Well while my bf and I were making out heavily I started to get close to orgasm. Oddly, as if he knew, my bf like, moved me and started rubbing like the perfect spot and I came within seconds. I felt really wierd after and we actually stopped making out, and he listened to me talk and mumble. I'm such a girl.. lol But my real question is, is that when some people say they are saving themselves for marriage, does that mean no orgasms before marriage too? Can I still honestly say I am saving myself?
2007-03-26 20:14:19 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're still a virgin, don't worry.:)
2007-03-26 20:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Casey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of possible answers to this question.
Some will say that an orgasm means a loss of virgnity. Others will say that oral sex is where you draw the line, and then the majority of people will tell you that it's not until a man physically penetrates you that you've lost your virginity.
Personally I feel the same. My view is that is that if no man has ever gone the distance with you, you are still, by all means, a virgin. A lot of puritanical fanatics and very religious people will tell you that an orgasm or oral sex are violations of your purity and therefore your virginity.
In the end, it's all about what YOU think. My fiance and I regularly practice oral sex and I will still proudly call myself a virgin because we're saving the actual sex deal for our wedding night.
2007-03-29 18:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Remi Hime 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, fisically speaking, I mean, a doctors opinion would be: If you have never had a vaginal penetration, you are still a virgin. But there have been reports of girls that loose their himen integrity in a rude accident, like a car crash, falling down of a runing horse or an athlete accident like those seen sometimes in the olimpic games, and it does not mean that the girl lost it, it was just an accident. The need to marry being a virgin is a concept that is not the same for all girls. If you feel all right beeing that way, then its OK, but if one given day you marry without your V, then you husband will understand, if he loves you and you love him. The most important thing in a marriage is not the V, are the confidence, the truthfulness, the love, the loyalty. If you and your husband have all these, you are lucky.
2007-03-26 20:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Gentle Giant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am quite positive that most people that say they are saving themselves for marriage still masturbate. And masturbation causes orgasms, no? You are still a virgin, but if I were to give you my advice: I would say quit worrying about the taboo of premarital sex, it will only make you more curious and experimental. Pretty soon you will be asking what is considered sex, and so on, so forth. Just do what your conscience tells you. Make your own opinions on what's best for you.
2007-03-26 20:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by sooner_touchdown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol of course! Saving yourself for marriage means no sexual intercourse. Many people have orgasms before marriage, like how guys masterbate...They even do that at age 13! and they still are considered vigins.
You have to be a virgin to say that you are Saving yourself...and you have intercouse to be a non-virgin. Therefore, your still a virgin and you are still saving yourself
2007-03-26 20:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by LostInTheCrowd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm thats a tough one, but saving your self I believe is just not vaginal intercourse but any sexual activity at all. But as for being a virgin, yeah you're still a virgin if there hasn't been vaginal contact with a penis (meaning going in), I mean as for as I know you can't become "deflowered" with fingers. LOL So you're still a virgin but I don't think you can say that you're saving yourself all the way LOL.
2007-03-26 20:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For females virginity is physical as inside the v*gina is a this tissue called a hymen and that is broken during the first time at s#x. THe term virginity was first a reference to that and then was adapted mentally for males so unless you have had penertration of the penis you are all good, not even tampons break it so dont worry. :)
2007-03-26 20:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by liverpool_pom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Carmen, You can still have an orgasm without having sex and save yourself for your wedding night. You are still a virgin.
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2007-03-26 20:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 12:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy. some might believe that the hymen intact is all thats needed. but if youve got a history of guys touching you regardless of penetration...maybe some might not think of you as 'virginal' pure. some dont want you to know a man in any way shape or form.
2007-03-26 20:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are still a virgin and make sure to really think about losing your virginity before you make a decision to have sex.
your virginity is something that you can NEVER get back, and people say "I'm a born again virgin," that is bullsh*t. so before you decide to lose it, think about it for about a month and always go with what your heart tells you.
but all I have to say is, if he can make you feel that good with clothes on, can you imagine without clothes!? =)
2007-03-26 20:20:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋