I really need help. My best friend is going out with a boy. I have no feelings fro him. He's so mean to me and she doesn't notice it. He and I agreed never to talk again. And when I have to talk to him. Like teacher makes me he acts like a 4 year old and says ohi thouhgt you weren't gonna talk to me. And then I try to explain and he says la la la la. He's completly ruined our friendship. And we jsut get in a fight if i TELL HER I HATE HIM. So I really have to choice but to ignore. And my best friend acts like I dont exist
2007-03-26 20:12:48 · 3 answers · asked by hot chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is a very hard situation to be in I understand what you are going through! I ended up telling my friend how I felt about her bf and yes we ended up mad at each other and not talking for a week but she finally realized that boys come and go but true friends are forever and everything got back to normal... I wish you the best in what you decide to do e-mial me and let me know how it turns out or if u need more advice at redneck_cowgurl_2005@yahoo.com
2007-03-26 20:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put yourself in her shoes, imagine what it would be like if you found out that she had said those things to your bf. I'm sure it wouldn't make you happy either.
Simply sit down with her and try to talk things thru. Listen to her side of the story, explain how degrading he sounds when he speaks to you, maybe she will understand and talk to him. Or the down side (and probably more realistic side) may be that you lose her as a friend until she wakes up to herself and realises what a tool he is :)
2007-03-26 22:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by sarobdy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid seeing him if that's what you want... You should solve this problem between you and your friend..maybe she just act that way because of what you did... and maybe you hurt her feelings because of what you said...
2007-03-26 20:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by rhean s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋