ok there's this boy i been going out with since the past 8 months we broke up last month cause he said he need's to take a break to see if im the one.
he hurt me very badly.
i made a full out of my self and beged him to stay.
and then he said he has to see what else is out there to see is out there and hes still young.
i cryed and dye cause he was the love of my life.
then i found out then when we where dating he kissed his ex.
and he was always the one to acuse me off cheating.
it so agurvateing when i think about it.
after we broke up i found out he was talking to his ex agan.
that was like 3 weeks ago.
he said she was just a booty call or something like that,
then she called me crying and stuff.
so i said forget about him we waisted all our time on this player.
he hurt bothe of us.
now the other day my friend which is his cuz said hes been crying every nite cause he missed me and he said im the 1.
wat should i do
2007-03-26 21:18:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his cuzin im talking about is also my cuzin from a deffrent side.
so she wouldin want to be on his side those of u that said that
2007-03-27 16:50:17 · update #1
once a player always a player sorry to say.
2007-03-26 21:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by heather c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that he's messed with your emotions do you really think that you can believe anything he says? He used you and that ex so let him keep his tears to himself. Let him continue to "see what else is out there" as long as you aren't apart of it. He's a user and a total waste of time who will only hurt you again. You've degraded and made a fool out of yourself enough for that mindless cheating leach. Now that you're the "one" then be the "one"- the one who gives him a good hard kick right to the curb!
2007-03-27 04:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey their well i think that we been cheating on u all along why for him to say he needs a break that's because he could handle both of u or more OK and for him to see what Eal's is out their he wanted to make sUre he will have the other but, and the way u express Ur self to him like u say make a full of ur self that's were u let him now how much u love him so he might though OK i go ask the other girl to go out with him but i guess she dint fall for it now he see that she kick him to the curve and knowing the way u show Ur feelings he provably though he will get u back like nothing making u think that he decided for u? no duh! and about his causing she is just doing him a blood favor his provably telling her to tell u that his been crying loll what ever.
2007-03-27 04:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by sandysexy_4_fun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do?? Absolutely nothing, and if he calls you.... hang up straight away. This boy doesnt think you are the one, if he did he wouldnt need to take a break to know for sure... he would stay with you and be faithful, not be messing with his ex. He asked for a break to see what else is out there..... let him keep looking, you dont need him.
2007-03-27 04:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello mandas are u looking for a answer or defining it urself only. make yourself very clear abt him. Either he is ur need or u are his support when he is not find anybody 2 groom with. In the mean time ur question only hav the answer.... B strong in ur innerself. anyones tear can make some one mould into another world. best of luck dear....
2007-03-27 04:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dev1407 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be the one!... but what one?...the other one?, the old one?, the hurt one? or one of the many?.ect....
ok, if his cuz knows you and is truely your friend, then cuz also would know that you'd probably jump at the chance to have him back..right? so i must wonder, if he misses you and cries every night is even true, fore, he would put you in another round about with him before he would let himself suffer like cuz said he was doing. he does seem self-centered to me anyways. dont be the one thats being played by two.
if your his love you'll feel it, he'll have to prove himself.
actions speak louder then words, especialy someone elses.
play it safe and dont tell his cuz anything more about the way you feel for you x and see what happens.
myself, i would move on. life is to short to be stuck on the wrong one to long!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
good luck.
2007-03-27 04:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by barb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out your true feelings for this guy... think about the good and the bad things that he has done to you, i you can live with or without him. Does he still know how to make you smile? then you will know the answer if you also want him back :) good luck dear!
2007-03-27 04:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by khatzzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get back with him then you are stupid and have no self worth. stand up for yourself he isn't crying about you he just wants what he can't have if he gets you he will want his ex back or someone elses he will leave you for.
think don't just react you could hurt him maybe but why be like him. you could get back with him and let it all happen again. or move on and find what you want. it might be better than what you think you want now.
2007-03-27 04:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Bear_Polaroid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump him.guys are like this,they wanna take advantage of gals.so stop thinking of him and move on in life.u'll surely get someone better who deserves u.good luck
2007-03-27 04:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definetly get back together with him. If you both like each other, then you should get back together.
2007-03-27 04:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by pokhym 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋