about a month ago i got tied up in an incident where i was with a family friend (im 15, hes 17, and we dont know each other well) in the middle of foodtown when a 3 crazy men ran into the store firing guns and held us as hostages to get ransom. It was really frightning and i thought i was going to die, but naikey, the guy that i was with, told me that it was going 2 be fine and he was really calm through the whole thing. It was really wierd because we had never talked before then but i dunno just being in that situation with only each other for support (nobody eles we knew was held hostage) really pulled us together. i thought everything was going 2 be ok, until one man suddenly shot the old lady next to me in the head and she died instantly. I started freaking out and shaking and crying and naikey was with me the hole way. We ended up being hostages for over 24 hours, and in the remaining hours Naikey took a bullet for me and got shot in the shoulder. We are now really close...
2007-03-26 20:27:44 · 9 answers · asked by ~*.::. sAy--wAatT.:.*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...and share a bond that none of our families can understand. like, as soon as we got out, i hugged my family who were crying, and i was just like, "im fine, im fine" and then i just looked back at Naikey after being reunited with his family and when he caught my eye i just burst out crying. The other day, he told me that he loves me and has for ages. I have too - even if before the incident i didnt know him that well. However, im not allowed to date, and we both know his family wouldnt want us to date either, because i would seem too young. I dont want to cause a stirr up, and i dont want to go behind my parents back i mean after everything they have done for me, and i know im only young, but i also know that he is telling the truth and i know that this love is the real thing. what should i do??
2007-03-26 20:31:25 · update #1
Wow, glad you made it through such an ordeal! I would just be patient if I were u two, and wait until it's time for the two of you to shine together. In the meantime, I would communicate through the computer and telephone! Good luck!!
2007-03-26 20:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the question? He sounds like quite a guy. Go for it. But wait a couple years before you get serious. Your attraction could just be caused by the adrenaline rush you got from being in that stressful situation. It's a chemical reaction that causes people to bond when under pressure. It could just be a short term attraction. Be careful. Wait it out. On second thought, after reading the additonal information you posted about this, it sounds like he just saw an opertunity to get some action and he's using you. If you really think this is 'real love' than you're an idiot. Seriously. Grow up!
2007-03-27 03:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by i_amme_ur_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask your parents
They might say no but since you said you don't want to go behind their backs then that's your only option except for
you could wait 2 or 3 more years and that would make you even closer. "absence makes the heart grow fonder" Ya...=) and if it's true love then you can wait.In the meantime spend time getting to know each other better.
I hope that answers your question.
Oh ya.. and are you sure about the whole hostage thing? I mean that's kinda rare in real life?
2007-03-27 03:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by Beata g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 22 years old and for the life of me cannot wrap my mind around how either of you could love each other for "ages" when you're only 15 and he's only 17.
I think your feelings for him are based on the "hero" mentality. I don't say that to demean your feelings for each other but I still feel this is the case. It's perfectly natural to feel indebted to someone who has helped us out tremendously.
While I don't think you're too young to date, you still need to respect your parents' wishes. If you go behind their backs it will further fuel their ideas that you should not date.
Continue to be friends with the guy and see how things truly work out in the future.
Good luck.
2007-03-27 03:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a load of b.s. maybe its not, just saying it sounds like it. anyway, you didn't ask a question so what do you want people to say? and i watch a lot of news, i must have missed that story. just read your additional details, you do whet makes YOU happy. you have to live your life, not your family.
2007-03-27 03:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What great imagination. And then you lived happily ever after.
2007-03-27 03:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the question?
2007-03-27 03:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by sidekickLX! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the question?
2007-03-27 03:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by sonialynnl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.... wat i can suggest is..
Talk to him.. know him very well... Both of u ppl need to know each other..
Know..and let ages run.. be there as a "FRIEND" as for him to u..
See wat happends in the future..
Nothing is in our hands dear..
2007-03-27 03:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋