Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

We meet every Tuesday to talk about different things, like work, spouse, children, grandchildren, current events. We also attend plays go to the movies, have parties, and birthday dinners on a club member's birthday. We are looking for a name that would fit. We are all Africian American between the ages of 34-73 The children are 6 and 2.

2007-03-25 05:56:59 · 11 answers · asked by Raybay 1 in Friends

2007-03-25 05:56:38 · 14 answers · asked by Cam 2 in Family

I want to have a very healthy relationship that based on trust and honesty...WHen times that i feel jealous..Whats the best thing to do????I know sometimes it is so inevitable feeling.

2007-03-25 05:56:27 · 7 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 05:56:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend's name is Kris. We've been dating now for 6 months and we are in love. In the beginning of our relationship, we'd send each other msgs through our phones hourly. To see what each other was doing, how their day was going, etc. Now, he doesn't even answer some of my msgs. I realize that the "honeymoon" phase is probably over, but I'm taking it as him not caring.
Also, we barely get to spend time with one another. I spend just about every night at his apartment, but we work late and I arrive at his place around 10 or 11 and we go to bed an hour later. Lately, he's been wanting or in my opinon he'd rather spend time with his friends than me. Going out to bars and what have you and coming home at 1 or 2 in the morning.
I really want to settle down and I'm looking at the relationship as a potential marriage in the future. He has given me hints (some suddle some not so suddle) that he has thought of me as his future wife but he doesnt show he truly loves me. How do I find out?

2007-03-25 05:56:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently hooked up with a guy on valentines day of this year. We both live in a TINY town and I go to a different school (charter school) and he goes to the normal high school. I am very very out-going, love to talk. He is very quiet, but he is also a pleasure when he talks. We talk on the phone more then anything. Recently one of his close friends got in trouble (big trouble, not drugs etc.) and I have heard that he kind of previously knew about it, and conspired w/ it until he knew exactly what the friend was doing. I don't want a guy who conspires w/ things that are bad like that. Its hard to hang out when we both have busy schedules. But we are very close at the moment. What should I do to make the realtionship stronger?

2007-03-25 05:55:45 · 3 answers · asked by Becca C 1 in Singles & Dating

The bride is allergic to almost all flowers, and were looking for other ideas.

2007-03-25 05:55:41 · 16 answers · asked by firecracker 2 in Weddings

This is what happens whenever i don't talk to her she says Katie why are you mad at me and i didn't even do anything? And before this she said that she wanted me to jump off a bridge and break my neck and die. And she's always sending me messages and i've also deleted her from my contacts list. She always bothers me in school too!!!!!!!! Why is she bothering me so much?

2007-03-25 05:55:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

that if a guy really cares for you and loves you, he'll wait. I want to wait til marriage to have sex. But seems that the guys I meet are nice and stuff, but they are also oversexed and keep bringing it up. Are there any guys out there who want to get know a girl as a person and not just her body.

2007-03-25 05:55:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 year old male, I act very mature mature for my age, none of the kids at school aren't interested in the things I am.

2007-03-25 05:55:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, I haven't been seen her more than 2 years, which is after I went out of army, and her race is Indian, honestly, she love to smile, but she don't smile much and never show her teeth, probably because she don't like to be in photos. What I can't forget about her is her smile. Someday if I wanna fix a date to meet her, I will love to take photos and using camcorder to video her, do you think she will smile? cause I don't even know how to make girls smile, and her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before. (She never wore braces.)

2007-03-25 05:55:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She wants me to watch but I am not allowed to join in. She is afraid I might be more pleased by another woman than her.

2007-03-25 05:55:01 · 16 answers · asked by rgrship 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When a former girlfriend of mine was stretching in a sundress in front of a window with the sun shinning in bright that in turn created a silhouette around her perfect body. We had not become girlfriend and boyfriend until that moment. Needless to say we had a passionate love affair that lasted for a solid six months. It was so sexy. What about you? What was the most innocent, yet sexy sight you've ever had the privilege of witnessing?

2007-03-25 05:53:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so I like this guy...and a few weeks ago I was sitting in class talking to some of my friends and all of a sudden him and a bunch of his friends walk up to me and they say "he has something to say..." and then he said real quiet (his face was turning red) "i love you..." and I just sat there and said " what the hell?!" and they all walked back to thier seats and i was left dumbfounded and a little freaked out.
later on one of his freinds told me they didnt dare him to do it, he just got up and said it to try to make this guy that liked me that was sitting next to me at the time ticked off. and his freind also told me that right after he said that thing to me he said " i dunno why I just said that..."
wow. this dude is really hard to understand.
does he like me?! why would he say something like that?!
I asked him online but he never answered..
???

P.S, It was a bit of an awkward turnoff...ugh.

2007-03-25 05:50:49 · 15 answers · asked by sunny_babeh 2 in Singles & Dating

So.. i have been trying to mend my so called broken heart by getting very drunk lately.. seeing more friends.. spilling my heart to them and letting myself "enjoy" partying and being free and single.
BUT
all these new guys and getting drunk and parties make me realise just how much i need to be with my ex and how much he made my life meaningful and how he has changed me.
last night after another night of "fun" i was talking to this cute guy and he kissed me but all i could think of is how much i wish my ex was with me here instead of this.. how mush more every kiss meant and how now everything means nothing without him!
how could he just throw away our love and relationship for that 5 min buzz you get from being with other girls or the ego boost.
He knows and everyone does that he is using them and its meaningless.. to him.
and to me.. sitting here im lost i dont know who i am anymore.. im not myself.. no hes gone so many questions unanswered.
i feel so empty and dead inside.

2007-03-25 05:50:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and i used to have a good sex life but now she seems to enjoy not putting out. She has lost interest in many other aspects of the relationship too. should i just spare myself the risk of insanity as i watch my married life go to ****, or should i keep asking "whats wrong with this picture?" till she gives me an answer? I'm about ready to just divorce her and let her find someone that can put up with her wierdness, but that is hard to do with a 4 year old kid

2007-03-25 05:49:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 05:49:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I have a Friend ... She is dating this guy that she knew that I really like... should I be mad, sad or supportive and why should I feel that way? Do I have a choice to be mad??? Becuase I feel like i have no choice to be.
Thanks

2007-03-25 05:49:23 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having a matron and maid of honor. He is having 2 Best Men. Also 8 bridesmaids and 8 groomsmen. There are 4 flower girls, ring bearer, and broom carrier. Plus the hostesses and ushers. So I am looking at about 30 people. How many did you have or planning to have? Just Asking

2007-03-25 05:49:20 · 20 answers · asked by Lady L 2 in Weddings

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month an a week.We both often joke about our ex's and stuff and i dont like it when he jokes about his and he dosen't like it when i joke about mine..I also often find myself just wondering about him because he has cheated on quite a few of his previous girlfriends. I trust him but i think im scared of really letting myself like him as much as i want to because i don't want to start liking him like alot alot and then have him cheat on me. I don't want to feel that way because i know that he woulden't cheat on me but im just scared of liking him alot.

2007-03-25 05:48:56 · 18 answers · asked by Tattianna 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont want this to sound to fruity
but i like this guy and he wanted to ask me out but hes to shy to do so,
so i gave his friend my myspace to give to my love,
the thing is that im so unexperienced... hes my first love
what if he does asks me out and i say yes, what do i do next
i mean how do i do the move to kiss him or what should we talk about,
i know you guys must be thinking "crap another love story" but i need advice,
im 14, hes 14 too... any advice

2007-03-25 05:48:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother in Sweden is getting married soon. Im his best man and im going there for his wedding and i want to give them a unique weeding gift from Quebec or Canada.
Any ideas on what, or ideas for good stores?

2007-03-25 05:46:58 · 3 answers · asked by regretoverthewires 1 in Weddings

ok so i like this one guy and i know for sure he likes me back cuz we told eachother. We are not going out, but we used to talk a lot...i mean alot! Now we havent really talked as much. Yesterday we were on aim and suddenly he just logged off without saying bye or anything...that made me wonder...today hes on aim rite now and i just said hi but he hasnt responded...its been a while now. My question is why is he doing this?? is he trying to avoid me or wat??! or does he not like me anymore? im so confused right now. It makes me sad to think about this but i just want to know what is going on. At one point when we used to be talking at night he used to say "he loved me"...but i dont know if he really meant. im confused and i need help please. Thanks and sorry for the long question.

2007-03-25 05:46:45 · 8 answers · asked by yowhatup=) 4 in Singles & Dating

he is an out going guy and is crazy about music but i think he has enough cd's already.

2007-03-25 05:46:44 · 7 answers · asked by Charity T 1 in Singles & Dating

We went out for almost 2 years. It's been six months and i'm still so much in love with him. We kinda started talking again, but not a lot. He told me he was going to take me on a date soon just to see how things were. He hasn't yet. He is seeing this freshman girl and i don't think she is that pretty, i kinda asked him what she has that i don't and he said it's not what she has it's what she has in common with you. But he told me he likes her alot and doesn't want to mess it up. His friends are always telling me that he acts like he doesn't even like her and treats her like she's just another girl. I don't know what to do..i miss him more than anything and i want him back....but at the same time i don't cause i'm having so much fun dating other people and i got asked to prom by a guy i'm starting to really like. When me and him were going out he didn't like the kid that asked me to prom so that will just not be good. What do I do???

2007-03-25 05:46:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a 25 yo girl at church last month. she seems confident and she keeps wanting to start a conversations with me.

She asked for my email and phone number one night which I politely gave her so she can send me additional info on the group which she did. why did she need my phone number?

Last week when she was leaving church with her friends she told me we can have coffee to discuss anything. I took no notice at the time.

Last night I saw her at church gathering. We made about 5 silent eye contacts in which she keeps looking away. She started small talk with me again. During the night I notice we kept making silent eye contacts. She would look away quickly. but when she was leaving she hardly gave me a nice goodbye like she did with everyone else.

This girls actions are confusing... is this normal religious behaviour?

2007-03-25 05:45:46 · 13 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for over a year. He recently lost his dad and made a major career change. He is the best friend that I have ever had and I love him more than anything. Lately he has been pushing me away because he says he needs time to deal with whats happening in his life...which is very hard for me to do because I want to be there for him but I now understand that he just needs time alone.

Should I suggest that we go on a break until he has had more time to think about whats happening with him and is ready to be us again?? I do not want to date anyone else but I do not know what else to do...any advice is greatly appreciated!

2007-03-25 05:45:10 · 20 answers · asked by missbee 2 in Singles & Dating

i don't wanna go to my friends house even though i told him i would. we're both 13/14. i need an excuse that won't have him questioning me.

2007-03-25 05:45:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What is it Exactly their wanting you to Do

It's True, I'm a Big Flirt & When I Do Find Someone I Like I Really Let them Know it(& Sometimes that works)

But Sometimes I'm Told to Slow Down
is it that they want to do some of the Chasing ?

What Can I Do To Still Keep things moving
But Not Chase em Away

& Just How Should I Handle that when I Here it
(I Admit, I'm A Lot Like "OK You'l Do Lets Try it For A While)

2007-03-25 05:44:53 · 5 answers · asked by forgivenbadboy 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends and I noticed and increase of married guys seeking young girlfriends from Philippines in online asian dating. Most of them are from America. Do American women being so bad to them, to make those men have to fly all the way to Manilla to get their happiness with young Filipinas.

2007-03-25 05:44:33 · 8 answers · asked by angelkiss30s 1 in Marriage & Divorce