Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

2007-03-26 09:12:18 · 11 answers · asked by Georgia 1 in Family

2007-03-26 09:12:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to find the girl through my effortts., i am 24 yrs of age., & i dont assign any weight to online matrimony, newspapers ads or marriage bureaus, as i dont beleive on its efficacy as a lot of cheaters are there. i did used this method for the past 2-3 years, but in vain. Also there are no good girls in my relatives.

Will i get my true love, i dont want a very rich girl or so, i am very good looking & hence , i would prefer, if i get a good girl, thats it

2007-03-26 09:11:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend because I didn't like where the relationship was going(he didn't realize that he was mentally abusing me) and realized I was a lot happier when I wasn't dating him. He's now in a deep blue funk, but his best friend promised me he'd cheer him up.
I have a rule for after breaking up, I don't start dating again for the same number of weeks after I dump a guy as the monthes I went out with him. To me, it's common courtesy.
But now I find myself falling for a friend of mine that was there through the entire ordeal. We trust each other a lot( I'm the only one that knows he was a boyscout), and one of our friends says he spends more time talk to and being with me than any of his other friends. Yes, I like him, I wouldn't mind going out with him. But does that mean I should break my rule? I still care about how my ex feels, I don't want him to think I just broke up with him to start dating another guy, cause that wasn't the reason. What do I do?

2007-03-26 09:10:15 · 9 answers · asked by kytigirl200 3 in Singles & Dating

with a booty?
who can cook?
who are good in the you know where?
to be gorgeous shut up and take care of the house and raise kids? cause i am talking to and italian guy and he expects all of this i told him i can't cook he said i better learn if i get smart he immediately expects an apology even if he is in the wrong he said he could teach me how to be good in the bedroom and im suppose to stay good looking be quiet stay out of his business and raise kids and take care of the kids even told me if we get married and divorced and had kids the only way i could have them is if i did the right thing if not he would take them but his whole take charg atitude is sort of a turn on so what do italian men expect of their women?

2007-03-26 09:10:09 · 6 answers · asked by shyababy05 1 in Singles & Dating

we went out for a night for the first time and she didnt really talk much, we av quite a lot in common but it didnt seem like we connected that well. she said it was just because she was shy and didn't no me that well.

2007-03-26 09:10:00 · 13 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Singles & Dating

his dad has been in and out of prison since he was five and just got out a few months ago and my son gave me such a hard time to go live with his dad that i finally relented when he got thrown out of church and school. He is home this wk for spring back and has been completely disrepectful to me, his sister and his step father who I have been with for nearly 7 years. I was so looking forward to seeing him and spending time with him but since he has been here he has just been awful to the family and I dont know whether to punish him like I would if he still lived with me or grin and bear it since he will only be here for a wk and I dont want him to leave hating me and not wanting to visit again

2007-03-26 09:09:57 · 20 answers · asked by pickletbug 2 in Family

2007-03-26 09:09:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

CAN ANYONE HELP I AM GETTING MARRIED GOTHIC STYLE IN MAY AND AM LOOKING FOR SKULL AND CROSSBONE RIBBON TO GO ON THE CARS BUT AS YET THE NET HASNT OFFERED ME ANYWHERE TO BUY IT CAN ANYONE HELP

2007-03-26 09:09:44 · 8 answers · asked by stripeypipey 2 in Weddings

My husband just admited that he cheated on me.We are going to try to work things out but, what if he really didnt tell the lady it was over and is just telling me he did. I just really need to talk to someone.He claims he only slept with her once and only meet her 4 weeks ago. He says he doesnt love her but he cares for her. How??How can you care about someone that you have only known for 4 weeks??? And how can i tell if he is still seeing her.

2007-03-26 09:09:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I'm a middle child, this probably sounds stupid but anyway, the youngest in my family is the favorite....And he never gets in trouble, or gets blamed for anything...Maybe I'm stretching it a little bit, but still! and the only person I can talk to in my family is my older brother....But he moved out, and he has a g/f so he never really comes over very much....Idk what else to say, but yeah....

2007-03-26 09:09:17 · 3 answers · asked by A.J. 4 in Family

My boyfriend moved out of our apartment yesterday, at my request. We've been together for a year and a half, and he won't make commitment to me. I want to get married in 5 years or so, and I want him to tell me that we have a future together, but he won't. Did I do the right thing? Should I have stayed with him? What can I do to stop crying? I feel like I've just made the biggest mistake of my life. I know that we can still be together, and we left on great terms. Is it smart to want to plan ahead...even if it is a long time away? Should I ask him to move back in? Any advice would be appriciated. Thanks

2007-03-26 09:09:13 · 7 answers · asked by Kathryn R 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Even be confused on who he is, always looking for someone to give him his props.

2007-03-26 09:09:12 · 3 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 09:08:57 · 12 answers · asked by The_Yack_Myster 2 in Singles & Dating

When I tell people that my boyfriend of 14 years ( we have 2 kids) left me 3 months ago, they say try to get him back. Why do they say that? Of course I would love to have my family back together. But what am I supposed to do? I am not the one who left, he had already made up his mind what he wanted to do. He knows I love him. He already has a new girlfriend. I will not beg him to come back. I also will not compete for him with his new girlfriend ( we are all in our early 40's.) I have more self respect for myself then that. That is why I hate it when people say try and get him back. Of course I would love to have him back home, but he has to want that on his own. Don't you think so?

2007-03-26 09:08:41 · 19 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my mother in law is EVIL. I MEAN EVIL!!
she listens at my door b4 she BARGES in. If you told her the moon was green, if there was a way to twist it to make her look like a victim, she would. She finds EVERY POSSIBLE WAY SHE CAN THINK OF TO BLACKMAIL MY father in law to pay her bills,she steals, cheats, lies, and has numerus affairs, AND on top of all that she is an alcoholic, has a gambling problem and she causes DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA!!! my father in law wont divorce her b/c " she is my punishment for not consulting GOD b4 I married her"
I NEED SOMETHING TO HELP MY ENTIRE FAMILY OUT...
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2007-03-26 09:08:14 · 28 answers · asked by heatherclhn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My officemate says it is an excuse to be selfish.

2007-03-26 09:08:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 09:07:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy I have a crush on has not been calling me because he feels awkward because he has a girlfriend. Heres the deal (He is a recruitor)--the guy that works with him has told me on several occasions things like "Dont worry He WILL COME around just give hm time" or "He needs to figure things out then he will come around" and he has said "Trust me on this one it will work itself out just give it time and be patient with him it is just a little awkward right now because of him having a girlfriend" and he has said "He and I have talked about this before and trust me it will work out just dont push him. Just leave it alone for now and he will come around" but then the guy that works with my crush will say my name really loud on the phone and then he will say Call me later so I can talk to you more but then I dont call.....does that mean he knows more than what he is telling me? does my crush maybe have feelings for me and is afraid to let them be known?

2007-03-26 09:07:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my girlfriend calls me and we talk on the phone for 30 minutes she sounds happy, but near the end of our conversation like in the last 5 minutes she always sounds sad and i dont know why? Do you know why she would be sad?

2007-03-26 09:07:19 · 15 answers · asked by Salty Smile 1 in Singles & Dating

I really want to tell my gilfriend I love her, but I don't know how. Also I'm nervouse because I don't know if she feels the same way.

2007-03-26 09:07:12 · 10 answers · asked by Mighitman 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband of 7 years is working to become one of the fine men of LAFD, it's the first thing in a long time that he has really wanted & been excited about; for me not so much, I believe in being a supportive wife so I have been trying to "fake it till I make it" in terms of REALLY wanting this for him; I do all of the wifely supportive things, works of encouragement, helping schudle EMT classess, smiling and telling him that I am happy for him and proud of him (which is 100% true).

For me this means a move 500 miles, leaving my job that I LOVE which I have invested 2 masters degrees to get, and being ALONE with our 3 kids under 4 years old AT LEAST 12 days a month. I am terrified that this is a sentance to a lonely life, with no friends and an absentee husband.

I am so proud to have a husband that wants to be of service, I want my support to be whole hearted.
Is this the way the life of a firefighter wife is?
What are the pro's/ con's?
Are you happy? your children?

2007-03-26 09:06:38 · 12 answers · asked by perfection1908 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i cant seem to find any good guys out there......whered they all go??

2007-03-26 09:06:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is always some bozo who wants to be the king!

2007-03-26 09:04:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when you love someone and they don't love you back. after you just broke up with your old boyfriend and they still have feelings for you and you don't love him and you love someone that loves you friend?

2007-03-26 09:04:26 · 3 answers · asked by lily 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a teenage girl who is a virgin. I've always thought of saving my virginity till marriage, but now that I am in high school I'm not so sure. So guys tell me [and girls are free to give their opinion too] if you were to pick a girl ["marriage-wise"] would you rather have a virgin [a girl who has had no sex at all] or a girl who is not a virgin and has more experience? Please give honest opinion, and I would appreciate no crude answers. Thank you!

2007-03-26 09:04:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy i met a year back and i saw him not that long ago at the mall, and sure i talked to the guy alittle bit but i was just being nice. and now he somehow got my number (probably from one of my friends) and he leaves me messages that we should hang out almost every other day! (i would never date this guy in a million years) i already told him that. but anyway how do i get this guy to stop calling me?

2007-03-26 09:04:21 · 12 answers · asked by hippy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 09:04:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

they had only been sparated for about a day and i screwed her should i tell him(i don't car about the beating just i dont want the hommie to be hurt)

2007-03-26 09:03:32 · 6 answers · asked by luis c 2 in Friends

Guys, have you ever, or do you do this and do most guys?

2007-03-26 09:02:15 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating