I've been spending the weekend getting over my ex with no compromise in sight, only for him to write:
Okay, I can see where you're coming from... and I will try to calm down in the future. I may be forceful in my tone but I you should not feel like I'm mad at you. Rather, I am emphasizing what I am saying, but not necessarily being terribly negative or hurtful. Some people do not seem to understand this and I guess the fault lies within me. I should think more about my reactions.
I'm trying to catch up with a few things, and our relationship also needs me to catch up a little, as well, though I do not know when I can have a serious conversation without feeling pressured about time or sleep. In the meantime I guess this is when I do have time to just sit, relax, and mull over your email.
That is all for now.
We've been arguing for a year. I had just about given up on him. Should I stay open to him? I think he has problems...but is he willing to work. on them? Does he care about me?
2007-03-26 20:51:10 · 7 answers · asked by Christina V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes to figure things up.
2007-03-26 20:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Boostergold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For true i know he will buy you anything you want but he fancies another girl whether you agree or disagree.He is a little bit frustrated with himself because from inside he is less confident but he is also a nagging man from the analysis of his mail to you.I bet he is not very romantic not because he does not know how to be but because he has got someone in his mind.I don't care how you may feel,but the truth is that he has had it so what else?GET YOURSELF A DIFFERENT MAN and a build a life for your self and future.
2007-03-27 04:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by Fire-up the Truth Directly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. If he is serious about the anger and other changes he needs to make, he can learn to respect himself and others without you. Then if he has really changed, maybe the two of you will cross paths in the future.
I just dont think that people really change, as much as they say they want to. I dont think that real change can come when youre in a relationship because you have to be strong by yourself, only then can you be good to others.
2007-03-27 04:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't say that he will work o his anger issues in his letter. Make him do anger management before you even hang out with him again. He sounds controlliing and probally eventually be physically abusive, as he is already verbally abusive.
If you take him back it is up to you...but you said you were almost over him already anyway, and how do you think physically abusie relationships start out? They ALWAYS start with verbal abuse first.
2007-03-27 03:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds confused. Go on, don't wait for him to decide what is going to happen in your life. If you have been arguing for the last year, you have wasted a lot of precious time. Take charge of your own life.
2007-03-27 03:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi christine,
ex is always ex. better forget and forgive him. try a new venture. enjoy the life!
2007-03-27 03:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please do.
first- because u r friends after all and u care for him.
second- because it might actually help solve the problem. so all the best....
2007-03-27 03:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by the questioner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋