Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

3 yrs ago I met a person online. We have since become good friends. We share life stories and secrets and exchange funny emails. I am a married female and this person said they were a single male. We knew we would never meet so the subject of romance was never an issue. We just never talked about it.
Recently, this person has confessed they are really a lesbian female and they have always had romantic feelings for me but never said so before for fear of scaring me away.
I am now confused. I understood we were just friends in any case but now things have changed. This person is always wanting to call me and bugging me to go visit them (in another state). I am not going to see them and that makes them even more obsessive.
What should i do? Am I over reacting?

2007-03-25 05:20:43 · 23 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

I'm the kind of person that has a really pretty face, but a big nose(I swear it was due to chernobyl). It also makes me look more mature from the sides and is not very asymetric at the bottom becuase I got it cut open as a child(3 year olds and small objects don't mix). So I've always wanted a nose job to help me feel more pretty but have been afraid to do it becuase I thought guys wouldn't want to be with me because they would think I was fake or high maintanice. Would a guy not want to be with me because part of my outer beauty is...surgacially achieved? I feel that you only life once so if you want to do something you should just do it....but I don't forever want to be labeled as fake becuase of this....

2007-03-25 05:20:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just met this girl in school 2 weeks ago and she sits behind me in one class. How do I get her to like me?

2007-03-25 05:20:14 · 10 answers · asked by anthonygiancana 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 05:20:05 · 5 answers · asked by Bobbii 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like a guy so much.he makes many girlfriends and now he says i'm his 1st.i notice he's taking special interest in me.i love him so much.what do i do?

2007-03-25 05:19:44 · 13 answers · asked by rose 1 in Friends

2007-03-25 05:19:44 · 18 answers · asked by say whatt?? 2 in Singles & Dating

My buds feeling down and just flat out not confident in himself,, lemme know waht you think, and if it seems like a good outcome I'll show him this and maybe it'll up his spirit.

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2007-03-25 05:19:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is an out going guy and is crazy about music but i think he has enough cd's already.

2007-03-25 05:18:00 · 14 answers · asked by Charity T 1 in Singles & Dating

I just need it all the time.

2007-03-25 05:17:51 · 11 answers · asked by munnkei 2 in Singles & Dating

What should i do when a guy askes me out like in 5 times!!!!??
But i don't know if i like him or not b'coz he is a real well you could say bad boy...

What should i do!?!?!?

2007-03-25 05:16:43 · 9 answers · asked by Veronica V 2 in Singles & Dating

I might just be being paranoid but I feel like my Mum pays too much attention to my spots. Whenever one appears she's like 'oh, it has to be squeezed' and I know they shouldn't unless they have a big white head on them.. Then they grow into a huge scab and they wouldn't have done if she'd have just left them. I know I shouldn't but sometimes I pick them when I get really agitated with my work and she's now decided that if I pick one she's going to stop my pocket money for a month - FOR JUST PICKING ONE.
She also insists that she cleanses my face everyday and puts some Quinoderm on. I am 13 and I'm quite capable of looking after myself...
I guess she means well and she just wants me to not have any spots but do you think she's going the best way about it? What can I do (I mean about my Mum not the spots - I can sort those out)? I generally have a really good relationship with my Mum and I don't want to stop that but this is just really getting me down..

Lorna

2007-03-25 05:16:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

strange. She doesn't return my calls or even call me to just talk. Im confused in wondering if she is worth it or what i should do, maybe talk to her. Suggestions?

2007-03-25 05:15:44 · 16 answers · asked by PETER Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

when i was 13 we start relationship ,am 21 now and he more and more talk about marriage.when i was young i falll in love with him,I was just a child.That relationship still works,i care about him,but I dont feel true love like before.I have some other guys exepct him ,I am good looking so i have lots of guys around me.I wanna space and i cant tell him that.I dont know can I even live without him and in the same time i wanna be free.So ,to brake up or married at him.I just dont know what to do.PLEASE HELP!

2007-03-25 05:14:51 · 13 answers · asked by gordana s 1 in Singles & Dating

Is black mens good lovers or white men .

2007-03-25 05:13:48 · 6 answers · asked by big bear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Back in February I started talking to a guy that I met through my friend, who had a huge crush on him and still does. As he got to know me he was impressed by my personality and began to tell my friend that he thought I was amazing. She told me he liked me and she got really jealous, but I assured her I had no intention of getting with him (I really didn't like him that much; from first impressions). But as I got to know him better (in more recent times) I'm finding that I actually have fallen for him and he likes me as much or more than I like him. He tells me he's sprung off of me. And I can really see a relationship with him working because of our similar interests and personalities... but is this right? My friend still likes him and I promised her I wouldn't ever like him that way without knowing if I really would... so now how do I break it to her? Or should I even? We'd have to hide our relationship from our friends if we got together and I see one coming... help >_<

2007-03-25 05:13:05 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-25 05:12:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 05:12:17 · 13 answers · asked by ~Sarah~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got this email from my ex. I still love him, but I don't like his attitude. What do you think?
I don't want to have to feel like I have to call you because I feel forced. Our conversations don't feel the same way to me as before. I feel strained. This is partly because it is not important to me, I find myself running out of minutes. Maybe I am being heavy handed, but I cannot give you the time you want and the ability to say I can call you at this time. I would rather say, let me get back to you when I feel comfortable, rather than, tomorrow, because I know tomorrow I am going to be busy. There is no rush, either, to do anything, and if there was a rush, I would really need a good explanation...
I do not want the responsibility of being the reason you are visiting NYC. What do you want now, out of our conversations? Be clear. Right now I feel there is nothing to be had except that we had a history. I know what I want. I want to stay in touch and feel good when I speak to you.

2007-03-25 05:12:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A while ago, my ex (while we were still going out) asked me this: "When you look at me, what do you see?" and needless to say, I was like "wtf." So my question remains: why must women ask such pointless questions?! Is it to put us on the spot? Are they bored and just feel like toying with us? Or something else? Do they actually expect us to give the answer they're looking for? I wouldn't be surprised if they WERE toying with us to see us squirm under the pressure...

2007-03-25 05:11:59 · 1 answers · asked by Ryan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-25 05:11:49 · 9 answers · asked by Bo jangles 1 in Family

Yesterday this guy told me that he liked me. I should have been able to like him back. But when he told me how he felt, i suddenly realised that i liked this other guy because all i could think about was him. I have no idea how he feels about me, but i need to know now. Im thinking of calling him and asking him to meet me somewhere so that i can tell him how i feel. Is this a good idea? What should i do?

2007-03-25 05:11:28 · 6 answers · asked by Cheergirl<3 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy alot but im to shy to go up or say hi to him he is also on my bus what should i do please help

2007-03-25 05:11:17 · 6 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3 in Singles & Dating

When I first met het, I used to tease her and the like, I made a complete *** of myself. As I spent more time arround her though, I started to realy like her. it took me nearly two years to bring her arround, and we're going out now, we realy like each other, but her parents heard nothing good about me for the longest, and they seem to be stuck in a "he's evil" mentality. Her mom's started putting restrictions on how long we can talk, and making it damn near impossible for me to ever see her. So, my question is simple, how can I convince her parents that I'm not a problem?

2007-03-25 05:11:13 · 5 answers · asked by wolfwood 1 in Singles & Dating

I needed an opinion on this situation from an outside perspective. I'm a sophomore in college and have been dating a guy for abut 2.5 years now. I love him, we get along really well, my parents love him, his love me etc. However he goes to another school, so I only get to see him during breaks (about 4 months out of the year). The problem is there is another guy I met last year who I had been close friends with since then. I knew he liked me at first, but I thought we got past this. The thing is, I've gotten more comfortable with my close friend than my boyfriend. My boyfriend has never been a really open person and there's sone things I haven't been able to tell him. My close friend however knows everything and still likes me. I also feel like at the moment there's better chemistry between my close friend and me. I don't know if it's just because of the distance from my boyfriend, or the fact that this is new that I sometime feel like I would rather be w/ the other guy. Any advice?

2007-03-25 05:10:59 · 2 answers · asked by this is how it works... 1 in Singles & Dating

I need help!!! *~*~*!
I broke up with him because he hardly talks to me....even in skool (im in highskool) This is like our 4th or 5th time goin out. now he hates me i think i no why but im not sure. He wont text me.... i tried to get over him but, i cant...so dont say just forget him cause it's not that easy....................Please help me!!!!!

2007-03-25 05:09:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw the mistakes in my decide...my wife only think about money. may be have 90% her worries .She think a lot of reasons to complaint me.that why i feel i'm falling. help me!

2007-03-25 05:07:14 · 11 answers · asked by hoang t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been chatting online w/ this girl for about a week. I have met her in the past and now would like to start hanging out w/ her. I asked her about her cell number, but she said she didn't have one yet since she didn't have a job. Could I say the following and she could give me her home telephone number so that we could meet up sometimes....


I’ma on my way to work, but if you’d like, I didn’t mention my #, (00000 cell) call me later if you’d like, I should be able to talk after 6 or you can give me your # and I can call, however you’d like :) and lets see if we can try to schedule to meet up sometime to at least propertly meet sometime this week or something.

PS. She does like me.

How does this sound? How should i type it up to her?


THanks!

2007-03-25 05:06:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 05:06:12 · 25 answers · asked by lkl01 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like to take my inflatable doll GF train spotting as she loves steam engines, normally she stays in my haversack with my marmite sarnies, but last night at Crewe she insisted on coming out onto the platform, that's when the trouble started, SHE was the one that instigated sex but I was the one arrested!!!! £200 fine AND I missed the 11.05 from wigan!!! What new hobby do you think we could take up? (bearing in mind that she is scared of heights).

2007-03-25 05:05:51 · 37 answers · asked by Floppy Dick 2 in Singles & Dating

Pls advise

2007-03-25 05:05:12 · 9 answers · asked by Sina 1 in Friends