How to forget an EX?!?

Question

I need help!!! *~*~*!
I broke up with him because he hardly talks to me....even in skool (im in highskool) This is like our 4th or 5th time goin out. now he hates me i think i no why but im not sure. He wont text me.... i tried to get over him but, i cant...so dont say just forget him cause it's not that easy....................Please help me!!!!!

Answer 1

The only reason you can't forget him is because you keep holding on to your dream that somehow YOU were going to be the ONE he'd open up to and share his life story with.

Sounds like boyfriend has some issues. Unless you want to be a puppy on a string and go through lots of pain, let it all go. He just wants attention - most likely he acted all pouty when he didn't get his way with his mom and she, of course, put up with it because she's MOM. Now that he's getting older, he is just looking for a girlfriend/mom to comfort him.

You don't need that.

Answer 2

Well healing a heart takes time and very small steps. You have to try dating other people. Avoid going to the same places and hanging out with the same people. Make new friends. If you still want him back after a while then you have to show that your still alive. Enjoying life and a lot of fun. It will be more attractive to him if you are positive about yourself and not negative. If you are meant to be together then it will happen, if not then move on with life.

Answer 3

honestly there's not magic cure but time itself and depending on the emotional effect he's having on you it could take weeks or months but hopefully not a year. The best way is to go out with other guys and over the course of time things will fade a bit.

Answer 4

if you want to be with someone who doesnt want yo back, the best thing for you to do is take care of yourself. think about what you're doing before you do it. If you feel like you're going to call or text, and know he doesnt want to talk, its like you're setting yourself up to get hurt again so dont do it.

try to get out of the habit of going back to him because YOU have to be in control of you. If he knows what he's doing to you then he has the advantage and can hurt you again. If you leave it alone and live life to be happy again, he'll realize what he lost

Answer 5

i wont say forget him.. because i kno better than that its hard it relly is .. it all depends on how much you liked him and im sorry to say this but if you relly did like him and if you still see him around it WILL BE HARD AS HELL.... don't try to get him off you'r mind even though you feel like you should because..


" IF YOU CANT GET SUMONE OFF YOUR MIND

THEN MAYBE THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE THERE"

dont hurt yourself by making you forget about him.. because as time goes someone else will come to your life and lucky for you this year is almost in end.. so someone else will come (even though it will take time) and you will soon be forgettin about him SLOWLY BUT SURELY

yeah im speaking from experience....it took me 2 years but im finally gettin it

Answer 6

Keep yourself busy. Don't think about him or reminisce any good times or any of his good points. Talk with other guys but do not bring him up. Just think that there are lotsa guys better trhan him.

Answer 7

Change your picture on line and don't make the moves too fast. Maybe you're scaring him!

Answer 8

Hey its easy!!! Find a new bf and concentrate your energies on him and you will soon get over the old one.....

Answer 9

honey, take a weekend with the girls and take a road trip. it would do wonders.

Answer 10

Just find a new fella. You will be A-OK