how do i find a life partner, i don't believe in internet matrimony site, newspaper ads or marriage bureaus

Question

i want to find the girl through my effortts., i am 24 yrs of age., & i dont assign any weight to online matrimony, newspapers ads or marriage bureaus, as i dont beleive on its efficacy as a lot of cheaters are there. i did used this method for the past 2-3 years, but in vain. Also there are no good girls in my relatives.

Will i get my true love, i dont want a very rich girl or so, i am very good looking & hence , i would prefer, if i get a good girl, thats it

Answer 1

good luck they are the same everywere there is no definite place for the right one, not even church best thing to do is not to settle for the first one you see and keep dating as much as possible

Answer 2

may be you are looking for the girl that is not out there. are your expectations of that girl at an appropriate standard. I know what you are saying. but can you look past if she is not the prettiest, the thinnest, the tallest or the shortest, if her voice is to high or low, what if she has 6 fingers.

I usually find that people who can not find the ms/mr right it is because they expect way to much. When all you should be looking for is a sweet person that you have a lot in common with. to grow with.

what is this there are no good girls in your relatives. I hope you are not looking for a love with your relatives.

first you have to meet a friend then grow do not expect it to happen over night.

I will tell you how I met my husband. I was tired of all the bars and single adds. I was discouraged that there was really some one out there I could care about. but I had a son whos father was not there for him. so I felt he needed a father. I wrote a letter to God. I told him what I was wanted. what i needed. and said you show me the one. with in three months I met my husband and i have never been happier all these years.

Answer 3

Hey buddy ur too young for marriage man

Well Man u will find some one when right time comes.Well when i was at ur age 2 years ago i mean i use to think the same way i thought god its imposible to find a girl in india and belive me i got upset and stoped looking for any one.

But as i said when the right time comes u will get some one no matter where she she is from and where she lives
after 2 years i found the girl of my dream in country like israel which ithought i will never get a chance to go. But i got a chance and so do my life isaeli lfie partner.

So wait and watch u will find some one. Time has the key to everything

Answer 4

It is a numbers game. The more potential women you can connect with, the better your chances. just because it didn't work for the last 2 or 3 years, doesn't mean it can't.

Those things were invented to increase your numbers, it is more efficient. Cheaters can be found everywhere.

If you had to go across the ocean would you swim, or use a ship?

If you had to travel 250 miles, would you walk or use a car or a bus?

If you had to find a woman, would you look in 5 local bars, or connect with hundreds of thousands of potential dates on the Internet?

Perhaps focus less on the marriage and more on just dating.
Many, many women are out there.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Well first of all u r still young. Dont be in such a rush enjoy as much life as u can on your own than a relationship will happen.. I think that u will need to go to places of interest to u.Say u like dancing but u dont want a bar fly correct so try to find a dance lessons somewhere or the gym just keep your options open and dont settle for the first little babe u meet unlesss angles had flown u there.and sat u in her lap. lol take care

Answer 6

Is true that when you least expect it, that's when it will happen. Maybe you already know her but don't think of her as partner material. Sometimes what you are looking for is right in front of you. Do you have any women friends who might fit the bill. Look at little closer to home and maybe find what you are looking for. Also try not to be so picky. The wrapping isn't everything. A beauty queen wife may give you nothing but grief.

Answer 7

Try not looking, the best relationships come naturally, if you do not go anywhere you will not meet anyone. The more you get out the more chances you have of meeting someone special.
A lot of times you can discourge a female by having up front conditions. Right now I suggest you work on friendship with females and let nature take its course.

Answer 8

well hun i understand i would have never tried ads either. personally i was one of those people when i was young that said i would never get married until i was like over thirty. i never wanted a relationship. one day i looked at one of my guy friends and all of the sudden it just clicked in both our eyes that we should be together. we had known each other for a year as friends and had never even flirted and i had never even thought about him in that way. this may we will have been together 6 years and married for 5 in October. so best advise i can give is don't look. just have fun and live your life. try and be happy with yourself and not think of another person as something you have to have to be happy. good luck and never let on that you like anyone at first it scares them off.

Answer 9

If you want to find the love of your life. First, thing you need to do is quit trying so hard to find someone. Second, when its that time in your life for love, it will happen. Believe it or not, some women can tell if a guy is desperate. So dont get in a hurry, it will happen when you least expect it. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 10

Some day u would definitely get a good life partner not because you are good looking but because you are a good person. And keep your eyes open there are whole lot of good girls around you.