is interested in me? I just can't figure out her motives. Anyone understand what's happening?
2007-03-26 22:06:44 · 11 answers · asked by isthatblip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is probably using you to make him jealous. If she is under the age of 17 then thats the answer.
2007-03-26 22:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes to all your questions she is probably interested in you and doesn't want to admit it and yes she's using you to make her guy Jealous and yes she is confusing but she's probably confused herself and what she really wants is a perfect relationship but what she needs to realizes is there is no such thing as a perfect relationship cause no one is perfect and no one is always going to agree with the other person all the time to where both people win one has to win and one has to loose so the best thing for you to do is tell her that you don't want to be in the middle of her relationship and to keep you out of it because its about them and not about her , him and you and that you'll hang out with her but that she needs to pay attention to her bf or spend time with you when she ain't spending time with him. Hope this works for you . GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-27 05:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is playing around with your mind. Women tend to do this at a certain age. Do not attempt to make a move on her because that is not a cool thing to do to your friend.
2007-03-27 06:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by FarOut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could go both ways. i have seen both situations. i would stay clear of her for a while or have a talk with her alone. but if she does like you then i wouldn't go out with her because if she treats her man that way then thats just wrong! sorry i couldn't help more.
Good Luck
2007-03-31 01:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible she likes you but she could just see you as
a good guy and give her man the example of being a good
boyfriend. maybe you should have a talk with her alone,
not while her boyfriend is around
2007-03-27 05:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by happy-angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you're right that she just want to make her boyfriend are jealous and she using you. perhaps that her boyfriend ever make her jealous.
I ever use a guy to make my ex boyfriend jealous and we'll break up. And it's work
2007-03-27 05:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by AB.Christ'91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend likes you or she's probably usin you to makes her boyfriend jealous so personally i think you should get away from them for you can be blame for their break up
2007-03-27 05:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by yurrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you for sure. I would stay clear of her. Would you want to be with a girl that treats her man like that???
2007-03-27 05:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's going to get you punched In the nose.
You're safe ground to her, that's why she treats
you that way on her date. That's why he hasn't
knocked your lights out.
Be careful, and ask her why she does It.
2007-03-27 05:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a jealousy game...avoid this much contact with her..this is what girlfriends and boyfriends do together....
2007-03-27 05:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋