Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

I always hear guys complaining that girls are complicated, dunno what they want etc.

I wonder what things of your woman will make you feel irritated , or confused or you just hate it??

If God grants you a power to make them stop doing something, what are the things you would stop?

2007-03-26 21:53:28 · 12 answers · asked by kylie 2 in Singles & Dating

and now It's too late to change them and maybe impossible.

2007-03-26 21:52:55 · 3 answers · asked by shirin 1 in Family

I thought this guy was showing interest in me - he'd do favors for me, talk to me all soft and sweet and did double takes when he saw me - so I asked him out, and he agreed to go (he even blushd and grinned like a little boy) but I should've known I wasnt ready to date yet. (Selling the house, drama with the ex, etc.)

I see him two months later and remind him of that date. He stands real close to me, softly tells me "To be honest...."
he's in a relationship now, it's not "official" and so on, and so on. I nodded my head and was about to walk away, the strange thing is he kept going on about it "I'm out of the game, I'm not in the market anymore" then he says "Thanks for the offer though, I appreciate it"

I GOT IT DUDE!! I understand.

Why'd he feel the need to go on and on with the explanations?

2007-03-26 21:50:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 21:45:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've only known her for a few months, but I think we're close, we share secrets, and I know alot about her.

We get into some dumb arguments sometimes, she's stubborn, arrogant, a liar, and bitchy. Sometimes though, she's so sweet, so nice (she bought a gift for my sponsored child last week), funny and caring. I find myself staring at the phone wanting to call her, and when I do, I have nothing to say. I miss her when I don't see her.

To make it worst, she has a bf, so I really don't want to fall for her. I've even seen another girl casually to get my mind off her, and it didn't really work...

Why do I want her so badly when we get into arguments, and I know all the negatives about her, but I still think she's the perfect girl?

2007-03-26 21:43:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 21:42:11 · 6 answers · asked by mr_hndsome 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've boyfriend who he is too affiliate to me .several time of days i should call him,and each day i should meet him if not he bcame too sad.evrywhere i wanna go he wanna come.
in the night most of the night he stay behind the door of our home and call me to speak with him.
he makes me sad,evry thing and going evry where he wanna be with me,when i want to go some where for 4/5 days he bcame stupid i can c tears in his eye when i say i'm ging for some days y he is like this,what should i do with him?

2007-03-26 21:41:56 · 11 answers · asked by grisha 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 21:41:47 · 23 answers · asked by harvinder s 1 in Singles & Dating

I got involved with my fiance about a year ago and at that time he was still married, and his wife was over in Iraq. At first i thought that he was a dog but as i got to know him and talked to him, I asked why are you married and messing around with other women. And he replied that just because that everything appears to be great in the marriage doesn't really mean that everything is okay on the inside. So he told me about what she was doing and he had been putting up with it for 6 years. And he told me he was not happy, and his wife thought that going to Iraq and making all that money would make him happy and that was not the case.

So the more i talked to him the more my feelings got deeper and deeper for him, and i couldn't help but fall in love.

Was it okay to pursue this relationship with him being married???

2007-03-26 21:40:09 · 26 answers · asked by Proud to Be Mommy!! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Where did this god-awful expression spring from? Is it just used by slappers who like to sleep around, and who think it sounds better than,'Casual aquaintances I like to **** when I'm bored'.

2007-03-26 21:39:51 · 7 answers · asked by krak 3 in Singles & Dating

tell me plzz there is a competition between my sis and me plzz help

2007-03-26 21:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-26 21:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 21:37:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my daughter was age 4yrs she was fostered because I was suffering from depression which I was left untreated for, when I was raped four years earlier by someone I had trusted, I was still a virgin and saving myself, for when the right person came along. I was only seventeen at the time, nieve, stupid and knew nothing about boys, so you could imagine, this man thought I was dinner and he just ate me, then spat out my bones, I felt dirty, used and so foolish to trust him.
When I had my daughter fostered , I had every intention of getting her back but when I did try the social worker had left and my daughter was adopted by child abusers, I tried to find her on my own but I couldn't because I couldn't drive.
I was allowed to see her when she was thirteen, I jumped at the chance but she was sent with a minder which I now understand was her abuser, social services wouldn't let me speak to her on her own, all this time she was being sexually abused by the family who adopted her.

2007-03-26 21:37:10 · 9 answers · asked by Lyndell T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I have been dating this girl for over two months. She is really sweet and nice. We are both in our mid twenties. Last week, I dropped several hints about my birthday coming up, even mentioning the day. I also told her that I would be going out with my friends (it's was obvious she wasn't gonna offer to do anything anyway). So yesterday was my b day and not so much as a happy birthday from her. I did get an email from her asking what time she should meet me at my place to go to the movies the next day (something I had arrange days before) but that's it. WTF???? What should I do?

2007-03-26 21:37:01 · 1 answers · asked by 2 PAC 1 in Singles & Dating

i've boyfriend who he is too affiliate too me very much.several time of days i should call him,and each day i should meet him if not he bcame too sad.evrywhere i wanna go he wanna come.
in the night most of the night he stay behind the door of our home and call me to speak with him.
he makes me sad,evry thing and going evry where he wanna be with me,when i want to go some where for 4/5 days he bcame stupid i can c tar in his eye when i say i'm ging for some days y he is like this,what should i do with him?

2007-03-26 21:36:56 · 7 answers · asked by grisha 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 21:33:05 · 13 answers · asked by lani 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 21:31:07 · 10 answers · asked by shygal 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this unbelieveable man here on the comp... never met in person... i'm new to this... but i can say.. he is everything i want... he feels the same too... My feelings for him grew so strong.. i think about him all the time... i would give anything to have him with me.... but we live sooooo far apart... and it hurts more and more each day... never been through this before... don't want to tell him goodbye... just want to know how to deal with this .... the more i talk to him the more i want him here.. and it is killing me that he's not.... ...... thanks!!

2007-03-26 21:30:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 21:27:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 21:26:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Best Friend Is Really Starting To Confuse Me
We Have Known Each Other for Over 3 Years Now
And About A Year Ago I Asked Her Out
To Which She Said No
But Over The Last Month She Has Said About 6-7 Times That She Wishes She Could Love Me Like That Cos I Am A Special Guy And We Would Make An Amazing Couple
Girls Do You think I'm Reading Too Much Into This Or Do You Think That Somthing May Be there But She Can't Tell Me Direct ?????

Oh
And We Spending All Day Sunday Together
What Shall I Do ?????

2007-03-26 21:24:54 · 3 answers · asked by Jay Cee 2 in Singles & Dating

How would you know for sure if someone has in fact changed their ways?

The person really seems to have learnt his lesson..

2007-03-26 21:24:53 · 11 answers · asked by sexybabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

his toe pusses and i like the smell sometimes i eat it.....serious

2007-03-26 21:24:28 · 2 answers · asked by jenna h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, well my boy has just turned 18, and because im not quite 18, i cant go out with him.
i personally think im too attched to him, and i have a real problem with himn going out to pubs and stuff? why is this? i always feel like im going to have a panic attack, even though i know he would never do anything to me, i love him dearly but its like i dont want him to have fun without me? can someone tell me how to get over =myself and fully trust my boy?

2007-03-26 21:23:45 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah B 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this person at work who I was friendly with before but then his attitude changed and he became very arrogant and self-centered, and anytime he is around me he would find some way to belittle me or insult me in front of others. Even with this behavior this person still insists on "hanging out" with me outside of work, even though I can't stand this person. I don't want to be rude and completely ignore him, but what he does is just irritating and I don't think he realizes it.

2007-03-26 21:19:37 · 7 answers · asked by Vegas♠Bound 2 in Friends

ok there's this boy i been going out with since the past 8 months we broke up last month cause he said he need's to take a break to see if im the one.
he hurt me very badly.
i made a full out of my self and beged him to stay.
and then he said he has to see what else is out there to see is out there and hes still young.
i cryed and dye cause he was the love of my life.
then i found out then when we where dating he kissed his ex.
and he was always the one to acuse me off cheating.
it so agurvateing when i think about it.
after we broke up i found out he was talking to his ex agan.
that was like 3 weeks ago.
he said she was just a booty call or something like that,
then she called me crying and stuff.
so i said forget about him we waisted all our time on this player.
he hurt bothe of us.
now the other day my friend which is his cuz said hes been crying every nite cause he missed me and he said im the 1.
wat should i do

2007-03-26 21:18:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 21:18:36 · 7 answers · asked by Melanie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I contacted this guy who went to school with me when we were both in Kinder and he sent me this message telling me beautiful and that if I could ever give him a kiss once we meet again (I don't know if he's just playing around though) and I remember telling him that I don't kiss just like that, and now I see on his profile it says something like "beautiful, I can't stop thinking about you, I'm still going to give it to you", but I don't know if it's about me because I messaged him to see if that was to me by saying who is the girl that I gotta fight, but he never replied. Now whenever I message him he'll reply with a short answer or just no answer at all.

2007-03-26 21:18:31 · 7 answers · asked by Cardiophobia <3 5 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine is 27 years old. She has four children, the oldest in elementary school still. She comes from a poor background, and she's just now trying to further her education in nursing. She doesn't have much income and making it paycheck by paycheck is reality for her. She's got pretty eyes and decent face but dentures because of not having money for the dentist as a child. Her body is lean and athletic...amazing six pack despite four kids. She's very sweet, caring, real, and she loves helping people. Her intelligence is high. So, would you give this person a second look?

I don't want this friend as I am married but I am curious as to how "marketable" she really is.

2007-03-26 21:18:14 · 4 answers · asked by TCSO 5 in Other - Family & Relationships