Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

My ex & I split up 3 yrs ago. He is now in a relationship with a 18 yr old girl, he is 32,our daughter is 8.
I told him I didn't agree with the her age, she was 16 at the time & said our daughter could only see him not her. He only sees our daughter about once a month for the max of 7 hours each time - his choosing.
Last Easter I received a text message saying that 3 days previous they had had a baby boy.
My little girl was & still is deverstated. She constantly crys & said that her daddy doesn't want her anymore.
I backed down & said she could see his girlfriend so that she could see the baby.
But things have got worse & worse, every time she goes out with them he never spends time with her, just concentrates on the baby.
He still only sees her when he wants, still about once a month always saying he's busy working even though people including myself have seen him out with the girlfriend & baby.
I've tried speaking to him but he doesn't seem to care & nothing changes.

2007-03-25 05:04:56 · 11 answers · asked by wendywitch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I know if a guy likes me? I really think he does..but I'm not sure. Since I broke up with my boyfriend this guy has been flirting with me even more than usual. And our conversations have been different. I've liked him for a really long time..and I really hope that he likes me. I know that the only way to be completely sure is to ask him..but if anybody knows certain signs to watch for..please tell me. Any answers are much appreciated.

2007-03-25 05:04:51 · 1 answers · asked by Lucie<3 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 05:04:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Unfortunately lastnight I had a lil too many to drink & drunk dialed this guy that I used to have a casual relationship w/. I've talked about him on here before in the past, so probably some of you know who I'm talking about. But anyway, we actually just talked & emailed each other because we are still friends, although I still have that emotional connection w/him. In the recent email, I asked him how everything was going & if he still wanted to go to Colorado & last time I talked to him he told me that he had taken a break from his gf that he had just met. I had to be fine w/ him having a gf because when he moved back home, we left it as friends..so he emailed me back & told me everything was going good, but he wouldn't be able to go on a trip & wants to try for next year & then he wrote that he got back w/that girl. Anyway, I wrote him back telling him I was happy for him, in an upbeat attitude & said that I was glad we were still friends. Well that was Thursday that I talked to him.

2007-03-25 05:04:44 · 3 answers · asked by V i P b A b Y 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I do it, and what do I say.

2007-03-25 05:03:59 · 7 answers · asked by ONE N ONLY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so im a 25 year old guy and am 6 foot tall and weigh 195lbs. I went out for a drink with friends when one of my girl buddies (21 years old and i don't know around 5 foot 3 and maybe 120lbs) just came over to me and scooped me up like you know those cradle style lifts?

My guy friends were there too and were shocked, as was I. She managed to carry me from one pub to the next which was like 70-80 yards. She even managed to jostle me up and down as we went along. This was embarrassing to say the least.

Its made me question something i was too ignorant to even comprehend before...........just how strong girls are getting.

My ego was deflated abit i can tell you.I hadt to carry her after in a bid,i guess to get back some ego haha

So ladies,girls.......have you any stories to tell where you have done anything similar and shocked a guy friend with your strength. What was it?

Dave

2007-03-25 05:03:45 · 6 answers · asked by daveslater2005 1 in Friends

OK, recently hubby seems to be going thru a midlife crisis of sorts, and part of this is that he eats at the two Hooters close to us on a regular basis. I explained to him once that it bugged me, and we talked it over and he explained that he is not doing anything inappropriate and it makes him feel good to go to a place where the people remember him and are friendly. OK....well about a month later we went away on a romantic weekend, and the very next day, he goes to hooters, and it just hit me the wrong way, that even though we had this great weekend, he still felt the need to go somewhere and get 'recognized.' I explained to him how it hurt my feelings, and we had a big arguement and he said, well just tell me not to go, and I told him NO, I was not going to do that. So now my policy is don't ask, and I know he continues to go, but I don't bring it up anymore. Today I was doing laundry and found two receipts from H for the same day, and then I went back into our room and he had

2007-03-25 05:03:29 · 21 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this girl I really like, but we are best friends. I really want to tell her but something is just holding me back.I think if I tell her, something will happen to our friendship.We have lost contact for the last couple of weeks. What should I do?

2007-03-25 05:03:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If u love ur ex gf so much, should u fight to win her back no matter what the odds or should u just let her go? u know she still has feelings for u but for certain reasons cant be with u.

2007-03-25 05:03:04 · 15 answers · asked by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 05:02:38 · 2 answers · asked by hmm?. 1 in Singles & Dating

So i have this freind and my mom thinks she is just using me when her other freinds are busy. i really dont think that is true we have known eachother for bout a year now and my mom says she really could careless and my father is just taking my mothers side so i have no choice. PLEAE HELP!

2007-03-25 05:02:21 · 3 answers · asked by blackshadowbabe33 1 in Friends

2007-03-25 05:01:56 · 21 answers · asked by Ammy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he did me wrong and i blew up on him cuz im tired of him doing me wrong and disrespecting me. now he call his self upset with me cause he said i talked to him like he aint nothing. so why is he trying to reverse it all the time. when he was the one who did the wrong in the first place. i hate people like that. he doesnt want to be a man and except responsibility for how he did me and to make it so bad he showed no remorse and his apology was dry as the sahara desert. why are men like this.

2007-03-25 05:00:53 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 04:59:30 · 5 answers · asked by Animallover13 1 in Singles & Dating

subject later. If I take the part out of my profile where I am looking for commitment and marriage and will not live with someone I am not married to, how do I deal with the situation of sex when it comes up? Most people nowdays expect to have sex way before they marry , if they bother too marry at all. I am no saint but have learned the hard way not to sell myself cheap. I will not be used again and have never gotten a man to commit to me by having sex with him. I can take out the subject inmy profile, but how and when do I tell any perspective man there will be no sex with out marriage? I don't know that saying I am old fashioned would work because alot of people say they are old fashion (including guys) but they still expect sex. sex is important to me, but so is having someone to grow old with and the acceptance of my family and child and not living in an immoral relationship.

2007-03-25 04:59:18 · 5 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 04:57:10 · 7 answers · asked by hotlipsjulie 1 in Weddings

ok so i still really like my ex alot but we had to brake up cause my parents almost found out n im not aloud to date!!
but i still really do like him. but now there is a chance he might be moving...should i still try to get him and gou back out with him...or should i move on from him and find somebody else? please help meh...thanks!! =]

2007-03-25 04:56:59 · 10 answers · asked by Brooke H 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl. but she says she doesnt want to ruin our friendship by going out with me? whats that mean she told me she liked me once but then said it wasnt true and didnt want to ruin our friendship. i really like her and i need to know what to do

2007-03-25 04:55:47 · 6 answers · asked by TG 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 04:54:41 · 9 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems my fiancee dont have time for me we made a programme to meet but he cancelled that as he was too preoccupied in his work. It always happen like this either we dont meet or meet for an hour or so. I am feeling neglected

2007-03-25 04:54:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont know what to be because I want to get attention from some boys I am new at my school

2007-03-25 04:53:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he doesnt wnt to leave the house.untill my still mum with us,he said .he just leave the house together with my mum.they are no work,my husband the one who feed them.he stay ni my house almost a year,without a asking permision

2007-03-25 04:52:50 · 6 answers · asked by marlene_legaspi 1 in Family

how do you know if you are in love? how do you know if the other person means it?

2007-03-25 04:52:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one second he's telling me he still loves me, then the other second he's an *** he's then screaming at me and like calling me names, but then the next day he's all nice to me telling me how sorry he was for being rude and blaming it for being high and drunk, wat should i do?? what does this mean?

2007-03-25 04:52:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so there is this guy that sort of likes me but these other girls like him. He just broke up with his girlfriend and he is the most popular guy at school. These other 3 girls like him, and his girlfriend still likes him. The 3 girls are all friends and they think he is completely in love with them. So on Friday my friend and I called him and asked if he liked those 3 girls. He said he didn't like any of them and thought they were all ugly. So if he likes me all of those 3 girls (1 of them is my friend) will hate me. What should I do? Please no rude comments.
Bella

2007-03-25 04:51:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im 15 and only 4'11 and i dont weigh very much but im not super skinny either. One of my guy friends told me that most guys dont like girls my size. Can you tell me if this is true and if so why?

2007-03-25 04:50:37 · 11 answers · asked by southern belle <3 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 04:49:49 · 12 answers · asked by stephen h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

while your opening the other gifts?

2007-03-25 04:47:42 · 27 answers · asked by amor1954 2 in Weddings

Why is it that when you lose the one u love u think of all the things you coulda done? My man of 6 years is leaving me and we have a child together. He says all i do is nag, well he hasn't had a job in 3 years except for hit and miss. But i love him and we have a 4 yr old son together. Worst of all he is interested in another woman which makes me feel worse. I have devoted my time and love to him and took care of him and repays me by saying i will stay until i finish remodeling your house and then i am out of here. House has dangerous soft spots in floor. My heart is aching. What should i do? Help! This girl he says he is only friends with right now and i caught him with her, just talking but it was the two of them alone. He promised me he would not have any contact with her. Of course, i tried to physically assault her and he pinned me to the floor in a choke hold until she safely got away. Now What? Do i just let him throw away the last 6 years of my life?

2007-03-25 04:47:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is such a hottie but I almost fainted when he asked plz help me!!!!!!!

2007-03-25 04:47:34 · 20 answers · asked by Kiki M 1 in Singles & Dating