i like a guy so much.he makes many girlfriends and now he says i'm his 1st.i notice he's taking special interest in me.i love him so much.what do i do?
2007-03-25 05:19:44 · 13 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You say , you love him so much.
What qualities in him made you love him?
When we consider anything in this world. It will have both good and bad sides.Right??
You are a girl.I just want to say ' you are the only person responsible for your protection'.
You tell that he makes many girl friends. I suppose,you don't like him having other girlfriends or talking to him.I'm I right?
Just talking or being 'only friends ' is not wrong, as in my view.
He also said that you are the first. This statement can be explained in a different way.
i.e, you are the first and someone is the second, then someone else third,fourth.....etc.(it may not be true. but there is a chance)
Find out what he really wants.
Be sure about his love.
Are you 100% sure that he won't leave you in trouble?
(Ask him about marrying you.
Tell him that you are going to talk about him to your parents.
Notice his response......
If he loves you that much, he will be interested in that.
If he says no need to tell them, its not the time or something like that, and compel you for physical needs,you need to be better careful.)
What I had put in the bracket is a small experiment...Result can be good or terrible. Think it and do it...
Even if, you both are willing for a life together, you need a way to meet your expenditure.
You must get a job and keep your life safe.
Try your best not to hurt your parents.
Being in love is not at all wrong. You are a teenager. Love at this time is not a matter of surprise.
What I have to tell you is :
Tomorrow , you must not bring a chance to blame your own activities of today.
See, we normal human beings cannot read others mind exactly, even though our some guess can be true.
The world we see around is not a world,only of happiness and success. We should be conscious about what is happening around us.
We can read many incidents in the newspapers.
I'm not making you frightened or tensed.
But, I want your goodness.
If you are that much sure that his love is true, real and trustful.
Accept him.
Be careful about your experiment,observation and inference.
One more question which I had asked you earlier.
Do you really love him?????
Think about the future.......!!!
THINK DEEPLY.......
' I'm I going in right path?'
Choose the right man....!!!
I'll never say he is bad.
May be,he will be one you can trust the most in your life.
But, a coin is having two sides.Is it not?
I hope you understood.
Take time.
And take a decision.
But be sure that it is the right one...
May your dreams come out in flying colors......
EXPERIENCE IS A GOOD TEACHER.(In my case, it is true)
From
A well wisher
2007-03-25 18:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rose,
In future he will be a thorn with the Rose as you are Rose.
Knowing that he has many gril friends why you are after him.
You can't change his mentality of keeping girl friends if you want to you will get a good and loyal boy friend than him.
Other wise ditch your self and argree to his propsal.
I advise you not to compromise. Be no 1 in ones life for ever and ever.
2007-03-26 03:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by RUBY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing , if you are not 25 years of age.
This the time to study hard, build a carrier and play some. Enjoy the youth, it comes only once, once it is gone it is gone for ever.
If you are 25 then think like 21St. century girl, no pain no gain, find out what is on his mind and let him know how you feel.
If it does not work out and when you are over it.
Try.
yayoo.shaadii.com
2007-03-25 12:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you gotta choose: pride or love? However, seems to me like the guy ain't got respect for girls . If you're up for this kinda game, sure you can be his girl but if real love is what you're expecting from him you should think about it carefully before you get into anything .
2007-03-25 12:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the brakes on Honey. You are rushing head long into a heartache
2007-03-25 15:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take seriously girl. You cant love a boy who is a flirt.Its INFATUATION!
2007-03-25 12:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Goosebump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your time together and see where it goes.
2007-03-25 12:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Experience the Casanova..! If you can live with it.
2007-03-26 05:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by jammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept his love..
2007-03-25 16:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by handsom_from_pune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a playboy.......but you can try out the relationship but be more careful and don't be too serious as well
2007-03-25 12:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by chain y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋