I'am a happy married woman to the perfect guy. I have 2 great kids, the perfect life. There is a guy at work that is interested in me (he is also married),we have been great friends. He had told me that he wished that i was the girl that he had met and married. We are very interested in each other, but have never crossed the line. And will never either. So why do I keep thinking about him? My husband is the best man in the world. Why keep thinking?
2007-03-26 20:15:16 · 17 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you have your priority's in line. You do realize that your family comes first....great to hear that. It is natural for you to be attracted to someone else and vise verse. Stay close friends with each other and it's OK to flirt with each other. If you do take it to the next level you should be honest with your husband and let him know. It's not always the cheating that split people apart it's the lying and deception that always seems to follow that torpedo's a marriage.
2007-03-27 02:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by TREX 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say it will never happen, but the reality is it could. That fact that this other guy is in your head and heart shows that you're on your way to having an emotional affair. An emotional affair could lead to a sexual affair. That is a line you DON'T want to cross. Take a good look at your marriage. Are you sure everything's okay with your husband? If you're not sure, take steps to fix it now before things get out of hand. Lots of luck.
2007-03-27 15:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cos it's refreshing, thrilling and it's totally flattering to have men lavishing interests and praises on you... especially since you are already married.
If you already got the perfect man and kids... think 101 times before you wanna do something so silly. Unless in reality your husband pales in comparison with this married man. Your kids shrunk in importance as compared to this thrilling oncoming affair.
If this new exciting tryst over weighs your current happiness then go ahead. If not... PLS count ya blessings and stay committed.
Everyone is prone to temptations. What matters is are you able to be firm and steadfast in your marriage vows and stay responsible to your lovely family.
I honestly would be flattered but wouldn't think about straying for a second if I seriously am convinced I have a wonderful husband and beautiful kids.
2007-03-27 03:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by glitzynicole 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depending on how long you've been married. I suggest that you step back and look where you're loyalty stands. Any woman that can question why she's with her husband I don't think should be with him, and god sakes, don't jump the gun. It may seem exciting and new now, but all you need is a little spice in your real love life. It's just boredom, we all need something new and exciting every once in awhile. Communication is key, openness and understanding, the foundation for a strong marriage.
2007-03-27 03:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im glad that u still know ur Husband is the best in the world..
Remember.. u will be spoilling ur own good life if u proceed with somthing to do with the guy at work..
Be strong to onli think ur husband goodness.. its casually normal to keep on thinking the person who likes u ... its a part of infactuation.... It will seriously ruin ur life..
Pls treasue ur life lady.. Remember.. This guy is jst for pleasure and lust.. Can never be like ur Husband!!
2007-03-27 03:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him he is on the line and best not cross it. You need to think about what your doing and determine if you really are happy. I'm sure you are but something ays theres more to this if you don't get a grip on this. Good Luck
2007-03-27 08:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg! cherish whatever you have now (great kids, perfect life, best husband, etc.) and do not go any further with this married man. Stop thinking about him, no point regretting once your trust is gone.
2007-03-27 03:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by Charlyn Lim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your married, not dead! Your both totally unavailable, so it's a little exciting. Just something new, a little boost to the self-esteem. But don't get too excited here! You don't want to start feeling any kind of guilt, so stay your distance. Plus you can't control how he really feels! Just stay cool-fair warning!!!
2007-03-27 03:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, put this other guy out of your life. YOU RISK EVERYTHING if you stuff up.
Trust me, IT"S NOT WORTH IT. You yourself know the answer. Keep thinking about him and you are walking down the path to death!
If worse comes to worst, quit your job. It's WAYYY better than losing your whole family. Trust me.
2007-03-27 04:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by Sparky_3150 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
should stop, dont spoil ur family.
u keep thinking bout him maybe u feel he is a good companion at work place, that good memory keeps u thinking bout him. u need to have somemore interesting activities with ur hubby and kids then u'll keep thinking of ur family when u at work..
2007-03-27 03:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by lost woman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋