we went out for a night for the first time and she didnt really talk much, we av quite a lot in common but it didnt seem like we connected that well. she said it was just because she was shy and didn't no me that well.
2007-03-26 09:10:00 · 13 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she was, don't give up just because of this, ask her out again, see what she says, you will know how she feels by her reaction, if she says no, at least you know and if she says yes, give it time and relax, eventually things will fall into place. it takes time to know someone
2007-03-26 09:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by white_funny_girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give the girl a break, if you'd gone out and she was all mouth and trousers you'd probably be saying that she was a gobby bird.
Try finding out what kind of things she likes to do and then ask her out again, theres no point taking her out to a club if she hates loud music, or falls asleep in the middle of a film at the cinema.
If you have loads in common trying working on that and take it from there!
2007-03-26 16:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her back out again and hopefully it will all fall into place it does take time for people to connect with others and a feel if yous both see each other more often and get time to know her and her to know you ..... then things will work out so i dont think you should finish with her
2007-03-26 16:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Don't be daft. Take her out again in a more relaxing setting, and try to make her comfortable & at ease. She probably was shy and nervous. First dates can be nerve-wrackin'..... Don't give up after only one date, unless you really don't fancy her, or don't want anything to happen. Let her know that she can be open with you, but make sure you keep her trust. Let her know you're only human too, by sayin' you're nervous too. Good luck!
2007-03-26 16:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by Starman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not judge someone for the first date. Sometimes, people just like to see first, act after, that way they feel safe. After she gets to know you, she will open up, and only then you will realise whether she is the one or not.
Good luck!!!
2007-03-26 16:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sesoid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the girl a chance ,not everyone is able to talk and be chatty on a first date , take it easy and wait to see how it develop's
2007-03-26 16:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See how it goes... I seem to be shy at first cos I don't know ppl, but when I meet them... god bless, and if you don't have good sense of humour...run away. Some ppl don't show their true "me" cos they are afraid they will look silly. If you like her give her another chance...and maybe yourself...
2007-03-26 16:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by P P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give her some time she might really like you, and thats why its hard to get her to talk to you. just take it slow- if thats what she needs.
2007-03-26 16:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by aminallover29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish? is there anything to finish after one date? if u like her ask her out again, if you don't think theres anything worth pursuing then don't ask her.
2007-03-26 16:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by scotgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said if you like her. If you don't then don't build her hopes up. If you do, and she likes you too, then work at it.
2007-03-26 16:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by Aslan, reborn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋