i cant seem to find any good guys out there......whered they all go??
2007-03-26 09:06:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't go to bars or clubs these guys just want to hook up, I'd say if you're in college try to meet someone in one of your classes, go to book stores, join a charitable organization, go to church (even though it may be boring),support a candidate in a local election these guys have more going on are, and by getting involved in church an election or a Charity you'll really get to know them well. good luck =)
2007-04-03 07:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny you should ask.
As a card-carrying member ("Sarcastic In A Silly And Not Intending to Be Mean Way" Division) of the Good Guys League, let me tell you. First, we only come out of our underground lairs around the equinox, so hurry. Then, we tend to get overlooked, hence the part of our creed where it says, "We are like a brother to every woman worth dating." So, defeated and without plans of rebelling against the females' wishes, we tend to keep to ourselves in the hopes that we get sought out by some magical lady, who we refer to as "The One."
How to spot a GGL member among male humans?
1. We tend to have good relationships with our parents.
2. We frequently give hugs and honest advice.
3. We tend to get bullied for being nice.
4. We all listen to Radiohead.
5. We are either shy or funny.
Hope this helps. Time to meet up with other GGLs at the open mic.
2007-03-26 16:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Nathan C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are not players, they have no game and use no pickup lines, their body language is generally not aggressive but rather defeatist (been turned down so much) they are quiet, they are usually alone in public (when they do go out), they usually do not have the nerve to ask you out or even look at you for fear of you thinking that they just want sex, they are lacking in self-confidence and frequently are moody because in their heart of hearts they know they would treat you right and make you feel special yet see most of you hurt by bad guys you think you can fix. In short, just think the opposite to the way most women do when picking out guys and you will find many of them. But you will have to do the asking. Then once you do go out expect your friends to be judgmental and think that he is a loser - which makes you one by association. Can you live with all this?
2007-03-26 16:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure u know what a good man is and that u know what to do with him once u find him. Just have some patience u can't really go out looking for good men cuz you're most likely to come across some trash.
2007-03-26 16:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by *VS* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who said there were any "good men" in the 1st place? Just find someone that you like being with and don't worry about the other stuff. Life's too short to sweat the problems. Just have some fun.
2007-03-26 16:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-26 16:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are not allot of good guys out there and the ones who say they are only say that to get those panties. I know the guys are going to bash me for this one but its the truth. Luckily my lady was able to find me and I've been with her for 3 yrs now. You should stop looking and have time for yourself. Until you know yourself how do you know what you're looking for in a guy. God will send you someone if you will stop and let him. Every guy you've dated probably shitted on you because you were looking for them. Baby girl trust me just be cool enjoy your time alone and he will manifest himself to ya . Peace
2007-04-03 15:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by citizenparticular 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it, but most of us good guys that are left are not just either taken or gay but tired of all the b.s. that comes from women that have been in to many bad relationships. I would imagine that this is mostly true of women who date guys in that they get tired of games alot of guys play. Sorry, but this is what society has become. It is sad that people just can't treat others right.
2007-04-03 15:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by Robert M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You try and try again. Its kinda like searching for that one perfect pair of shoes. You run into so many choices that it can get overwelming at times, but when you find the one pair that looks great with that black little dress and will still work with those jeans....Hey, wasn't it worth the time?
2007-04-03 15:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Bunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that either their overlooked somehow, married/taken, or gave up on finding a good girl, so stay hidden. The latter seems to be the most prevelent.
2007-03-26 16:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by Weston 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋