my boyfriend cheated on me around xmas time, after a hole lotta begging and grovling i gave in to giving him a 2nd chance, since then he had changed fuly, he did anything and everything for me, he was totally devoted to me. But later this week i found out that last year in october he had cheated on me while we were on a break. So i dumped him, he has become very suicial and he is depressed.I have never seen him in sucha state.Have i done the right thing? He had fully changed, it was only the fact he didnt tell me about what happend while we were on a break.
2007-03-26 22:15:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont give him another chance, let him beg all he wants...If he is suicidal, dial 911, they will pick him up...
2007-03-26 23:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Giving him another chance is just giving him another chance to cheat...Trust me on this - I've been there. If he really wanted to kill himself, he would have done it already. What he's doing now is called emotional blackmail - "Don't leave me or _____" is not a good enough reason to not leave a person. In the end you will always wonder if he is really where he says he is, with who he says he's with and doing what he says he's doing. That's my two cents...the choice is ultimately yours. Good luck
2007-03-27 05:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by leila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u did the right thing if hes gona keep cheating on u then leave him with one of the other girls hes only acting like that so u will feel sorry 4 him and take him back and if u do hes gona play u like he has been!! and you dezervie better. so dont let him play with ur emotions!!
2007-03-27 18:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by **♥ hOrSeRiDeR4LiFe♥** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough... Well, if you dumped him because of something at happened a long time ago, and he swore he has changed since then.. give him another chance. If he does it again after this chance, then screw him; you deserve better.
2007-03-27 05:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by pennysl00t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you did the right thing and he needs to get some help. if he did it once he will do it again it will be a matter of time and im sure that things arint the same as they were before and that will keep getting worst . so just bare with things cause they will get better i promise.
2007-03-27 05:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by sweetfire_aries 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater =Always a cheater
2007-03-27 05:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by jackylberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋