That was like six months ago. I keep trying to tell myself I don't like him. Sometimes when I see him I get butterflies, I get nervous. He calls me, sometimes it gets on my nerves, because I don't have anything to talk about (But I think that's just because guys can be annoying, can't they?) But we are very good friends, have good conversation, he makes me laugh, and he is very nice, dark eyes and dark hair, veerrry goodlooking at times. But when the bad kissed happened, I asked him if I could kiss him again. A little better, but not much. Later said I wasn't comfortable with us doing anything physical. When he told me he thought because he couldn't kiss, I told him that had nothing to do with it. I don't want to jump into another unhealthy relationship. He is 36. I am 25. I am not sure if its the age difference (do ya'll think it's too great?? I really wonder what other ppl think of age gaps) Why am I so wishy-washy about this? Why am I clueless? Am I cheating myself?
2007-03-26 20:31:52 · 7 answers · asked by Carhop3000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is terrible. I really like kissing and the bad kiss really threw me off. And what do I do if it never gets better?! I don't want to hurt him, I really like him.
2007-03-26 20:43:33 · update #1
This is probably a really stupid queststion. I'm retarded. I don't know how to tell if I want someone or not. I think it is partly because I am still in love with my daughter's father, who lives in Texas (my highschool sweetheart). But I am wondering if there is no hope for that relationship, then am I cheating myself?? I guess I am just crazy. Even though it didn't work out, and he has mentioned marrying this new girl, I still have this sick hope that one day we'll have the passion we used to. But I feel ike if I wait around to see if he ever wants me again, I'll miss out on life, like this next guy. Okay, there's the truth. I said it. Anyone got any advice for my sad case?
2007-03-26 20:48:26 · update #2
age is just a number.
nothing can stop two person from loving each other.
maybe the 2 of you are just too nervous and unsure thats why the kiss turned out bad..
try to relax and be more confident next time..
so what if the kiss is bad?
there's other things to do right?
maybe he gives really good huggs.....^^
all the best to the both of you!
:)
2007-03-26 20:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by tinklefaerie88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how bad is it? or he doesnt meet your expectations with dat kis? maybe he is still shy at his age. LOL! you can't judge a relationship if it will work or not with just a kiss.
a kiss is not good when the kisser is thinking of something or something bothers him.
i think you're still not ready to have a relationship with this man. sometimes you have doubts with your own feelings. try to set the feelings free if u love him, and it will do its own way.
remember that in a relationship, love must be involved. ok? age doesnt matter.
2007-03-26 20:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the chemistry just isn't there. If you really want to pursue it, try it again, and be honest with him if it's not great. You may be able to talk about it & find a way to improve it. Good luck.
2007-03-26 20:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by peanut g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a kiss is very important and personal kissing is great but when its bad everything seems bad so just stay friends and find a new lover that can kiss you into oblivion
2007-03-26 20:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it sounds like you have a thing for him, so try it and see how it goes.....Age is just a number, thats all..GL
2007-03-26 20:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ello. ithink that u're not in luv with him but crazy about him
2007-03-26 20:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by aINie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋