I love this guy so much & I care for him, but I just don't understand he's always pushing me away frorm him but he said he loves me. Is there a love like that?
2007-03-26 21:05:02 · 8 answers · asked by lani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey,there are some smart asses out there right now that knows what to do to a lady.I presume this guy is a big challenge to you by his ways.Some men now behave like women especially when you make them to know you're dieing for their love.In order to know if he does really loves you as he says,arrange to go out and when you do if in a night club,abandon him and go about enjoying yourself and talk to other men as much as you can just for the sake of talking while watching his reactions.If he does happen to attempt to question you about who you are talking to and what you were talking about,then he does feel for you and is a jealous guy.But if he is just himself and shows no sign of interest then he has had enough of your world and needs a change Note that many smart guys will never tell you to go and not come back because they are scared of hurting the girl concern.However in this case I am quite sure you are a nagging girl.Change your way of approach towards him and if he does love you,you will need not ask
2007-03-26 21:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Fire-up the Truth Directly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably not want you want to hear.
He wants you to find an interest in someone else so that he can pursue another girl (or other girls). But at the same time, he doesn't want to lose you completely just yet. He's keeping you to fall back on till he's found someone else.
This guy will keep saying he loves you till he finds someone else. It is likely he does somewhat care about you, enough to hope you'll find someone else so you won't be too hurt when he dumps you.
2007-03-26 21:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ratsoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he cares for you in a healthy way. If someone loves you, they don't push you away.
2007-03-26 21:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he's just very trusting of you and thinks you need to mix with others.
2007-03-26 21:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT SOUNDS LIKE PIMPING TO ME(LOL).HONEY I THINK YOUR MAN IS TELLING YOU HE'S NOT READY FOR COMMITMENT.I BET HE'S PROBABLY DOING THE SAME THING.TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT,MAYBE HE TRUSTS YOU AND FEELS STRONG IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
2007-03-26 21:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by MAIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not love... and if he wants you to chat come over and chat with me im me
2007-03-26 21:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could just be scared, he most likely wants to protect his heart.. give him some time...
2007-03-26 21:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is testing ur love from him
2007-03-26 22:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋