Yesterday this guy told me that he liked me. I should have been able to like him back. But when he told me how he felt, i suddenly realised that i liked this other guy because all i could think about was him. I have no idea how he feels about me, but i need to know now. Im thinking of calling him and asking him to meet me somewhere so that i can tell him how i feel. Is this a good idea? What should i do?
2007-03-25 05:11:28 · 6 answers · asked by Cheergirl<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure. Not like you are married or anything. But you shouldn't be stringing the other guy along until you find out how the other guy feels. That is just wrong and you know it.
2007-03-25 05:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's some ways to figure it out~
1.) You can call him at like 4 in the morning and he's there to listen to any of your silly problems that you can't go to sleep
2.) He's always doing odd jobs for you parents or something even if its really time-consuming and doesn't complain at all! Then of course he's into you!
3.) If he tries on your friends good sides, thats totally another sign. That can push your friends to encourage you to go out with him. He's probably getting to your friends to get to YOU!
4.) He can tell you anything, and show his sensible side. That means he isn't afraid to open up to you and wants you to see that he can be emotional and worth falling in love with.
5.) He gets a little tense when you are around guys, or talking about them. Or if you just had a bad experience with one, he'll look all ready to kick his butt. And he'll always say, "You deserve better." Obviously, he's saying that he's the one you deserve!
So...does he check off all these signs? He luvs ya!!
But watch out! Here are the signs that he just wants to be friends.
1.) He burps or acts the way he would act around his guy friends around you.
2.) He doesn't care to just come out and tell you your outfit's ugly or whatever
3.) He is always talking about your friend, which can probably mean that he wants your friend, not you!!
Hope diz helps~! =]
The Fab Source~
CosmoGirl! Issue February 2007
2007-03-25 12:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by j.adore♥pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats way too brutal. if some guy JUST told you he likes you and then u get a boyfriend, that would crush him so badly. get a heart. wait a few weeks and then meet up with the guy you like and tell him. thats really not cool to just as soon as he tells his feelings for you to go out with someone else. how would you like it if you met this guy told him how u felt, he didnt return it, and then went out with some other girl IMMEDIATELY? horrible, thats how. so have a heart.
2007-03-25 12:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by ჯ Demi ჯ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calling a guy up and telling him you like him may scare him away. Why don't you call him and ask him on a date, see a movie or something not so serious, and after a few dates, (if it gets that far) tell him you really like him.
2007-03-25 12:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him.
I hope you assert yourself. What's the worst thing that could happen?
(really, it's rhetoric, but I know you have answers to that but is the fear of rejection greater than the feelings you have for him?)
follow your bliss (sounds like he's yours, this other guy. really, i don't think he's 'the other guy'. perhaps he really is the guy)
2007-03-25 12:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by ficklefeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him!! You know you do just call him and tell him!!
2007-03-25 12:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋