I've only known her for a few months, but I think we're close, we share secrets, and I know alot about her.
We get into some dumb arguments sometimes, she's stubborn, arrogant, a liar, and bitchy. Sometimes though, she's so sweet, so nice (she bought a gift for my sponsored child last week), funny and caring. I find myself staring at the phone wanting to call her, and when I do, I have nothing to say. I miss her when I don't see her.
To make it worst, she has a bf, so I really don't want to fall for her. I've even seen another girl casually to get my mind off her, and it didn't really work...
Why do I want her so badly when we get into arguments, and I know all the negatives about her, but I still think she's the perfect girl?
2007-03-26 21:43:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you like her for who she is. no matter how bitchy or how negative her attitudes are, you accept her for who she is. i give you credits for that.
but..
she has a boyfriend. if you know that their relationship is not close to breaking up, then i guess he just really likes you as a friend. you just really have to know your limitations and where you should put yourself in the situation.
hope it helps. thanks!
2007-03-26 21:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell her everything you just wrote and see what she says.
Maybe she is filling a void.
Maybe you like her because she has everything you want, but is unavailable, which makes it safe.
Maybe she is scared because she feels the same so she causes a fight, to feel safe. Love scares her.
Maybe she is making 1 good man out of 2 okay men. ( You and boyfriend)
Maybe she is working you, good hearts are easy to manage.
As long as you progress from an argument, it was healthy to have.
Only thing that bothers me: a lair
you can't have a relationship without trust, you will always question it.
As long as you don't question or have to audit yourself, be in love. She should love all of you like you do her or it could be painful.
2007-03-27 05:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by mjoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We Al way's want what we can't have cause it looks better than what we have or don't have depending on the situation also we go for what challenges us to be better and also what is the opposite of the true us. You need to be honest with yourself and then be honest with her and let hr know that you are totally into her more than just her friend and also let her know that you'd like a chance with her if she ever leaves the guy she is with now , then you see the ball is in her court and she'll know your true feelings for her and in the mean time stay being her friend. Hope this helps and Good Luck!
2007-03-27 05:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always want what we cant have.
I know its hard, but you need to move on, and accept that you will just be friends. She has a boyfriend - just imagine how you would feel if someone was making the moves on your girlfriend - you would think he was a dirty manipulative tool. That is exactly how they will see you if you try anything.
There is someone out there for you.
2007-03-27 04:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you know all the ups and downs of this girl those not mean she's not good for a gf. she's propably your kind of girl that's why you can't get your mind off her. so i'll advice you go straight to the point and tell her you love her and propably make her amends. remember you cannot cheat nature.
2007-03-27 05:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by Glory E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh.. poor boy!!
Everythings clear! U really love her from the bottom f ur heart!!
Bt if she has a bf u hav nothing to do!! just wait and b patient!! If God wants to give you her smthing will happend!!
Gud Luk!!
2007-03-27 04:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls have this addictive Aurora about them, maybe its their feline powers, who knows? But on most cases it is always best if we turn and run the other way....lol
2007-03-27 04:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all want what we can't have.
You're also probably in some sort of lust in her aswell....maybe you should avoid her for a bit and do other things for awhile.
2007-03-27 04:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Nick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beats me, but it sounds like you're digging a big hole to co-dependency and you're three inches away to China right now.
2007-03-27 04:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's happy with her bf then u'd rather drop it. get ur acts together. u can talk to her if u want but not sure what good can come out of it
2007-03-27 05:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by tas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋