i love my boyfriend alot and yes we have disagreements and we argue and i hate argueing with him b cuz i love him so much how can i get him too love me and cuddle more and all that other great things love can do but when we argue its always my fault he says a aggervate him too much and what can i do to stop making him mad at me all the time?
2007-03-26 21:57:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really need to leave this guy...Let him find someone else to abuse....
2007-03-26 23:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-08-10 22:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by anekey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf isnt much of a cuddler as well, but what seems to work is i give him alot of attention alot of kisses and hugs and no after a while he misses it when i dont do it and he even begins to kiss me more often than what he used to (but i had to promise him that i wont tell anyone that he actually are starting to like it)
About him being mad at you for the smallest things, talk to him about it, it is most probably only stress that is usually the source of all evil.
2007-03-26 22:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you aggrevate him too much whats the reason for you to be together???
If he loves you he would change you for the better and you for him... a relationship is a two way deal... if one doesn't do their part then their is no reason for you two to be together...
i have to say that if you did what he asked would he do what you asked of him??? if he does then maybe your relationship would be better...
if he doesn't then he got you for reason that does not involve a love realationship but a master-servant deal....
2007-03-26 22:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you love him you have to accept him . U can have a discution with him , pleasent one and tell him what is upsseting u and what not . If you will not comunicate with him you will argue a lot from now on .Talk with him .But when you talk to him smile
2007-03-26 22:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Bogdan B 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Depend upon what stupid things you are doing. You need to be more specific.
2007-03-26 22:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound like you are the problem. You should talk to him and ask him what it is that you are doing to upset him, but personally I wouldn't stick with a person like that.
2007-03-26 22:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
"Question for an attached guy( including married). What do u hate about your girlfriend?"
Please refer to the above question I replied to.....relationships involve accepting eachother...no one is perfect....you need to talk to him seriously otherwise you need to find someone who will accept you...
2007-03-26 22:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
tell him how you feel
2007-03-27 03:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by RAYLON D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BLow J.o/b
2007-03-26 22:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋