2007-03-26 09:12:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I am going thru a divorce as we speak, as a matter of fact I am going to the legal aid office in a hour to prepare my response. Divorce is the HARDEST thing I have ever gone thru in my life. It is an emotional nightmare. All you think about is the good times you had together and then you hear songs that make you think about him/her and you cry and then the depression starts and you shut down, etc etc. I am living in a hotel, eating canned crap and she is in our home with the kids. If your thinking about it, make sure its what you want, because if you have second thoughts, and you try to get back together, it will NEVER be the same between you two.
2007-03-26 09:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Paybackisamofo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a list of pro's and cons,do the cons way out number the pro's??? Does your partner abuse you? leave. Try and Try to make it work and then when it's clear that you just can't be happy with each other,you will know it. Do you want to be unhappy for years and years,or unhappy for a short time and then find the person that really makes you happy.
2007-03-26 09:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by spoiledsarah25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is selfish but think about it for you not anyone else. yes it will be hard on the kids or on your finacial situation but are you really happy. why go thru life being miserableand in a relationship that isnt worth it. who cares what everyone thinks about you. if you are being abused get out now, if you are supporting someone that isnt a loserleave him, if you are with someone that isnt there for your kids leave. you dont have to spend another minute being in this relationship. if you think he has cheated on you he will again. you dont deserve to be treated like the way you are. you know what you want in your life. is this the way you want to live? you knwo what to do? good luck.
2007-03-26 09:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me two years to finally get the courage up to leave, but it only took me one month to file for a divorce.
It's hard but if it is something you know will make you life better it's the easiest thing to do.
2007-03-26 09:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you've exhausted everything mentally, physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually, etc.., then it's time to go. If it's not worth fighting to keep, "then it is what it is" over.
2007-03-26 09:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of the heardest decisions to make! if uve tried everything..and just cant make it work...its time..
2007-03-26 09:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by lisa baby... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very easy decision...especially if the situation is not a good one for your children.....very easy decision....
2007-03-26 09:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
must be very difficult
2007-03-26 09:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only need determination to do it!
2007-03-26 09:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋